What on earth???

You know it is bullshit drama like this thread has turned into that is the reason why some of the ladies never talk about the piece of shit guys that do things like this.

I think the drama on this site, to which this thread contributes, can be a deterrent to information sharing. What should properly be handled in the girl's forums has spilled out onto the public board for no real reason. If you want to start a discussion about abusive clients, then do so without alluding to any specific person. If a provider wanted to bring her private business to the public board, then she would have. As for the alerts and what-not, that's between the ladies. Originally Posted by clusterlizard

Search, I would hope that you had permission to share this private conversation with the board. Did the lady encourage you to start this thread?

Happy 4th to everyone! Originally Posted by Redwolf

Very good points made and for what it's worth I have seen a pattern over time of what I would call a serial Hobbyist. Guy gets vetted and has reviews. Guy gets in actual BCD character and plays out sick fantasy. Guy gets outed to providers. Guy falls off the grid. Guy comes back with a different handle and proceeds to rack up reviews where he is nice and respectful until he sees another target. Ain't all that hard to do when you think about it and serial sick Bastards can be very patient.

The question Redwolf posed is also spot on...IMO..

I know Searchs intentions were pure and honest, he obviously keeps this provider close and she is very dear to him and was very upset to see her hurt.

this whole thing has been blown out of the water, unfortunately we live in a cruel judging world, where even some are afraid to speak for fear of the repercussions of society. they have been down the road before and it didnt turn out well last time making them afraid to voice their opinion or anything.
Some clients and providers have had the good fortunate to met someone who helps escape from the world and for the time they are together they create a world that nothing else matters
lets just celebrate the day and count our blessings, we need to be positive and see the glass as half full!
its the fourth lets have some fun and enjoy another beautiful summer day

Again, very sorry about what happen....but like I said in my earlier post, especially now with the creation of this thread...the
young lady should be communicating with the other ladies.

Doesn't need to be out in the open...but should be in powder room.

Touchy subject, Search...but I really feel the other ladies deserve this communication, from the provider. I'm sure you
have your heart in the right place with this thread. But you have open a subject in which the other
ladies really need some private feedback on.


As someone has already stated, a general thread on abusive clients is on thing....but this thread is far more specific.

Of course, I am making a huge assumption that the young lady was aware, Search, of you making this thread. If she did not give you
permission....as it is fairly obvious who Search is talking about....then shame on you, Search, as you have created add'l drama for her.

If she did give you the OK for this thread...then time to put the emotions aside, for a moment, and she needs to be communicating with the ladies.

If she did not give you the OK, my advice still stands, time to put the emotions aside...and still communicate with the laides

What's that old saying....The Road to Hell can be paved with good intentions.
Respect to everyone and happy 4th

I agree with most of the sentiment expressed here. The provider should have posted an alert in the KC and Dallas provider-only forums. I am glad she is OK now, but the POS who did this needs to be blacklisted as quickly as possible. There is no excuse for violent behavior (except for this POS to be emasculated). If the provider wants to put this behind her, that's fine, but the rest of the provider community needs to be protected from this POS as well. There's no need for the general population to know this POS's identity.

I agree Lindsay. I don't think this thread has "been blown out of the water". This is some serious shit. The coward needs to be outed in the Powder Room or whatever it's called so the ladies can steer clear of him, atleast for a while. I think that will happen in due time. As mentioned, scum like this usually comes back around with a new handle and eventually tries the same shit again. He just needs to be exposed each and every time to the providers when he resurfaces.

+1

This is very unexceptable behavior in this industry. There is no need to hide behind whats right and wrong clearly this man displayed the wrong behavior in this incident. And none of us providers should never have to endure this kind of behavior in this industry. Originally Posted by OLindsay

Safety should be the number one concern among all of us, but secondary to that is discretion.
It is also a prime example of why so many ladies don't come forward when pieces of shit like this guy does what he did.

Good call, donkey! +1

I've gotten the same story from another provider who is not a eccie mrmber yet. Last week she was assaulted during the session then robbed. She went to the emergency room and had some serious bruising and swelling on her face, especially her mouth and lips.

I've asked her to join and post details but she seems scared.

Girls, you need to take the initiative here. You need you reach out to each other and reinforce that an alert should be made. Between the near half dozen attacks there is enough info to ID this Guy, but we really have nothing.

After reading the posts from yesterday, it is becoming more and more obvious that common sense and class are in short supply around here.

Each person has to use their own common sense in matters such as these. The problem is, it turns out common sense isn’t so common any more.

I've had more than enough of this place and some of you.

+100 Very well said Scorpio

After reading the posts from yesterday, it is becoming more and more obvious that common sense and class are in short supply around here.

Each person has to use their own common sense in matters such as these. The problem is, it turns out common sense isn’t so common any more.

I've had more than enough of this place and some of you. Originally Posted by scorpio31

Can we just drop this bullshit. Take it to the powder room. This thread should never have been started.

I think its so funny we are looked at as crazy of we make a fuss about wanting to be safe from a abuser.... But if a provider doesn't give enough spunk while she sucks your Dick she's the biggest asshole and the knowledge of the bad experience needs to be known to everyone. This site is built to help us be safe period. That's all I feel the providers responding are trying to do when it comes to pressing the issues with this thread

It doesn't help you to be safe for this to be on the public board. In the provider's area, yes.

I think its so funny we are looked at as crazy of we make a fuss about wanting to be safe from a abuser.... But if a provider doesn't give enough spunk while she sucks your Dick she's the biggest asshole and the knowledge of the bad experience needs to be known to everyone. This site is built to help us be safe period. That's all I feel are trying to do when it comes to pressing the issues with this thread Originally Posted by b@ileythepistol