Brandy, I 100% agree with you, as usual.
But be careful babe. Not trying to change the subject, but when I dared to suggest that CIM was unsafe, as was told to me in the Safer Sex class given by two doctors here in Dallas at Baylor Health Services, I was crucified and hung out to dry and called a prude.
My point is that *some*(not you) people appear to be quite hypocritical in pointing fingers and judging others when *they* don't agree with sexual practices that others engage in in the hobby, but then turn around and are quite judgmental towards anyone who disagrees with what *they* do sexually.
And yes, jfrog, everything you said to describe Brandy is true. Thank God she agreed with you though, because if she hadn't, I suspect that the words you used to describe her wouldn't be quite so...nice.
Originally Posted by Sweet Heather
jfrog, that's good. Actually he's my second cousin in Tibedeaux.
Your response here is exactly what I was talking about when I implied that you might want to refrain from posting anything other than your syrupy cliches, dear. You may be the poorest listener I've ever known. And I say that not as an insult but as a matter of dispassionate observation.
Still in your final paragraph -- I didn't really check to see if Brandy "agreed" with me or not. Did she? What I responded to was what I've always found attractive in Brandy, she has a head on her shoulders that is more than a wig platform. Anyone who has given some thought -- some intellectual and spiritual reflection -- to what they say, has my respect and my appreciation for contributing to a discussion, particularly if it's one that I initiated.
And excuse me, what words did you imagine I might have used to describe someone who didn't "agree"? Have I called you names?
Oh, and back to the idea that this is my thread, so to speak...I know CIM is a big issue to you but I'd rather it (and your experiences with it) not become a focus here. I realize the OP relinquishes some control over content, but that would be my preference.
But since I've already mentioned it, too, are you implying that *someone* (meaning me) suggested that CIM was "safe", or even safer than using a condom? If so, I deny that. I know that the only safe sex is be abstinent or mutually monogamous (which, btw, is the way I lean these days). Context is important, heather, and you routinely ignore that. You'd be my poster child for taking (out of context) statements or ideas that you find inflammatory, and then trying to start fires with them.
I do remember once trying to discuss (in a rational manner, of course, and I know that gives you trouble) what might be the actual
increased risk of swallowing that "potentially HIV infected cum", as you're so fond of calling it.
In that context, I may have mentioned how thankful I am that HIV is such a fragile little bug. Good lord, if it had emerged or mutated into a robust virus or (as some so feared) become air-borne or transmitted by mosquitos, most folks reading this would have died horribly in the early years of the pandemic. That was back when AIDS victims succumbed to shit like rare funguses that grew in their throats and lungs and choked them with pneumonia.
But, yeah, thankfully none of that happened in terms of epidemiology, and people don't die like that anymore in the developed world. Nowadays it's treatable if you have good health insurance. Look at Magic Johnson.
I usually point out that HIV remains a wimpy pathogen. It remains a fact that simple pre-digestive enzymes secreted into saliva from the lining of the mouth kill it very rapidly. I'm pleased about that, frankly.
My possibly negative responses to you, heather, have not been because you don't "agree" with me. More likely it would be because you seem to intentionally ignore the relevance of such facts as those in any discussion. And then you come in here (on "my" thread) and imply that I might have said something somewhere else that would prove me a hypocrite.
Sweetheart, you don't
listen you don't
follow things. I have this terrible image of you holed up in some dark place, pale, despising the taste of semen and posting reflexively whenever someone says something about good ol' CIM that could possibly be interpreted as favorable.
I know it's not really like that. But it would aid my mental health if you'd not talk crazy.
