Curious about Hobbyist Age

Well, people have different experiences. Everyone can't be the suave, confident, studs you all were! I know I never had the "stud" gene. Hell, I lost my virginity to a provider when I was 18. You have to be born with the innate ability to hit the "home run"! Alas, some of us were not. So kudos to you guys! Your lives are the stuff dreams are made of lol! Originally Posted by dongeykong

Ever wonder why so many hobbyists are in their late forties and older? There was a thread recently (there always is) about "why men hobby". Ultimately, the reason is, because we were predestined to do so. Consider; from the beginning of time, women were the supply and men were the demand. Girls mature with the knowledge ingrained in them by their mothers from day one; "as long as I have one of these, I can get as many of those as I want". And, truth be told, they were actually three times more powerful than their mothers were willing to explain. Add to that the fact that women can control their libidos better than we can and you can see the balance of power is decidely inequitable.


Conversely, men are born into the world to chase. Granted, the playing field is a bit more level early on; guys are younger, better looking, more virile and the girls are less experienced, more naive and romantically motivated. I have never considered myself to have more than average attraction and I am certainly not overly endowed, but even so, my bachelor years were active and very memorable. However, as we progress through life, the inequality becomes increasingly apparent. Not so much to the Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Sean Connery types, but it's fairly obvious to most of us. Now we are not young, less attractive (if that's possible) and our virility is blue. Yet we still have that damn sex drive.


To the OP; as mentioned before, the age range for our little community varies greatly, as do the reasons associated with those ages. I do not judge. This is a playground for everyone. I would guess that there are far more over 45 than under, but mostly for the reasons I have stated. At your age, you have many areas in which to play. Enjoy it. With any luck, science will delay the effect that life has on your sex life.

<------ Old enough to appreciate the finer things in life

<------ Young enough to get hard by the mere thought of being with the ladies of eccie

<------ Old enough to appreciate the finer things in life

<------ Young enough to get hard by the mere thought of being with the ladies of eccie Originally Posted by Gentlemen Rendezvous

I can vouch for that!! :-) Hurry back to Dallas! Xoxo

Still prefer more of the old guard....40s to 60s. Of which there are plenty.

Old here, zweiundsechzig.

“Billy, what the hell are you doing here man? You’re just a kid, you ought to be out in a convertible, bird dogging chicks and banging beaver.”
One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

Knowing some of the young girls I've encountered; you can have 'em. Originally Posted by TacoOtaku

I have friends of all ages, but hear this from a lot of the younger guys. Lol

I think average age of friends that visit me are mid 30s to 70ish. You might be on the young end, but your definitely not alone.

I started in my mid-20s.

only thing is it was hard to get appt. with some ladies at that age..

I started in my mid-20s.

only thing is it was hard to get appt. with some ladies at that age.. Originally Posted by deuceswilld83

Yes. Some ladies prefer to not see guys below 30. It has happened to me as well.

Well, I am in my early thirties, for the second time around. Having a great time when I am able, enjoying time with some lovely ladies, hoping I can talk them into sex. The only difference in now and then, for some reason I am much more successful these days. I realize I do pay for their time, but who would think they would be so easily talked into sex?? Is this a great country or what?

I am actually very young, but...

If a 20-something person asks whether I'd mind telling my age, I might say the following:

"Sure! In fact, I'll tell you almost exactly. I was born about midway through the third quarter of the period during which "Give 'em Hell, Harry!" served in the Oval Office."

Since our educational system has been circling the drain for decades, a lot of people would have no idea what the fuck I was talking about.

(Have you ever seen clips of Leno's "jaywalking" segments? It ain't a pretty sight!)

I'm in my late 20's and agree with age just being a number!

Mid 60's and will continue until it no longer stands at attention

I don't necessarily think your actual age is what is important. Originally Posted by Jillian Price

Does than mean you would do an outcall to my assisted living facility?

The minute any guy takes a girl on a date he is in the hobby and she has started providing. I'm 30 been doing this for a while. The way I see it every guy is paying for sex (dinner, movies, flowers, etc) and every girl is putting out for something. I started hobbying because I figured let's cutt the bullshit and both get what we want. I get what I need and the girl can spend the money on what she wants instead of me spending it on the bullshit. Not to mention the time savings. 1-2 hours apposed to a long drawn out 2-3 weeks of ass grabbing games and bullshit. I'll get off my soap box

I am in my mid twenties and started around 23, the only reason I started was to do things that in the real world are hard to find. I like shoving my dick down a girls throat and telling her to spit on it and saying disgusting things and fucking a girl in her ass and having two girls at the same time. I get pussy in the real world too but it is much more hit or miss with those girls, with plenty laying on the bed like dead fish or not being willing to suck my dick or whatever the case may be. With eccie, i can research some reviews and find the experience that I am looking for, for example: I'd be hard pressed to find a girl like Aleisha the freak in the real world, and anyone who has seen her or read reviews understands that she is an experience, just my 2 cents.