The irony. Dawgs sit around and dish the shit about this and that provider. We rate their performance, their looks, how "real" their fake O is, and how "fresh" it tastes. A hobbyist gets offended when a provider says I don't want to see you because you're a minority.
Dawgs discriminate on a daily basis on more than just race.
If you feel like a particular establishment or provider is racist, spend your money elsewhere. If I see a "NO AA" tag, I move on. It's that simple. Does it bother me, sometimes, but this is a very "personal" business. I personally can't see a session being that great when the woman who is providing the session doesn't dig "your kind."
That said, I do agree with OP. Black men, get your shit together because you're fuckin' it up for the rest of us.