Oh God, please God, No!

I mean, God Forbid this was one of the hundreds of posts where an ECCIE verified provider slammed another new BP provider or where client after client slammed a stripper or BP provider.....

I mean, how rude is for those girls who start out not knowing anything except the street to finally learn about this site and search for their name only to find posts in reviews where guys tell the other guys to "stick to ECCIE girls" or other providers respond to ISO after ISO and make degrading comments about non members when each and every provider, no matter where or how she sells it, are ALL selling the pussy even though it appears way too many on this site seem to think THEY are better than the other vagina vendors.

Or that they somehow see a better "class" of vagina vendors if they stick to ECCIE Verified not knowing that the girl they rave about is out peddling her ass on Harry Hines when no one calls and her rent is due.

Atleast she is advertising herself exactly as she is. No fake pics, no hiding anything. She has confidence, which in itself is sexy. She may not be your cup of tea, but I guarantee she is getting phone calls. Some men's fantasy is a girl just like her, and what is wrong with that? I doubt they would bash your choice in women. Let everyone be attracted to whoever they'd like. Do not pass judgement on another's body type or their preference in women.

I mean, God Forbid this was one of the hundreds of posts where an ECCIE verified provider slammed another new BP provider or where client after client slammed a stripper or BP provider.....

I mean, how rude is for those girls who start out not knowing anything except the street to finally learn about this site and search for their name only to find posts in reviews where guys tell the other guys to "stick to ECCIE girls" or other providers respond to ISO after ISO and make degrading comments about non members when each and every provider, no matter where or how she sells it, are ALL selling the pussy even though it appears way too many on this site seem to think THEY are better than the other vagina vendors.

Or that they somehow see a better "class" of vagina vendors if they stick to ECCIE Verified not knowing that the girl they rave about is out peddling her ass on Harry Hines when no one calls and her rent is due. Originally Posted by LazurusLong

i think you need a nap laz.

I mean, God Forbid this was one of the hundreds of posts where an ECCIE verified provider slammed another new BP provider or where client after client slammed a stripper or BP provider.....

I mean, how rude is for those girls who start out not knowing anything except the street to finally learn about this site and search for their name only to find posts in reviews where guys tell the other guys to "stick to ECCIE girls" or other providers respond to ISO after ISO and make degrading comments about non members when each and every provider, no matter where or how she sells it, are ALL selling the pussy even though it appears way too many on this site seem to think THEY are better than the other vagina vendors.

Or that they somehow see a better "class" of vagina vendors if they stick to ECCIE Verified not knowing that the girl they rave about is out peddling her ass on Harry Hines when no one calls and her rent is due. Originally Posted by LazurusLong

So you're justifying bad behavior by comparing it with other bad behavior?

So you're justifying bad behavior by comparing it with other bad behavior? Originally Posted by TonyStark

Yes. He has been doing that for years. He doesn't take responsibility for his behavior or attitudes, even in private coments; he just compares it with others and screams he is being crucified by the "authority".


The topic is ExNYer's post and it was bad form.

As was said. The public forums are nicer when people talk with civility, respect and discretion and exercise a little impulse control. There are private forums if one wishes to to act out and be a fool like Sophia's Bunghole or whatever it is.

While I see many things that is not my cup of tea while cruising around this little neighborhood of ours, I always remember that there is something for everyone. We all have our preferences, likes and dislikes, but I keep in mind that my tastes are just that, mine. Your tastes are yours, and I try to respect that.

I carry a few extra pounds, and have never had a lady be rude or mean. They have have always been very affectionate and playful (I mean really, but the girls see way more of us older heavy guys generally without complaining! And please do not use the "Since I am paying I expect that service" since guys are seeing her I think that is a wash!)

If the lady is not your cup of tea, just place your hands under your ass, sit on em while, in private, make snide comments, roll your eyes and then just move on without comment!

And finally, like my daddy always told me:

1. If ya can't say something nice, then say nothing.

2. Common courtesy is not common. (nor common sense!!)

3. If you wish for someone to respect you, your opinions and tastes then you must respect theirs. Just because you do not like something doesn't mean that everyone dislikes it.

4. It is better to remain quite and be thought the fool (or ass, or insert your choice of words) then to open your mouth and remove all doubt!

5. Opinions are like assholes, we all have them but think everyone's stinks but our own.

So, while she may not be your choice, she is someone's choice. I think that you calling her out in this manner was inappropriate, personal attacks are not the way we should do things, IMO.

Most comments and posts that we come to regret fall in the, "well, it seemed like a good idea at the time" category. That said, I'm having a real hard time seeing how the OP could have ever seemed like a good idea to anybody.

Wow, ladies and GENTLEMEN of Eccie. I'm impressed. Thank you all for being exactly what I have thought all along.... NICE! We have all stood up for her and told this jerk what we think. I'm very pleased to see that so many of you have voiced several great opinions on this thread.

To the providers: So many times, we can get the calls and set the appointments, and when he shows up he may not be our cup of tea. What do we do? We talk. We play. We communicate. We are nice. We find something about that person to like either thru general conversation or BCD. There is always a way to become attracted to whoever shows up either in mind, body, conversation or soul. That is what we do. We find the hidden beauty in ALL living creatures. We all have it in us.

(Well, I say "ALL" but.. to the poster... ummmmm)

And finally to the WONDERFUL gentleman of ECCIE:
Thank you all tremendously for sticking up for her in this thread. As many of you know, I'm a more private, shy type of provider. This lady has shown all and given NO bait and switch. Kudos to her. I think ya'll have all voiced your opinions well. For that, I give you thanks. Thank you for showing this BOY how a real MAN should conduct himself.

Anyone wanna do the BIG BROTHER program to show him some guidance? lol

But no, seriously.... Thank you to everyone that has spoken up for the ridiculous thread being posted. I'm personally glad that the mod's haven't taken it down. Let him keep getting HIS ego hurt. Hopefully by now he feels as "SMALL" as he thinks he is compared to HER.

SEXY... YOU GO GIRL... you rock!!!

Now, let's all play nice from here on out. Shall we?

Amber Rain

VAGINA VENDOR

My new favorite hooker term.


Cranky or just trying to prove a point in a round about way, it's an instant classic.
(face it friends - some of you just won't see it his way - even if he was nicky re-incarnated...rip...let him have his say, and take it in the best "fair" light possible. all for one and one for all type of mind set might be a good way to look at it.)

But a public thrashing of a person that is a part of our community - BP, Harry Hines, Strip Club or otherwise - simply based on her status of being loved by chubby chasers - is quite uncalled for. Call me a hypocrite if you like. It just went way over the fun part of being politically incorrect.

This thread is NOT about all the little snide comments and attacks on each other. Its about someone showing no respect what so ever for another person. The staff has allowed this to continue to get across the point there is room for everyone here. If you dont like the looks or what ever of another person, keep your trap shut and you comments to yourself. If you show this kind of blatent disrespect for someone, you will be called out by the community.

I think the point has been made and its time for this to be put to rest before it turns into more personal attacks that have nothing to do with the orginal post.

On behave of the staff, I appoligize dear, that you were subject to such disrespect. I wish you the best of luck and happy hobbying