personal meet n greet publically. thoughts?

A friend from another hobby site and I hope to get together at the shooting range in GP soon. I find sending lead down range to be a relaxing experience. There was a Christmas party in Dallas in 2012 that I attended and met some wonderful ladies from Dallas. The parties in Houston, San Antonio and Austin are great. I generally drive down and get a hotel room and take a taxi to the function so I am able to drink and not drive. If things work out I take a lady from here (TrulyPassion) so I have company. The last party I spent before party time with Dezirie. Looking at the avatars we use then meeting the person face to face is a hoot. Originally Posted by tucson

I'm going to get together with a guy I met on this site for shooting some day. It's larger groups and random groups that I am wary of. We agree to disagree I suppose.

Agree with you Tony. One on one, fine. A groups invites problems. What if you know one of the other guys?(Dallas is a big city but still a small town in mmany respects.) Yes, a social is a more efficient way to size up a provider, but I would rather to a little more work on the QT.

Well you owe me two pennies. Originally Posted by pfmtony

Yeah, it's not like you'd lie or anything, right?

Well you owe me two pennies. Originally Posted by pfmtony

Maybe so.

My bigger point was that you are known to have shared intimate moments with someone who was banned for having more than just one fake handle so don't go getting all holier than thou with the multiple handles bit.

You're taking a cheap shot which says to me you would do the same thing they are doing to you if given the chance.

Never even heard of any happening... either they aren't (hard to believe) or I'm not on the invite list... Originally Posted by falconbueller

Yes they exist but why you're not on one of the list, they are missing out (you just keep staying UTR babe, except with me) *muah*

Maybe so.

My bigger point was that you are known to have shared intimate moments with someone who was banned for having more than just one fake handle so don't go getting all holier than thou with the multiple handles bit.

You're taking a cheap shot which says to me you would do the same thing they are doing to you if given the chance. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Hardly. I don't have the time or desire to fake an account.

I'm taking a cheap shot at someone that posted personal information in a reply to a post of mine? That's cheap? I thought posting personal information about others here was the cheap shot. Or is that okay if you are now upset with that person for some reason? So its cool as long as you like the person posting personal info? I'm just saying its a good example of "be careful who you trust."

And for the record I haven't seen anyone at all in 2014. And I'm on no ones special plan. I have no arrangements with anyone.

As much as I like to hijack a good thread as anyone...

My thoughts on the original post.

Compensation for M&G time only makes sense to me if applied to the session that follows. Basically, I would view it like "insurance" that the call will happen once everyone gets over their cold feet.

But guys, what's with the cold feet thing? Pick a gal with good reviews, do your research and you can pretty much tell by her communication setting up an appointment what her personality is going to be like.

And I'm gonna let you in on a little secret....(sorry girls!)

Providers are by and large very talented and skilled at making a guy feel comfortable. One could say they are very good actresses. They want to have a decent time and have nice appointments with guys who are clean, respectful and know better than to twist their nipples.

If you're unsure of your sexual skills or prowess, they know just how to let you know what they like and what they do not if you ask. And they'll gladly help you think you are the best lover in the world.

Most of them list their preferred beverages or gift ideas, so you can always break the ice with something from their showcase or P411 profile.

And many of them, after you see them a bit after a while will gladly accept a bit of dinner and conversation as long as you pick up the tab. Though I have had a few insist on going dutch. They are people too and like anyone else, they enjoy polite, engaging, respectful company. And it they are busy, they will politely decline.

Don't abuse it, guys, when a provider gives you that extra touch. Write her a good review, tip her, get her a nice, thoughtful gift and say thanks, always say thanks!

I don't "pay" for OTC time. In part because at that point, I'm dealing with a person, not a provider...and usually one that I've done a fair amount of business with and there is some history of doing a little extra for each other. Neither do I insist or require it, if I make an invitation, it's only that...an invitation.

They may be "whores in the bedroom", but they are also ladies outside of it. Just treat 'em right like you should any lady.

Ladies, would you be open to meeting someone in a public place for the first time like for lunch or coffee as a way of screening?

I have thought about it and I would prefer to meet someone in person before I committed to an hour or two.

Of course you would be compensated for your time, but at a reduced rate. Plus lunch or coffee would be provided.

No review would be done but information woud be provided if asked.

Also this would not help to verify any new profiders, this would just be for my benefit.

