This Hobby maybe growing beyond my means

The bottom line to everything is a individual has to operate within their means on both sides of the coin. Most so called tried true providers ECCIE based usually have higher donation levels than say many of your Backpage, SipSap, etc. providers. Hell I just got one of the the best blow jobs ever, talk about a girl that can deep throat like a Hoover, from a decent looking Tulane Ave. street walker for $30 every now and then you can find a diamond in the rough. I say you have to shop around within your means, and with a tighter economy down the road the bottom line is still supply and demand as in money available to play with. As times get tougher you see more women out here tricking for the first time, that never thought they would have to do such, and this is where you find your real bargains. It takes a little skill to sift through the ads, and stay away from the bait and switch, up sell traps, etc., but I have always had reasonable success on Backpage. When Santa/Ella is pushing talent you can very seldom go wrong for $200, and then their are a hand full that pop up mostly on weekends, that go from $125-$160 many you can get a decent quick session for less than a $100. I have often thought about the pressure of the hobby from the providers side and that is at (X) donation rate you have to fuck and suck (Y) clients to make (Z) your monthly expenses. I would hate to know what it felt like on a Friday, knowing I had to suck at least 10 cocks over the next 2 days inorder to pay my rent Monday, so as a dawg you have to realize the provider is trying to make ends meet in many cases, in what is ofyen a very competitive market.

I calculated that by using only 1 WEEKEND date night. $36 for dinner for two + $15 for 1 movie + $5 gas. 4.5 x 56= $252! Originally Posted by november24

Damn, you're a cheap date!

... grandfather, or drop the rate once we are familiar. Originally Posted by Zada Knight

To screen the unknown is time-consuming for the diligent providers and once the provider is comfortable with a repeat client, then that effort is less taxing.

I can't research BP enough to satisfy my common sense. Originally Posted by Brmike1963

The point of this board or hobby is not to make friends with the providers. Originally Posted by disilene

I disagree. The point of the board and hobby is to find pleasurable experiences within one's price range, which is tigerman's lament.

As for making friends, the problem is not with the making of friends, rather the problem is when one believes that the making of friends with a provider supplants the number one rule which is: The hobby is business FIRST. Those who make friends and respect the number one rule can have good friendships. Those who make friends thinking their newfound friendship moves the number one rule to a secondary position, well, therein is found their error.

Wow, This thread has grown beyond my wildest expectations. Never would I have thought that I would have been responsible for such a thought provoking topic. Originally Posted by tigerman1965

No man is an island... ijs.

I gave up being a bitch for Lent, but I couldn't imagine where he is taking his dates for dinner!

Damn, you're a cheap date!



To screen the unknown is time-consuming for the diligent providers and once the provider is comfortable with a repeat client, then that effort is less taxing.







I disagree. The point of the board and hobby is to find pleasurable experiences within one's price range, which is tigerman's lament.

As for making friends, the problem is not with the making of friends, rather the problem is when one believes that the making of friends with a provider supplants the number one rule which is: The hobby is business FIRST. Those who make friends and respect the number one rule can have good friendships. Those who make friends thinking their newfound friendship moves the number one rule to a secondary position, well, therein is found their error.



No man is an island... ijs. Originally Posted by ufriend2912

I think both Unfriend and Heidi both missed the part of my post where I said BARE MINIMUM example. In fact, I said it TWICE. I think most people here got the point I was trying to make.

That's all I have to say about that...Until lent is over

I think both Unfriend and Heidi both missed the part of my post where I said BARE MINIMUM example. In fact, I said it TWICE. I think most people here got the point I was trying to make. Originally Posted by november24

I think both Unfriend and Heidi both missed the part of my post where I said BARE MINIMUM example. In fact, I said it TWICE. I think most people here got the point I was trying to make. Originally Posted by november24

Often the reader of written communication cannot recognize when one's tongue is in one's cheek, and thus (as society has lost the grace of thoughtful prose) many have employed the superfluous use of "LOL" at the end of one's own satire, which I chose not to do for (apparently, not so) obvious reasons.

(translation into "tard": I saw the ALL CAPS [twice!], yet you missed the humor.)

It seems as if he goes dutch.

This has quickly turned into the kind of pointless conversation I don't participate in. Everyone have a nice day.