Hobby group events are more difficult because of different times, days, and freedom to be flexible in availability due to S.O.'s, work, etc... Add the nerve factor, concerns about other attendees knowing them, and various insecurities and the flake factor increases. Having a playful manner and encouraging participation from the guys on the sidelines helps break the ice and get the party started.
I've shared some of my experiences from GB's in other threads, so will refrain this time. :-) For anyone interested, I'd be available for a hardcore gb event as I enjoy and have experience in DP, DVDP, airtight, etc... We may need to schedule immediately, too, as I'm finally able to address my extraordinarily unusual lack of sex. Believe me when I say I can take on a dozen of you for hours!!! ;-)
When it's time to play, I tell everyone it's time to get SPICY! Then I pour myself a double shot of tequila nekkid, ask if others are ready, then it's:
Open the hatch
Prepare the snatch
Slamdango and line up to be the first batch!
Cheers are encouraged
Jeers are discouraged
Go more than once if you quickly refurbish. ;-)
Come one, come all
Get ready to ball
Almost anything goes but please don't maul!
XOXOX
OK, so I made that up just now, but I did kick off the party with double shot nekkid! Arriba!!! :-)