I have a name...and it's Samantha.

Puuuhhlease! Sweetheart, don't be judgmental. Your concerns should be if a gentleman arrives with the proper donation and treats you with the utmost respect. Referring to you as "baby" should be the very least of your worries. I have been called "sweetie" by both BP and Eccie providers and while I personally didn't like it being so cliche, it wasn't a deal-breaker. As long as I get good service, a lady can call me baby, sugar, honey, hun, sweetie, daddy or whatever. Originally Posted by greedy

It is the very least of my worries, Greedy! My regulars call me that sometime and I don't mind it at all. They are very respectful. But I know them...and they never bother me with long, never-ending e-mails like the particular case I was speaking of. Again...it's the context.

Maybe kiddo would remind you of years gone by???

Here we are debating the finer points of Amy Vanderbilt in an underworld of strange and strangers......just classic.

...Again...it's the context. Originally Posted by samantha thom

I think, in context, this has been a very good threAD for the lady whose name we all know quite well.

But what a crock...

First we are treated to a brief rant on what amounts to a personal pet peeve. It's one I share, but that doesn't change anything.

But no, it's more than that -- turns out that guys who call her baby later display traits she finds undesirable. So it alerts her to whom to avoid.

We learn that was her crafty purpose all along: To piss off (or otherwise discourage) guys who call her baby prematurely, because she doesn't want every guy here as her client. Especially them!

But wait a minute, now all those guys have been alerted to her particular methods of avoiding them.

Lordy, I hope the business this threAD drums up (for the lady whose name is actually not Samantha) doesn't include men who would otherwise display poor introductory etiquette.

She is a task master and treats each session like it's a transaction

That's the exact vibe I recieved from this post also.

Fixed

Samantha don't get your panties in a wad. just poking you
On a serious note it is your business and if being formal is what you want then white gents can get with the program or not Originally Posted by Thatdude

How you run your business is just that your business, but when I contact a lady and call her sexy, it's because I actually find her sexy. I hope I haven't offended any ladies in doing so and if so, let me apologize. Except for "Babygirl" you will always be babygirl, and you know who you are.

To some of us gents, it's part of the build of the IOP and definitely not meant to be disrespectful and alsdo there is no way in hell you would get my real name after one visit.

How 'bout "you can call me anything you want, just don't call me late for dinner" , is that sexist or what? Originally Posted by hd

I can go both ways on this one, I try to use names / handles but am also ok with being called or calling some one a pet name. I think more men enjoy being called a pet name & more women prefer hearing a name that applies to them only ie Heather Reese Fawn Shea.

Yeah Samantha, I will start responding to them with "toots" or "sugar tits".

Myself, I respond only to "M'lady" and do not look me directly in the eye.......

I am a true Texan and am quite fond of little pet names and terms of endearment. I would prefer not to give me RW name. So, please feel free to call me Kendall, doll, honey, baby, sweetheart, etc. After all, I am GFE and we may be spending some intimate time together. I think it goes hand in hand.....

Oh my goodness,,,, you have stirred up some thread traffic. you make me smile....

How does Sugar Taint work for you, Samantha?

It is a simple matter of respect. Whether we are lawyers, or bartenders, or intimacy counselors(been trying to find a new expression.) We are each professionals in what we do. And there is an expression I live by:the best sale you make is the sale you didn't make. And we each need to look for the tip off, because if we are paying attention, it is there.

I have a had a lot of gentlemen saying yes mam and no mam too me on the phone and during appts. Chivelry will get you everywhere with me. Just love manners.

What happened to the old saying: "the customer is always right?" I mean, sure, there are limits to that, but come on! You provide a service and, in a lot of ways, a product - sort of reminds me of that magnet on the refrigerator in Grandma's kitchen: "this ain't Buger King! You'll get it my way or no way at all" - the sort of humerous retort to the "customer is always right"; anyway, Ms Samantha is gorgeous, but maybe a little picky and judgmental given the wide range of personalities that make up the customer base. But everyone's entitled to pick and choose, I suppose.

Dang now I have to remember her name.

Yeah Samantha, I will start responding to them with "toots" or "sugar tits".

Myself, I respond only to "M'lady" and do not look me directly in the eye....... Originally Posted by Brooke Daniels

And I suppose we'll have to curtsy too, M'Lady?


Of course the question is Respectfully and Humbly Submitted (while looking away, no less) LOL