I think you need to be careful looking too deep. We play this game with the people we do because we like to go home to our families and nice homes with normal routines. The world we play in except for a very few have some pretty screwed up lives. If you take your blinders off and go all white knight you may end up seeing what predators we actually are, praying on very NEEDY and desperate girls. My advice is let it go so you don’t wake up in the middle of the night in a cold sweat with the realization that the one person our little girls look up to and want to marry some day is a person who preys on those who are vulnerable