$1000/hr. WTF?

Its all about the research when trying to decide if a Expensive Hot Lady is worth your hobby money. I believe a person can do enough research on a certain lady to figure out what restrictions she has and decide if she worth it or not!!

TomTom: Checking out your reviews. You have wonderful taste . Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Thanks!

I've held off making any comments on this thread because I'm not sure I can put in words what I really mean. But ... I'll give it a whirl.

First, the following comments are based on my own experiences with $1,000 (or more) per hour companions. Others may have entirely different experiences.

When I started in the hobby in 1986, the level of companions I patronized only scheduled gents on an afternoon or evening basis with the date lasting between 2.5 to 3 hours. The typical fee was $2,500 to $3,000 depending on the lady, special circumstances or a client's preferences/requests.

One of these ladies became my wife and we've been married for 23 years.

Comparing sexual menus or skills between $300 an hour and $1,000 an hour providers is missing the point ... based on my experience. Quite often, the sexual abilities of the two were quite similar.

What made the $1,000 an hour provider worth every penny of her fee was everything other than the sex. It was the ambiance, her level of sophistication, her level of education, the accommodations, the in-room meal with champagne, her total focus on me, etc. In short, the client was paying for the total experience ... not just sex. The client was also paying for the lady's unwavering discretion.

While I'm no longer able to afford that level in the hobby any longer, I still remember and appreciate what that level offered.

staff edit by jymie: quote removed at request of djscape Originally Posted by djscape10

Opinions vary. You can say that very thing about cars, homes, or anything that costs money and comes in more than one tier.

i've seen ladies that put a high value on their time and ladies that are more reasonable about it. i can say with out a doubt , the amount a lady charges for her time has absolutely no correlation to the amount of fun you have with her.

in the end, what ever makes us feel good , that's what we have to do. there is a market segment for everything, so just have fun. Originally Posted by PAPA JOE

Word.

At least someone here knows what they are talking about. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

+1000

I am quite sure if we could all get 5k we would be doing so lol. People put down what they don't understand. There is in fact a market for everything, including one for the TRULY rich clients. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Wouldn't we? And I bet if every man had an extra mil, he'd be fine with paying the 5 G's. Bread used to cost 5 cents...you don't hear people bitching about how its $2.50 now.

$1,000 ! ? . Can't afford it. But that is no problem. In my area there are at least 3 that will pop me for $50. Call it a quickie or what ever - but for me it works. Originally Posted by beaver lover

A man who pays $1k for a session is looking for just a "pop", obviously.

Fact of the matter is that the lady that charges 1000 an hour is not looking for volume. I imagine she has a day job and is just escorting on the side to supplement her income. She does not care what the average joe thinks about her rates because she does not cater to the average joe....

Exactly! Everything isn't for everyone.

The lady that charges $1000an hour is not seeing 5 men a day. I know some ladies at that price range that are lucky if they see 5 guys a month. Again, they are not seeking that volume. The biggest misconception is that when you charge $1000an hour you make more money. That is not true.

Again, true. High dollar ladies aren't expecting or even trying to see more than one or two clients a day, if that. Preparation for providing a different type of experience takes time, and she's likely not trying to "heard" them in and out.

The lady that charges $250 makes more money than the lady that charges $1000 an hour whether some of you want to believe it or not. It is a totally different ball game. For the lady at $1000an hour, it is not a race to see if she can make 5k by the end of the week, she is not sitting at an incall waiting for her next client...etc. Like another poster said we usually knock what we don't understand. ...

Usually that is the case. Especially when people feel some kind of anonymity and can say what they want without much fear.

Goes to show how foolish men can be. At the end of the day, the only difference between a HDH and the backpage girl is their marketing technique/presentation / "The packaging". The Job description is still the same.

I have to disagree somewhat here. IMO the job description entails so much more. As another poster said a girl who will "pop him for $50" isn't going above and beyond to make sure he's got comfortable surroundings, enjoys the extras that a good personality and conversation can provide, etc. I don't think its the same type of experience at all. At a much higher rate, it was necessary to create an entire "experience" for the client. At my current rate, its more or less a few hours of enjoyment without the romance/date feel. Its more raw and less about an impression.

@ The OP: I checked out the link and the lady is very attractive. I'm sure someone's paying it or she would have lowered her rates. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Comparing sexual menus or skills between $300 an hour and $1,000 an hour providers is missing the point ... based on my experience. Quite often, the sexual abilities of the two were quite similar.

