Is it Appropriate to contact a friend who doesnt know you know shes a provider??

PM her... Use your real name but make it sound as if you do not know who she is
Maybe even provide a link to your picture on Photobucket or whatever.

Say something about how nice and generous that you are

Tell her if she says no, you will not contact her anymore

I would call her. She may be happy to see you!

Based off of what you know about her as a person (from the past), do you think it is something she would be upset about?

I have several people in my life, that I have been able to open up to about all of this, so I consider myself lucky.

Only you will know if it is the sort of thing that will not make her upset. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

I don't honestly know. Its been 15 years. I know we would have a lot of fun if we got past the surprise.

PM her... Use your real name but make it sound as if you do not know who she is
Maybe even provide a link to your picture on Photobucket or whatever.

Say something about how nice and generous that you are

Tell her if she says no, you will not contact her anymore Originally Posted by instfixer

That is the perfect Idea . If I do contact her that is exactly what I will do.

I don't honestly know. Its been 15 years. I know we would have a lot of fun if we got past the surprise. Originally Posted by pleasher46

I think you should go for it. Just be honest and tell her it is you and you would love to meet up again and catch up.

I think you should go for it. Just be honest and tell her it is you and you would love to meet up again, catch up, tap her taint. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

Completed the thought.

That is the perfect Idea . If I do contact her that is exactly what I will do. Originally Posted by pleasher46

Just post a review if you see her or a comment if you don't so that we will all know who she is and how this thing ends.......................... ....Lol.................:nopit y:

I don't honestly know. Its been 15 years. I know we would have a lot of fun if we got past the surprise. Originally Posted by pleasher46

No you dont know that. Ive had an ex fwb find me and contact me. We had a very nice Dinner at Kirbys and shared a cigar. Im not the same girl anymore and havent given anyone "Free" time since i started the hobby. For me i have no interest in it. I can have all my needs met here. Including friendship. So If I were you I wouldnt assume to know her thoughts or response.

No you dont know that. Ive had an ex fwb find me and contact me. We had a very nice Dinner at Kirbys and shared a cigar. Im not the same girl anymore and havent given anyone "Free" time since i started the hobby. For me i have no interest in it. I can have all my needs met here. Including friendship. So If I were you I wouldnt assume to know her thoughts or response. Originally Posted by Sonya

I believe you may have misunderstood me. I never said anything about free. . I think I should at least give her a discount though. Smile. Just kidding.
Hmm. Just thinking.. I have lots of thoughts going through my head right now. But I will stick to the question I most need the answer to. Bet you could be a cold freaky bitch.. ( and I mean that in a sexual way. so don't take offence) I like dominant bitches.. A lot... I have a real life. I have friends and lovers without money being exchanged, and I hope she does to. But I don't pretend to know what it would be like to be in her shoes. I would pay if she wanted me to, but only once if shes not the type I pay for. If she is as good or better than her competition than I would continue to pay. But I wont pay for a friend. I pay for dominant bitches who like to treat me like a whore, than and get all kinds of freaky with me. smile. I pay because I'm 46 and I like younger aggressive women from time to time ( well maybe more often than that.) I know what you mean by those friend ships. Iv had a few of them. I will give you this. They can feel like real friendships. But they are not. On the other hand. And this is what I'm getting at. A dom/sub relationship, on the surface is more one sided than friends or lovers might be. I repeat." On the surface". I think it may be possible that the way you view your clients/friends makes you a very good prospect for that type of play.. But only you could tell me that. Before you get mad.. remember.. I love me some cold freaky bitches...

^^^^ Fucking really dude?

^^^^ Fucking really dude? Originally Posted by Russ38

Pretty much what he said....


All those little letters you look at....

They form sentences, those form thoughts, then if you can read carefully, you can understand some of those.

That post was so gay.....it should be moved to the "Other Review/Discussion Area".....ijs

I don't know about her but I go thru great pains to keep this part of my life very private. she may get freaked out thinking you may out her if she does not respond the way you want her to. I think I would just leave this alone. she just might run from you if you tell her or anyone else about this. And the others were right about seeing people we know in the real world. I would never see someone i knew outside of these sites.
Hope it all works out for you

OK Heres the delema.. I just ran across a showcase of a provider who I at one time had the biggest crush on.. (15 years ago.) I just relocated to Houston about 6 months ago. This Girl was always hot. A player. I became good freinds with her and the only reason I never got played was because I wouldnt fall in love.. Yea Right. smile.. Ok I did.. But seriously we were friends. I didnt let on that I was in love.. I watched her run through guys faster than you could ever imagine. Let me be clear.. She was not a user so to speak.. She like the attention and liked them falling in love , it wasnt about money...

On one hand we didnt part on the best of terms, and the other thing is I would hate to embarriass her. I have given this a lot of thought. I would love to become a client .. If Im not to shy to let her into my world and who I am these days should I worry about her... I cant just call her and act like I dont know because we have lost touch and how would I explain finding her.

Any advise would be great... Thank you. Originally Posted by pleasher46

This thread is so popular by now that it would be very surprising if she gets your PM and is completely clueless about it... Especially since you mentioned she's well reviewed.