NCNS kaitlyn dior

I've had a few do the same for me, just sayin'......

Also had a couple take advantage.

Just because there are bad ones doesn't mean they are all bad.

I've had a few do the same for me, just sayin'......

Also had a couple take advantage.

Just because there are bad ones doesn't mean they are all bad. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

My Darling Bunny, if I didn't hear from you, I'd certainly check in on you well being...xoxo

Ok, I was holding my tongue, but since Kaitlyn has genuinely asked for some help cleaning up this mess I'm going to say something that's probably going to be unpopular. But here...

Guys...you are dealing with escorts here...not your dentist, not your lawyer...not your kid's piano teacher.

Many women here are young. Most of them are the type of women who don't necessarily follow recognized social norms. Most escorts are to some degree nonconformists. They aren't attracted to 9-5 jobs. This open attitude is one of the ingredients of a great escort.

Most 19 year olds who have great business acumen are working in other more traditional fields or are in school.

With every good character trait, there is a bad one on the opposite side of the spectrum. In this case, some flakiness and immaturity probably correspond to being hot and wild in bed.

As Kaitlyn grows and matures, if she chooses to stay in this profession, her TCB skills will grow and develop. But beating her up for being young and inexperienced isn't helping anyone.

She's not the most dependable, so? Then don't see her or only do so on a last minute basis. If you need to prebook, then maybe she's not the girl for you. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

I understand what you're saying but it's not an excuse for her behavior. Youth is not an excuse. If she was working at McD or BK then she would have to adhere to their schedule or she'd be fired. If she were working at Wally World it would be the same thing. She put herself in this profession and however valuable or invaluable her time is to her she should keep in mind that her clients don't want to waste their time. As for the youth issue - I was married at 17 and had a full time job and started raising a family at 19 so I have little patience for people who keep throwing up "she's young" or "he's young" as an excuse. If it were a party she was going to or a club or a show with her favorite performer I'm sure she'd be there on time so or if her friends were waiting on her to get to said party and she were running late I'm sure she'd call or text them and let them know so youth is not an excuse. This is the same provider that booked with a business services pro that I know, she kept changing the time on her appointment and then 7 hours after the initially agreed upon time sent a text from across the street from his location and then never showed up or responded to his texts or calls, so it's not just with clients, it's how she is and she won't change as long as passes are given to her and acceptance is made for her behavior.

Thanks, PopMe71. I totally appreciate your view and don't disagree. I think we agree, actually. I'm not making excuses for her. She doesn't need (or quite frankly want) me to do that.

I definitely see the point of posting NC/NS. I just don't like the "pile on" that sometimes happens. I prefer the guys who have simply stated, she's hot and fun, but since I'm on a tight schedule, I probably won't see her.

Also, PopMe71, I appreciate you not mocking me for suggesting that a friend might want to check in on her and make sure she's ok. Thanks again!

xoxo,
LMx

Thanks, PopMe71. I totally appreciate your view and don't disagree. I think we agree, actually. I'm not making excuses for her. She doesn't need (or quite frankly want) me to do that.

I definitely see the point of posting NC/NS. I just don't like the "pile on" that sometimes happens. I prefer the guys who have simply stated, she's hot and fun, but since I'm on a tight schedule, I probably won't see her.

Also, PopMe71, I appreciate you not mocking me for suggesting that a friend might want to check in on her and make sure she's ok. Thanks again!

xoxo,
LMx Originally Posted by LilMynx69

PopMe71 - I like that

I think the nature of these posts (ncns, alerts, etc.) will lead to the pile on and sometimes it gets out of hand but sometimes it's needed. She is an attractive and sexy young lady but this is a service business and if she chooses to be in it then she has to see that. I am in the "wanted to see her but now I won't" group and my reasons are simple, she wasted the time of two people who I know personally and they have not chimed in and their stories are very similar and one is not a client but she contacted him to perform a service for her. Those two encounters took her off my list. Then you see ncns reports popping up on her, again with similar stories then it does make her look like a flake so I would not put myself in the position to be ncns'd by her.

I totally agree a friend should talk to her and see if she's ok, if she needs help getting her business turned around, if she even wants to be in this business and if not help her with an exit strategy and I would never jump on someone for suggesting that someone else who may need help seek out help.

Now about that PopMe part .....

I can be done in 5. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

While I'm very efficient and can get quite a bit done in 4 minutes...what's the rush?(she says as sets the time clock...)

Oh GlobeSexer, I'd never rush you....I'd allot at least 12-18 minutes.

Thanks, PopMe71. I totally appreciate your view and don't disagree. I think we agree, actually. I'm not making excuses for her. She doesn't need (or quite frankly want) me to do that.

I definitely see the point of posting NC/NS. I just don't like the "pile on" that sometimes happens. I prefer the guys who have simply stated, she's hot and fun, but since I'm on a tight schedule, I probably won't see her.

Also, PopMe71, I appreciate you not mocking me for suggesting that a friend might want to check in on her and make sure she's ok. Thanks again!

xoxo,
LMx Originally Posted by LilMynx69

You post only added to the piling on. If you really want to help her than stop bumping the thread to argue and flirt with people.

You post only added to the piling on. If you really want to help her than stop bumping the thread to argue and flirt with people. Originally Posted by BFCjosh

I'm not arguing, I'm merely explaining why I'm right.

First you claim I'm trying to shut down sharing of info, now you complain that I'm encouraging it. I'm really trying to make you and your BFC happy here, but there's just no pleasing you...my bad!


xoxo,
LMx

Don't go there with me! You won't find anyone more decent than me which causes providers to take advantage of my kindness. I would have no problem asking the question you posed, just curious if she (or you all) would do the same to a hobbyist. I'm out of this. Rant on... Originally Posted by TheDr

Quite frankly, I was surprised with your first comment, because you do indeed seem like a kind gent. Maybe I misread. And I'm sorry that others have taken advantage of your kindness. I'm glad it hasn't totally soured you.

And yes, I would check on you if we were friends and I sensed something was suddenly different...I'd rub your back and fix you a cold drink...

I wonder how many would hold their ATF to the same standard as far as piling on goes.

I wonder how many would hold their ATF to the same standard as far as piling on goes. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Helllllloooo, Dorian, I hope you came over to pile on me....

I wonder how many would hold their ATF to the same standard as far as piling on goes. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

I would if she behaved that way but she doesn't so I don't have to...whew...lol

Just because nobody has said anything doesn't mean it doesn't happen

Just because nobody has said anything doesn't mean it doesn't happen Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Trust me I know that but if it happens and is noted by a thread and others chime in and say she did the same then that's on her, ATF or not.