Don't you have another threAD to create?
I thought all of your latest threads were ridiculous but do you see me jumping on there too bash you? NOPE... I just stayed in my own lane...
If this is not an important topic TO YOU than DO NOT OPEN this thread.. It is called SELF CONTROL...
Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere
Slave,
Hey cakes, I did read all of this. I wanted to make sure that before I asked this, that it wasn’t written clearly elsewhere. But I was wanting to know what secret said in her initial post towards you... came across as bashing? I genuinely just was curious. I read the banter between you two but was trying to figure out why it (the initial reply) offended you? A few posts before hers state similar opinions but this one you replied to w that. ^^^^. Was it just honest banter between you guys after that or is there really a problem? I could state the obvious, but I’m sure many ladies just want to make sure we don’t make the same mistakes in real world opportunities/collaborating etc.
Also, would you or anyone care to elaborate on the Italia comment? Or maybe link me to something or email me. I’m sorry I am behind on info but I haven’t followed all of the mess diligently I have heard a few things but nothing detailed. Just trying to stay aware that’s all. I recently met her and she was nice but again nothing more than superficial introductions. What was said seemed serious to me and would like to make a formal judgement... to know better and steer clear or “enter at my own risk” if you will. Lol. Nope not trying to derail... however it was stated right here in this thread hence my concern and question.
My 2 cents: if a girl says a guy is pushy and problematic, even if his entire profile comments and refs say otherwise, if ONLY one girl says he’s too much to deal w and has a gut feeling that leads to a no, I ALWAYS will side w her. Unfortunately (for gents) w me, one hiccup.. one sour message... and it’s a big fat no from me as well. There’s a quote from a podcast I religiously listen to, “Ladies, stay weird and stay rude.” I can elaborate and even share the link to explain it but the link itself could possibly out me IRL. lol. Ladies, I’m happy to email you the story/link behind it. Essentially, when you have a gut feeling about a guy, in email, on the streets, on the phone, elevator etc, many try to be polite and ignore that feeling for fear of being wrong, weird, or rude (or in our case fear of losing business) ...putting themselves in vulnerable positions. 3 days later they turn up bound gagged and dead. Stay weird and stay rude ladies.