I set up a first time date with a well know provider at my place. She shows up on time, she is very nice and we go through the preliminaries.The answer is no, a reputable lady will let you know in a discreet manner ahead of time if her "aunt flo" is visiting. Some ladies continue service with special items / devices designed to stop the visitation of "aunt flo" so no muss no fuss.
When it comes time to get to the main course I notice that she is in the middle of her period. She tells me that she is in day 2 of her period so I may not want to DATY but everything else is still welcome including full sex and anal if I desired, just put an old towwel underneath us.
Now what is the right thing to do here? She was offering almost complete full service plus anal, which she normally does not provide, she showed up and was willing but I was not too enthused about making a bloody mess of things. I suggested that if I pay her full price then she would owe me a half price session the next time. Her comment was that her other clients don't mind and many consider period sex as a "special" session. Her response was that she showed up and was willing to provide so why should'nt she get paid.
Is this true. Do most providers still provide when they are on the rag? Do most hobbyst not mind or like the novelty of bloody thighs? Am I sick for being turned off by the thought? If a provider called up saying that she was on her period would I or you think that she was just making an excuse for not showing up?
After about 20 minutes of her trying to persuade me to try I declined, paid her in full, and said goodbye.
I still have no idea of what was the right thing to do? Should'nt she have given me the option at the beginning? There must be some sort of unwritten rule here. What would you have done? Originally Posted by grahamcracker
- Sensia
- 08-21-2010, 09:42 AM
- Mariah Moore
- 08-25-2010, 11:35 PM
Wow hate that happen I personally do not do anything while I am on my menstrual for 1. I feel really yucky 2. I'm BLEEDING
- abdclub
- 08-26-2010, 01:20 AM
Wow, guys! I've had a provider cancel on me because it happened unexpectedly - I would not have had a problem because I got my red wings many years ago.
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- Ashlyn Allure
- 08-26-2010, 06:55 AM
I understand that being on your period is something that cannot be avoided. However, her comment about showing up and willing to provide so being paid in full is a must....that is just nasty and low class. It goes way beyond the boundaries of disgusting.
There are some tricks that ladies can use and you would never know when she is on her period. But for those of us who have to deal with cramps that make you feel you are going to pass out, using them isn't an option. If a client doesn't mind that's one thing, but they should always be forewarned of the situation and given the option to reschedule.
With HIV being transmitted through blood, shouldn't the client have all the facts so that he can decide if he would like to take that risk? A lady should never wait until he is getting ready for DATY to tell him. In doing so, she is taking a risk that is very unnecessary and who knows if she really is up to date on her std testing except her?
There are some tricks that ladies can use and you would never know when she is on her period. But for those of us who have to deal with cramps that make you feel you are going to pass out, using them isn't an option. If a client doesn't mind that's one thing, but they should always be forewarned of the situation and given the option to reschedule.
With HIV being transmitted through blood, shouldn't the client have all the facts so that he can decide if he would like to take that risk? A lady should never wait until he is getting ready for DATY to tell him. In doing so, she is taking a risk that is very unnecessary and who knows if she really is up to date on her std testing except her?