If your provider wasn't a provider, would you give her a second look?

Lol. I don't upcharge. I will tie you up though - with my stockings Originally Posted by Naomi4u

WOW! That sounds awesome!

Note to self: Get out Boy Scout knot tying book.

I have given a provider I've met a second look. I met a provider that told me she was only going to be in this buisness a short time, she wasn't kidding. I've been looking for her ever since. I know her real name and would see her in a conventional sense. She just happens to be the type of girl I would date.

LOL Hope it's ok to toss my 2 cents in.
I hide my face, so I run into this concern alot from guys & I wasn't sure how to calm their fears. Fortunately for me, I have a face that is reminiscent of Christina Ricci & so far have not had anyone disappointed. But the fact still remains that the concern is there. I have a very professional job outside of this & just happen to enjoy being in this lifestyle, so I hide my face for solely the purpose of privacy.

I too am a busty petite young lady, but I suppose b/c I can turn heads when I go out it never occurred to me my service & looks were not worth what I charge. My menu is fairly open but not b/c I feel I need to compensate for anything, but more or less b/c I enjoy this.

So I dunno, is it always the case rates are dictated by looks & service & if so once I have dropped my last 20lbs that give me my nice soft curves & turn myself into one of the "slender"/"athletic" girls w/ the "hard body"(a body type which I personally don't find myself attractive at), I suppose based on this theory, I could up my rate to 500.00+ & get paid just b/c of a difference in 20lbs? though my service will be just as great & my face no different? There in I believe lies the "visual stimulation factor" as to whether a guy is willing to pull out 3 bills or 5...gonna have to think about this one, I would hit the gym hard to make an extra 2 bills/hr...

I have given a provider I've met a second look. I met a provider that told me she was only going to be in this buisness a short time, she wasn't kidding. I've been looking for her ever since. I know her real name and would see her in a conventional sense. She just happens to be the type of girl I would date. Originally Posted by acp5762

Ah, the one that got away! We have all had one of those!

Though Ive never had anyone say "no thanks" I doubt I get many 2nd looks.....unless I had toilet paper stuck to my foot

What attracted the client to the provider in the first place. It had to be something.

Forgive me if this topic has already been discussed.

A friend of mine told me today that he pays a lot of women that he wouldn't give a second look in a normal situation. i asked him why? He said it was because they were willing to do everything under the sun and they had good reviews.

Fellas, my question to you today is : If the lady you currently pay to see wasn't an escort, would you give her a second look in a normal/everyday situation? Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Though Ive never had anyone say "no thanks" I doubt I get many 2nd looks.....unless I had toilet paper stuck to my foot Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Sweet you under estimate yourself. I think you would get plenty of looks

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Why don't you ask Ed what he thinks.. he's seen both of us lol. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Heck, I thought you were both Nigerian....read the reviews...I'm not talkin'....

If I wouldn't give her a second look in the real world, I probably wouldn't see her as a provider.

Provider or no, I give most ladies a 2nd look. It's one of my favorite pastimes.

Fellas, my question to you today is : If the lady you currently pay to see wasn't an escort, would you give her a second look in a normal/everyday situation? Originally Posted by Naomi4u

To me, the whole point is to always choose a provider that I could probably never get in a normal/everyday situation. If I wouldn't give her a second look then I am sure as hell not going to pay to see her.

well, most women here i've noticed have a really good showcase, and sometimes even a website where more photos can be seen. since i can see the women before meeting them i'd say Yes. I'd definatly give them more than one look if i were to just meet them at the mall or wherever. I would not pick someone i believe is unattractive. There are so many pretty ladies here it's hard to choose lol.

For me the hobby is just for fun and extra variety. Not a chance I would see a provider that I wouldn't talk to at the bar.

If I see a provider that I am attracted to for P4P then I would be attracted to her in civie life as well. I look for looks, rates, and then services. If the looks are not there makes no difference what her rates are or what she offers, not my cup of tea.

In the olden days of my hobbying most girls showed their faces and it was easy to pick out the girl that I was attracted to for play. Now days a lot of girls, including my ATF, do not show their faces for various reasons.

If my current AFT was not a provider and I saw her in public or some social situation I would make a beeline for her and introduce myself hoping she liked me enough to chat and maybe exchange phone numbers.