French Kissing- The D and the L

Remember the movie Pretty Woman when she said no kissing on the lips because it is too personal? Believe it or not, a lot of providers don't kiss for this reason. Originally Posted by luxury daphne

I fully agree with your Pretty Woman analogy. It isn't my style, but I hear you.

I always assumed providers did not kiss Johns & therefore I was surprised when a provider, then another and so on and so forth took the initiative to kiss me. I am not sure I care either way there are many things that matter more to me than kissing - bbbj for example but the rest I'll save for my next session with the next provider

(but then, call me odd, I am not quite a BCD guy anyway. I prefer girls who are friendly enough, don't get me wrong, but I never lose track of the fact that it is a paid service I am getting. So, no need for fakery with me, upfrontness is better, more respectful of a person's intelligence)

Hepatitis Tuberculosis and herpies, do these ring a bell? Every one preaches condoms, but uhm there are also some very serious saliva born diseases, ive seen roughly 400 men since i started and ill be damned if any clean provider will kiss that many people. Dont expect GFE w me, and that's for very clear reasons! And its doing everyone a favor, the honest facts, educate Yourself and protect Your self, saliva is also bodily fluid and can make You incurably sick in COMMON ways, among people w common behaviors, let alone w increased hobbying factors. And these diseases are spread easily and are here for life if catch one. Call me a bitch, germ freak, whatever.

Agreed, there are saliva borne illnesses that may be spread, and no one is saying by any means to kiss everybody that you hobby with. Rapport, trust, and of course HYGIENE are three things that will cause your mileage to vary. Just as you would inspect that dick before BBBJ, there are inconspicuous ways to look for signs of illness by the mouth. I tell any one of the newbie chicks I know though if you are that paranoid about catching something by an
activity like that (by that I mean other than genital contact/fluid ) that they are in the wrong business.

I for one do not kiss anyone that has halitosis, abnormal bumps, cuts, sores, or abrasions on the face or near the mouth. I am talking about connected, healthy sexual activity here.

Agreed, there are saliva borne illnesses that may be spread, and no one is saying by any means to kiss everybody that you hobby with. Rapport, trust, and of course HYGIENE are three things that will cause your mileage to vary. Just as you would inspect that dick before BBBJ, there are inconspicuous ways to look for signs of illness by the mouth. I tell any one of the newbie chicks I know though if you are that paranoid about catching something by an
activity like that (by that I mean other than genital contact/fluid ) that they are in the wrong business.

I for one do not kiss anyone that has halitosis, abnormal bumps, cuts, sores, or abrasions on the face or near the mouth. I am talking about connected, healthy sexual activity here. Originally Posted by luxury daphne

The problem lies with men "expecting" kissing bc a provider is GFE. Granted i do have this connection with some, but it is that a connection, and not covered with benjamins. i for one am not in the wrong business but will protect myself. im not afraid but kissing to me DFK is a spiritual meaningful expression and just often isnt found the first hr i meet someone, though some light kissing is something else.

....Remember the movie Pretty Woman when she said no kissing on the lips because it is too personal? Believe it or not, a lot of providers don't kiss for this reason. Originally Posted by luxury daphne

I heard that reason given a few times, too personal, but then they proceed with BBBJ, I don't know but in my opinion it does not get much more personal than that.

The problem lies with men "expecting" kissing bc a provider is GFE. Granted i do have this connection with some, but it is that a connection, and not covered with benjamins. i for one am not in the wrong business but will protect myself. im not afraid but kissing to me DFK is a spiritual meaningful expression and just often isnt found the first hr i meet someone, though some light kissing is something else. Originally Posted by subcilla

hmmm well yes Cilla, if a provider advertise her service as GFE, then yes I would expect kissing. As far as I know kissing is in most if not all hobbysts definition of GFE, Girl Friend Equal = Kissing. If kissing is not included in the menu then the service offered is not GFE. My opinion anyway

Many years ago, before the internet and review sites like this one you usually called an agency from the yellow pages to find a provider. I visited many women in many cities, but I never had one kiss me. It seemed to be a universal taboo. Those were the days before HIV was known, and almost all of the women provided bareback sex, but none kissed.

So, it was a pleasant surprise when I returned to the hobby after all of these years to find GFE providers. I think when I am looking for a GFE provider, I am looking for a connection.

Lack of GFE is not a deal breaker with me, I have had fun sessions with many providers without a kiss, but there are times when the deep kisses and the intimacy associated with them is what I am looking for.

just my $0.02

LFK or DFK is critical in my book. Enjoy both and to me it's like the opening music before the show. Anticipation rises, hands roam, bodies press and move together, you invibe her scent, caress and move around her face and hair; then bam the curtain goes up and away you go.

The type kissing sets the tone. Doesn't mean the sex won't be good without, just to me won't have the same deeper GFE that DFK brings.

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if a provider advertise her service as GFE, then yes I would expect kissing. As far as I know kissing is in most if not all hobbysts definition of GFE, Girl Friend Equal = Kissing. If kissing is not included in the menu then the service offered is not GFE. My opinion anyway Originally Posted by Toreador_one

"If kissing is not included in the menu then the service offered is not GFE".

This quote needs to be a "sticky" in the "urban dictionary".

That's not true for me. I have never been a kisser, not in the hobby or in my personal life.

I dated a guy for 3 years one time and we never kissed other then light pecks on the lips and I adored him. Originally Posted by Brooke Wild

"No, I don't think I will kiss you. Although you need kissing badly. That's what wrong with you. You should be kissed and often by someone who knows how." Rhett Butler

I LOVE kissing, I'm VERY passionate and it makes me want to spoil the client with my body. ESPECIALLY if he is a good kisser!

It is great with good kissers lool

Instead of starting a new thread, I refreshed this old blast from the past, and definitely still relevant. Since we have so many more members now, I would like to see what you guys have to say on the subject. And I wanted to bump an old ass thread.

Kissing is a must for me to be able to be intimate with someone. Not only is it a great way to start the fun and explore, but also it is a good indicator of how their sexual style is i.e. rushed, sloppy, slow, sensual, teasing, etc.

Art by Ellie Perla, Kissing Lips

I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE to KISS!!! It gets me almost as wet as when I'm sucking d*ck.... Great thread LD!