This would be a good way for you to earn some extra $, legit, safe, and maybe get a good lunch out of the deal.

And sometimes you just wanna hang out instead of playing 'banging for dollars'.
Does this sound like a viable option or is this just a bad idea?

Welcome any and all comments, good or bad.

Peace Originally Posted by fryec

Only down side is how do I answer a stranger when he asks me which one is my daughter? Originally Posted by hd

Shoot back, HD: "Why do you want to know? So you can ask me her rates?" HAAA HA HA!

Most of them list their preferred beverages or gift ideas, so you can always break the ice with something from their showcase or P411 profile.

And many of them, after you see them a bit after a while will gladly accept a bit of dinner and conversation as long as you pick up the tab. Though I have had a few insist on going dutch. They are people too and like anyone else, they enjoy polite, engaging, respectful company. And it they are busy, they will politely decline.

Don't abuse it, guys, when a provider gives you that extra touch. Write her a good review, tip her, get her a nice, thoughtful gift and say thanks, always say thanks!

I don't "pay" for OTC time. In part because at that point, I'm dealing with a person, not a provider...and usually one that I've done a fair amount of business with and there is some history of doing a little extra for each other. Neither do I insist or require it, if I make an invitation, it's only that...an invitation.

They may be "whores in the bedroom", but they are also ladies outside of it. Just treat 'em right like you should any lady. Originally Posted by Rehke

OMFG I cannot believe there is a man on tjis board who gets it. You sir have won a prize ill have to think of your payment lol.

OMFG I cannot believe there is a man on tjis board who gets it. You sir have won a prize ill have to think of your payment lol. Originally Posted by dallastxbaby

+1 very well said

Ladies, would you be open to meeting someone in a public place for the first time like for lunch or coffee as a way of screening?

I have thought about it and I would prefer to meet someone in person before I committed to an hour or two.

Of course you would be compensated for your time, but at a reduced rate. Plus lunch or coffee would be provided.

No review would be done but information woud be provided if asked.

Also this would not help to verify any new profiders, this would just be for my benefit.

This would be a good way for you to earn some extra $, legit, safe, and maybe get a good lunch out of the deal.

And sometimes you just wanna hang out instead of playing 'banging for dollars'.
Does this sound like a viable option or is this just a bad idea?

Welcome any and all comments, good or bad.

Peace Originally Posted by fryec

Fryec,

Meet and Greets between a provider and hobbyist are absolutely fine for breaking the ice and getting to know each other before the actual date. In fact, after a gentlemen has sent me his references and/or has gone through my screening process, I actually prefer meeting up with a gentlemen for a few cocktails as opposed to sending emails/texts/PM's back and forth.

Also, while one's behavior in public should not solely constitute their behavior BCD - you may be talking to a Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde personality at the bar - One should relax and enjoy the company. Lastly, don't forget to be a gentlemen! Even if it happens that you and the lady don't click, then it would be a courteous gesture to at least pick up the tab.

Either way, meeting an individual for drinks and dinner before stealing them away to a hotel room or cozy bedroom definitely sets the mood for a romantic evening, and intensifies the passion for the activities to be had BCD.

After all, Didn't you get a little aroused when you were drinking?

- Brown Sugar Baby

Visitors to Austin and San Antonio always get a warm welcome.

With proper vouching, of course.

Twice a month events in San Antonio (lunches and happy hours) and (same) almost as frequently in Austin.

Check my signature for event dates and rules.

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jmho, of course, but "very large" events are not my favorite happenings.

Since an event may run only a few hours or so, the more people there to meet limits absolutely the amount of time one can spending meeting any one.

As noted in earlier posts, networking is a primary rationale; gents exchanging info and ladies enjoying some off the clock time but still networking with other ladies and, of course, marketing.

I make every party I can. CK1942 sets them up for the fun we all have. Most are happy hour type get together that run until about 10PM. Some of the smaller parties(15-20 people) are just as much fun as the bigger parties where 75-100 people wander in and out through out the evening.

I like the idea of meeting for dinner or even just a drink (even if coffee or coke) and getting to know each other first. However, if the gentleman is married, they don't always want to try to explain it to acquaintances if seen in public with a lady that isn't his wife.

Tammie
I am widowed and if some one sees me with a pretty young thing like you I explain that you are my therapist and you brought my blood pressure down.