Need to understand the eccie community...

I think most of the real answers have already been offered up, most notably anonymity on the internet. Plus, much to my surprise initially (15 years ago, or so) there is a surprising amont of misogyny among hobbyists. It's certainly not universal, but it's far more than I would have expected. Plus, some folks who participate on both sides of the hobby just aren't worth a shit at dealing with people, love drama, or just have too much fucking time on their hands. Some never got out of the junior high school mind set. Some don't' have a life outside of ECCIE.

But I don't seem to attract too much controversy, and controversy doesn't seem to follow me. So there is something you can do about it. Probably harder to do something about it as a provider, but it's probably not impossible to do something to at least reduce the drama. Probably a few folks that are constitutionally incapable of reducing the drama. And that shouldn't be -- but probably is -- a surprise to those folks. C'est la vie!!

All I really want is truth in advertising.
If she's a minnow in her pics then I don't want to find a whale at the door.
If she says she's 5 foot tall I don't want to get a ladder to look her in the eye.
If she says she'll take it in the butt then she needs to bend over and grit her teeth.
If she says she's white I want her to look like a Northern European and not from the Congo.
If she can't make it she needs to call and cancel before I leave, not after I arrive.
She needs to put the boyfriend/ priest/ manager/ husband/ brother out before I knock on the door.

I don't want to look at pics of Elli May only to find Granny at the door.

First let me say.......

I don't give a fuck.

I'm nice to everyone and sometimes I think I want to fuck Wulf just because she can be such a pot stirrer. Then I read about her incall and remember THNs incall and I don't make an appointment.

Do what the rest of the bullies do pay 300+ every couple of months to host your own forum on here, add people so they can feel special and they will kiss your ass. This works for providers and pimps. If you watch carefully there is a trend.

Wulf Princess forums, then you don't have to post, rant or rave out in front of those who don't care to read it! problem solved for everyone! Originally Posted by Lolabrea01

Amen, and preach it sister!

Anybody want to see some real drama action, go check out the Houston Co-ED sometime. I haven't been on lately but a while back, it was a damn war zone.

You can also check out posts in the Austin forum by a provider by the name of ElectricFeelNow.

My point....Miss Wulf is saying nothing new, and Miss Lola hit it dead on!

I started with ASPD and then moved here so I've been around for a while. With the exception of exactly FOUR members, I haven't had problems here. One was a male, the others were providers. Sure, there are people who don't care for me and some have even said so. I don't care. I focus on the positive.

Yes, this board has changed from what it used to be. It was a kinder, gentler place in the beginning but everything evolves. It's become much more diverse with the increase in membership. That should translate to more clients to go around, not more adversity.

I'm sorry you have such a hard time but from what I've read, you bring a lot of it on yourself and take it personally. Here's a little advice, OP. Learn to compartmentalize and leave work at the office. If someone offends you, just let it go and move along. "Oh my god, life is so fair!" said no one ever.

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Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess
i could see this from my generation where respect something that is commonly beat into us... but some of these grown ass men doing it ... need to get their ass *edited because subject to opinion*

Orginally Posted By Prolongus
"Edited because subject to opinion"??? HUH??

Those are all her own edits, not staff edits. Everytime a post is edited by a staff member an automated email is sent out to the staff so we are aware when a staff member edits a post.

I like a nice clean place to hump.


That's all.

And she's banned......again. Originally Posted by L.A.

Of course she's banned again. She writes like a child and acts like one too. What 105 pound female threatens to kick a man's ass? I think she puts on her silly costumes and forgets that she is not a superhero and her psycho ass believes that she can actually beat up a man.

And just for the record, I enjoy having that crazy chick around because I find her highly entertaining....Her crazy ass threads beat the hell out of the usual, "who is the best" bullshit threads that you see all of the time in this section.

The bullshit can't be understood don't rack your brain!