Mentioned Courtesan, and I agree there are few. There are those that insist on being paid, and once they are I think they find it hard to ever give it away again. Those are the true prostitutes or if you prefer, Whores.....the courtesan is a girl who actually gives of herself, and I truly believe not just for the money. I have connected with several over the years, actually cared about their welfare and many thought enough of our bonding to refuse the money. It had nothing to do with a 10 inch dick or a tongue of devilish talents, (which I do have, LOL) but of our bonding. In this hobby there are whores, there are prostitutes, there are escorts and there are courtesans. They decide which ones they are. Truth is we men are all whoremongers, some needing just physical release, some are needing companionship, some both. Once in awhile you find the two may come together, now that is priceless..... Originally Posted by friscowindsorRight on all points. I have it all happen to me, too.
The wake up call for me was about 3 months after my first wife died of breast cancer, when I was still still in shock about the loss; a close friend and business acquaintance got me aside and told me I just needed to get laid to snap out of it and get my mind back on work and my children.
I met a true courtesan. I now fully believe that we need to recognize our manhood, because that is what we are. Sometimes the answer to thinking out life's problems is to just go get laid. It is nicer in a relationship, but sometimes that is not available.
JR