What made the $1,000 an hour provider worth every penny of her fee was everything other than the sex. It was the ambiance, her level of sophistication, her level of education, the accommodations, the in-room meal with champagne, her total focus on me, etc. In short, the client was paying for the total experience ... not just sex. The client was also paying for the lady's unwavering discretion. Originally Posted by pjpenner

That is exactly what I meant to say.

Comparing sexual menus or skills between $300 an hour and $1,000 an hour providers is missing the point ... based on my experience. Quite often, the sexual abilities of the two were quite similar.

What made the $1,000 an hour provider worth every penny of her fee was everything other than the sex. It was the ambiance, her level of sophistication, her level of education, the accommodations, the in-room meal with champagne, her total focus on me, etc. In short, the client was paying for the total experience ... not just sex. The client was also paying for the lady's unwavering discretion. Originally Posted by pjpenner

Where the real problem comes in is the fact there are too many at this price range that can't pull-off the fantasy. After an hour their real-self shines through. Don't believe it; come spend a little time and cash in Vegas. These $1K/hr ladies are everywhere.

have to disagree somewhat here. IMO the job description entails so much more. As another poster said a girl who will "pop him for $50" isn't going above and beyond to make sure he's got comfortable surroundings, enjoys the extras that a good personality and conversation can provide, etc. I don't think its the same type of experience at all. At a much higher rate, it was necessary to create an entire "experience" for the client. At my current rate, its more or less a few hours of enjoyment without the romance/date feel. Its more raw and less about an impression. Originally Posted by Nina Rae

At the end of the day it's still fucking and sucking for money. I'm pretty sure the the appreciation for her being so educated, sophisticated... etc would go out the window if she said "Sorry I meant what I said in my ad. All monies exchanged are for time and companionship only and there's no sex involved." That is what I meant. At the end of the day, they're all hookers/escort/prostitutes no matter how you dress it up. No one group is better than the other. That was my point but of course I get what you're saying.

At the end of the day it's still fucking and sucking for money ... At the end of the day, they're all hookers/escort/prostitutes no matter how you dress it up. No one group is better than the other ... Originally Posted by Naomi4u

With all due respect, Naomi, I disagree with the underlying premise of your post. Furthermore, I truly hope you don't believe it either. Otherwise, any client on this site can get the service of a BJ and FS from a street level hooker (with more skill in some cases) at $50-$60 instead of the several hundred dollar fee normally paid to escorts.

While I totally agree that no one level of provider in the hobby is better than any other; there are differences in what, how and where the services are performed.

As I've said in many of my posts, there is a place and a need in the marketplace for all levels of providers. Additionally, they all deserve to be respected and treated well as long as they are doing their best to provide their clients with a good experience and delivered with a good attitude.

With all due respect, Naomi, I disagree with the underlying premise of your post. Furthermore, I truly hope you don't believe it either. Otherwise, any client on this site can get the service of a BJ and FS from a street level hooker (with more skill in some cases) at $50-$60 instead of the several hundred dollar fee normally paid to escorts.

While I totally agree that no one level of provider in the hobby is better than any other; there are differences in what, how and where the services are performed.

As I've said in many of my posts, there is a place and a need in the marketplace for all levels of providers. Additionally, they all deserve to be respected and treated well as long as they are doing their best to provide their clients with a good experience and delivered with a good attitude. Originally Posted by pjpenner

Sorry pal, but there is no place or need in our society for prostitution. If the latter was true it wouldn't be illegal and you could waltz into any hotel without the fear or anxiety that some bothersome government agency could be lurking around waiting to arrest you. We engage in this activity for all sorts of reasons. None of them are totally justified.

While I totally agree that no one level of provider in the hobby is better than any other; there are differences in what, how and where the services are performed. Originally Posted by pjpenner

I think my exact words were "At the end of the day it's still fucking and sucking for money". It is still prostitution no matter how you dress it up. There is a BIG difference between a $50 hooker and a $500 an hour escort but at the end of the day the client is still getting fucked. Right? That is what I meant and nothing else. I'm not even talking about sophistication and education levels here. It doesn't matter. They're all engaging in sexual acts for money.

Sorry pal, but there is no place or need in our society for prostitution. If the latter was true it wouldn't be illegal and you could waltz into any hotel without the fear or anxiety that some bothersome government agency could be lurking around waiting to arrest you. We engage in this activity for all sorts of reasons. None of them are totally justified. Originally Posted by acp5762

I agree.