a10, the weak linck in your position is found in the detailed description of SG's medical situation by SG herself.
There is a universal rule at play. You post it/you own it
SG opened the door and let all of the golden retrievers out of the dog kennel with her own comments.
Her true friends (if she had any) were screaming at her to shut up and hide under a rock with rockerrick on a leash.
Favorite photos, avatars and free SG threADs will not make it go away. They only keep the conversation on the front page where Whispers wants it.
When she gets back, her only comment on the whole matter should be the following "I apologize for my behavior that led to my recent banning. I apologize for being indiscrete with a hobbyists information, and it will not happen again."
When it comes up in future threADs (and it will), she should simply reply with "once again, I apologize for that".
She should not attempt to justify her actions. She should not attempt to explain how the whole thing started as something else...........and if you are her friend, you will stay out of it.