Suggestive Screening?

I didn't want to read 3 pages, so I am just going to put an experience and some other things down.

I don't see the ladies often enough to keep references "fresh", I doubt the last girl I saw even remembers me. So I have a hard time coming up with references and such. So on the older board a provider and I met up at a coffee shop in the morning and had a chat and that was good enough for her. I now that isn't going to be good enough for everyone, but it seems to work.

I agree its your decision how much to screen. If you pick the wrong client and something goes bad then you can't take it back. Safety and protecting your privacy should be number one.

This while I have been a hobbiest now for several years this is my first time as a member of a site like eccie and I have had far more pleasuable experiences with the ladies here than I have ever had before. I have been here now for about 6 months and while some of you know me to be a nice person others dont and I do not expect or do I want to be with anyone who is on edge because they do not know who I am or what will happen next. Where's the fun in that?
While there will always be new members and providers coming on here that does not mean anyone should get pissed off because a provider ask for ref's or is not newbie friendly. After all he gets the benifit of reading the reviews to check out the provider.
The only issues I have had since I've been here is that some of the reviews were not very accurate mostly on ladies outside this forum, and I dont go there anymore. and Ladies if your YMMV or your limited GFE tell the member if he is going to write a review to put it in. Oh yeah and NEWBIES your gonna have to take your lumps until you get the ref's you need. IF YOU DON'T KNOW ASK the best thing I did was ask some of the ladies that were not newbie friendly who did they know that they would trust for an honest ref that was newbie friendly.

Be safe everyone and Merry Christmas!!!

Id love to see me some MsPrittiKitti soon.

thanks babe!! you know how to find me!!!

Second indicator is location of client....is he in $30 a night rat hole or in a $200+ a night hotel. Doubtful a jerk would fork over cash to pay for lavish digs when he plans on hassling a lady. There are rich jerks…..but it’s my belief that persons who stay at nice places don’t plan on making a scene.

You would think so, however, I would NEVER make an assumption like this. Jerks and rapists come in all sizes, ethnic groups, intelligence and income levels. There are many risks in this hobby...LE is just one...and if I had to choose, I'd much rather come across LE than a rapist. This is the main reason for getting information "about" the person from another "reputable" provider.

Just as a reminder...Phillip Markoff was a 22year Boston University Med Student who attacked and robbed two women and killed a 26 year old woman. The first attack was at a Boston Westin...another was at a Marriott and the other at a Holiday Inn. Who would have ever thought that a young, intelligent, well educated, caucasian man would assault, rob and kill?

Never take anything for granted...and never assume anything! Screen well...but always to your own comfort level.

i have been on this site for a while now but i have been having trouble finding providers who are newbie friendly. They always ask for references, how can i get references?

ns..would be good to find newbie friendly providers.
(after 3mo...i would think you knew that )
still considering being newbie friendly...but i dont recall any gents telling what info they 'wouldnt mind' divulging. hmmm.....

stay tuned...i may have changes in the near future!