Ladies, Please explain it to the men that do not understand why you do not speak up at times.....

my last comment, sorry forgot men were supposed to wait. seemed like every time a provider tried to say something they were attacked or off topic comment about op. please continue.

The problem is the lack of one shred of altruism in this or similar threads. They reek of hypocrisy and driving page views ($). His posts in Austin have dismissed the value of women posting in other than provider ads. And he's suddenly a crusader for women. Originally Posted by saustin

Damn straight. whisper is NOT some kind of good hearted good natured vigilante for the respect of Lady providers. He's a deceptive mofo who likes to bully and gets off on putting other down and starting shit.


posters like Whisper ARE the reason some ladies don't speak up so this whole thread being started by him is highly ironic

he is exactly the why some ladies don't fee it's a safe environment to talk about what's going on with them.

some of the ladies I know personally have said they won't post ADs anymore just because they don't wanna deal with being attacked on the board.

and that is why I'm sure some people keep "attacking" him in this thread. It very much IS relevant. he's like jackle and Mr. Hyde one minute he's attacking ladies and encouraging suppression the next he's helping them speak out??? o.O

do I think it's a good thread? yea. If you like your posin honey flavored.

but yea I think people should stay true to the Thread topic I just wouldn't trust the OP's intentions behind it. hopefully this will allow the dissipating of some board hostilities and ladies can feel more comfortable "speaking up" or being more involved. but be wary snow white ate a posined apple from someone she thought meant he no harm and look what happened to her...

Damn straight. whisper is NOT some kind of good hearted good natured vigilante for the respect of Lady providers. He's a deceptive mofo who likes to bully and gets off on putting other down and starting shit.


posters like Whisper ARE the reason some ladies don't speak up so this whole thread being started by him is highly ironic

he is exactly the why some ladies don't fee it's a safe environment to talk about what's going on with them.

some of the ladies I know personally have said they won't post ADs anymore just because they don't wanna deal with being attacked on the board.

and that is why I'm sure some people keep "attacking" him in this thread. It very much IS relevant. he's like jackle and Mr. Hyde one minute he's attacking ladies and encouraging suppression the next he's helping them speak out??? o.O

do I think it's a good thread? yea. If you like your posin honey flavored.

but yea I think people should stay true to the Thread topic I just wouldn't trust the OP's intentions behind it. hopefully this will allow the dissipating of some board hostilities and ladies can feel more comfortable "speaking up" or being more involved. but be wary snow white ate a posined apple from someone she thought meant he no harm and look what happened to her...
Originally Posted by Secret_Amore

ADS in COED?

sorry again, my language must have been off.

I meant PROVIDERS were being attacked, I don't particularly care about the other crap or people intentions.

Damn straight. whisper is NOT some kind of good hearted good natured vigilante for the respect of Lady providers. He's a deceptive mofo who likes to bully and gets off on putting other down and starting shit.

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but yea I think people should stay true to the Thread topic I just wouldn't trust the OP's intentions behind it. hopefully this will allow the dissipating of some board hostilities and ladies can feel more comfortable "speaking up" or being more involved. but be wary snow white ate a posined apple from someone she thought meant he no harm and look what happened to her...
Originally Posted by Secret_Amore

I'm not going to defend the guy's post history, but I can stand behind his recent posts. Nobody truly knows another person's intentions, and you doubting it would be fair, given the board persona he's presented in the past.

As for being hypocritical with regards to giving the providers a voice, only time will tell. What makes you think he hasn't evolved?

EDIT: Ahh...bugger. Forgot I was going to hold my tongue till after Feb 3....

Personally, I think the girls have a voice. We have private areas, and it's not just hobbyists that attack providers. Sometimes it's other providers. So some girls may not want to be involved in drama, so THAT might be a reason why they won't or don't post.

We do not speak up most of the time because it is not worth the trouble. It is a very difficult battle for a hooker to win.

We do not speak up most of the time because it is not worth the trouble. It is a very difficult battle for a hooker to win. Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

I've seen you win more than a few!