"bad customers get bad customer service"...?

Poppy Do you gals have a method of reviewing guys and their attitudes and demeanor? How else would she know he was that rough? I may be different than some others because I always schedule way ahead so I have time to read reviews posted by other clients. When I first meet a woman I am tentative it what I do so she has a chance to choose what she will allow. I recently started searching for a woman's G-spot. Some women balk at FIV and I will back off of that. Don't ask if I have read her reviews to see about FIV as few women post whether that is or is not allowed.

I bet they would if taint photos were included.



l4b, bfc does not seem to understand if the rough play is too rough that the participants have the right to tap out and not have to endure assault. Originally Posted by pyramider

No. Never said that. Never implied that. The difference between me and some of you others is that I think she should have said no upfront and not let him face fucked her roughly. It's a lot easier to say no when a guy isn't ramming his dick down your throat.

What I said was: "You two act like a lady has no right to refuse a customer request...that her only recourse is to complain afterwards if she doesn't like it. That's bullshit. She should feel free to say no upfront if the activity is out of her comfort zone."

Unlike you, I'm not trying to determine how much rough face fucking is appropriate for a lady to endure. Unlike you, I'm not saying she should endure it until it reaches the level of assault and then tap out. I'm saying ladies should try to avoid a situation where they feel they're being assaulted by getting a better understanding of what the guy means by rough before he starts in her. As I said earlier: "If the request is vague, ask him to clarify. Get the information you need to make a decision. Don't just say yes and hope for the best."

I lady can always say no and tap out. The OP followed your approach and endured as much as she could before tapping out and throwing him out. I'm guessing she wishes she would have just said no upfront and had a normal session, because it sure doesn't seem that your approach worked out for her.

And just to be clear, I was not at the session. I don't how rough the guy got. I'm talking in general.

Poppy Do you gals have a method of reviewing guys and their attitudes and demeanor? Originally Posted by tucson

Did Poppy get a sex change.

Not trying to argue with you in the least bit......

Your grasp of the English language is just a tad bit better than the OP, do you think something might have been lost in translation?

Just asking, you seem to get wound up quick sometimes...

Later man! Originally Posted by lookn4boobies

Yes, I think something got lost in translation. Rough meant something different to each of them.

OOPS me bad OK Sinsoftheflesh can you answer that. I know that I can go to reviews in my section but do the ladies have the same type of section.

Did Poppy get a sex change. Originally Posted by BFCjosh

Lol glad he caught it...I guess I need to go back to the Bill Cosby avatar lmao

Poppy I am sorry about that. I will give you my old pimps mouth with the six gold teeth.

OOPS me bad OK Sinsoftheflesh can you answer that. I know that I can go to reviews in my section but do the ladies have the same type of section. Originally Posted by tucson

Oh yes, indeed we do. Providers have a private area similar to the Men's Lounge where we can post alerts, share information, vent, rant, whatever. It is very useful

Has there been any thing posted with this guys name in the ladies room?

Poppy I am sorry about that. I will give you my old pimps mouth with the six gold teeth. Originally Posted by tucson

No worries

The guy wanted to face fuck her and asked permission to do it roughly. So your comparison is silly. A better example would if you told me you wanted to fuck me with a 12 inch dildo and do it roughly.

I would say no. I don't want to be fucked in the ass and I certainly don't want to be fucked in the ass roughly. The degree of roughness would make no difference.

Similarly, if I were the OP, I would have told the client that I don't want to be face fucked (which is already a form of rough play) and I sure as hell don't want to be face fucked roughly.

You two act like a lady has no right to refuse a customer request...that her only recourse is to complain afterwards if she doesn't like it. That's bullshit. She should feel free to say no upfront if the activity is out of her comfort zone.

If the request is vague, ask him to clarify. Get the information you need to make a decision. Don't just say yes and hope for the best. Originally Posted by BFCjosh

^^makes sense.

Just asking, you seem to get wound up quick sometimes... Originally Posted by lookn4boobies

Yes I vented very soon after the session.

Has there been any thing posted with this guys name in the ladies room? Originally Posted by tucson

Bad question.

Yes I vented very soon after the session. Originally Posted by HoneyRyder007

And you actually answered. just for the record if someone asks about Infoshare or the Powder Room, you can tell what you say in there, but anyone else, no-no.

I don't need to know what is in the Powder Room. I just wondered if any thing had been posted with this guys name so she would have been warned. I know with the way the reviews are set up I could search for a no vote. To be honest I check the latest reviews not the ones that are old. If the reviews intrigue me then I will go to her web site. I am looking for a fun time with some one that has a sense of humor and quick wit.

Yes I vented very soon after the session. Originally Posted by HoneyRyder007

If a provider feels she must post a rebuttal, she should (IMHO) speak her piece, then let it go.