Question about "NO AA Men"???

Miss.Bentley I am not bashing you, you have that right to see whoever you want but you are still young and have a lot to learn, there are a lot of AA men that are establish and well off and treat our Queens with the upmost respect !

But again you do have that right, as for me .I look over my past I have only dated women who are light skin or mixed that is the family I came from. But through the years I have learned if there is an ounce of AA in you that is what you are ......

I have seen a few providers since I have been participating in this hobby. Sme I have not done reviews on and some I have. I will say that I am attracted to all races. I just love the sexiness and beauty of a woman. I will admit I am probably more partial to an older woman simply because they are usually more mentally stimulating in the conversation area. I must admit the two most intellectually stimulating and professional providers I have seen have been Karrine and Coffee. I really could have talked to those ladies all night.

See me Ms. Bentley.....Please with sugar and you on top (wink)

I just find it funny that in this industry, where providers are thought of as lowest of the low, that race is an issue.

But someone said it earlier, why waste my time with someone who doesn't find me attractive or have emotional hangups about another race. They can get treated like crap by someone of their own race if it makes them more comfortable. It's not worth me to stress about.

I just find it funny that in this industry, where providers are thought of as lowest of the low, that race is an issue.

But someone said it earlier, why waste my time with someone who doesn't find me attractive or have emotional hangups about another race. They can get treated like crap by someone of their own race if it makes them more comfortable. It's not worth me to stress about. Originally Posted by brandon_sa

In what way do you think that providers are thought of as "the lowest of the low" in this business? I would argue that an attitude like THAT would be better grounds to refuse to see someone than skin color or any other personal preference. I was a hobbyist for many years before taking a hiatus, and have NEVER felt like any provider (who I CHOSE to see, btw) was "beneath" me. (Sure, they GOT beneath me, but that is part of the fun, lol) I believe that an attitude like that shows through the façade of the encounter, and ultimately leads to a less than stellar experience.

It is a simple fact that a provider has the right to see who she wants, and refuse to see whomever she doesn't. Period. Any reason she may have (even plain racism) is legitimate. You are really better off not wasting your time and $$$ on a person who does not really want to see you for whatever reason.

As to the original question of "Why?", it is the same reason that dogs lick their privates -- because they can.

Like many others have pointed out: the are lots of people to choose from, don't waste time on the ones who aren't going to be able to give you 100%.

In what way do you think that providers are thought of as "the lowest of the low" in this business? I would argue that an attitude like THAT would be better grounds to refuse to see someone than skin color or any other personal preference. I was a hobbyist for many years before taking a hiatus, and have NEVER felt like any provider (who I CHOSE to see, btw) was "beneath" me. (Sure, they GOT beneath me, but that is part of the fun, lol) I believe that an attitude like that shows through the façade of the encounter, and ultimately leads to a less than stellar experience.

It is a simple fact that a provider has the right to see who she wants, and refuse to see whomever she doesn't. Period. Any reason she may have (even plain racism) is legitimate. You are really better off not wasting your time and $$$ on a person who does not really want to see you for whatever reason.

As to the original question of "Why?", it is the same reason that dogs lick their privates -- because they can.

Like many others have pointed out: the are lots of people to choose from, don't waste time on the ones who aren't going to be able to give you 100%. Originally Posted by UndertheRadar1969

Thought of as low by society in general is what I meant. Same with people within the pornography industry.

Like you said it's better off not to spend your money on them.

I have seen a few providers since I have been participating in this hobby. Sme I have not done reviews on and some I have. I will say that I am attracted to all races. I just love the sexiness and beauty of a woman. I will admit I am probably more partial to an older woman simply because they are usually more mentally stimulating in the conversation area. I must admit the two most intellectually stimulating and professional providers I have seen have been Karrine and Coffee. I really could have talked to those ladies all night. Originally Posted by Bigpapa1

Oh thanks baby-I am just now seeing this. Funny thing is Coffee is my girl LOL we are super cool.

And I have read a few of the male hobbyist remarks and simply LOVED them. I totally look at things in their light. Although, I understand WHY some of the ladies will not see AA men (not really) LOL but those that DO NOT SEE AA men because of what other AA men have done is very petty. I appreciate hard working men hence why I love on you guys so good LOL

I give everyone an opportunity to show me who they are. If you (provider's) do your job and thoroughly screen and use good judgment; then, one race can't dictate how you treat all.