If I may, I'd like to take it a step further...from a therapists perspective (well, a therapist with a twist!).
When a gentleman is lying on my table, he usually begins face down while I work on his back. All the while I am doing the massage, I am building anticipation as to what his member will be like!
Then, when I rub between his legs, I LOVE feeling how he becomes hard and begins to squirm on my table. MMMmmmm MMMmmmm! I can hardly WAIT for him to turn over! It's HOT!!!
Originally Posted by vnurse
well, as you say vicki, the anticipation is stimulating and electrifying! we guys have the benefit of being able to view photos of most of the women we get to visit [at least some body views, maybe face views]. and with only a few exceptions [maybe 4 in the past year], i have been pleasantly delited with the woman who opened the door and let me into to her playspace [i like the technique of the woman opening the door and staying behind it until i enter - stretches that intrique and mystery just a few seconds more].
following up on your comment, i have to say that when i go get a massage+, it is difficult [ok, it's hard] to remain focused on the massage/body rub knowing that in 15-30 mins i will be exposing lil delites to some deliteful pleasures [and yours were uber deliteful!!!]. i really have to concentrate and focus on receiving & feeling the massage etc and not flash forward to the deliteful ending.
in a way, massage+ has almost conditioned for the wrong way when i go visit my RMT for a therapeutic massage. but i just slow down and focus on receiving the massage.