Donations BEFORE or AFTER The Session..

See Here's My Opinion to all the gentleman that pay after:

I think some floozy backpage lady ripped yall off and got scared after that and promise to never ever pay first. U guys put y'all own self in that situation. SCREEN!

My Policy :
Donations r giving BEFORE the session then the session starts. Im so fair for EXAMPLE , If you cum in 15mins and paid for 30mins I have no problem refunding what is owed. Tips are greatly appreciated but never required. I TRY to put myself in you guys shoes. U come to this my house to have a good time. U go to work everyday long hours and just want to relax with a sexy young lady. . Money is pretty valuable however I think time is more valuable and I hate waisting my clients time. I want u to remember me. I want your cock throbbing for my lips again ...

With me, it's simple. If I am visiting a provider at her incall, the envelope is put on a table right away and she can check it or not and do with it as she pleases. If it's her incall, she isn't going to dash. If it's a hotel room, I put the envelope down and she can check it if she pleases, but the envelope stays in sight on the table. If I have to use the restroom to freshen up at the beginning of an appointment, the envelope goes with me and she can check it again when I return. There should be no awkwardness in Providers or Clients protecting themselves from being ripped off, especially given how many of both are out there trying to do just that.

With me, it's simple. If I am visiting a provider at her incall, the envelope is put on a table right away and she can check it or not and do with it as she pleases. If it's her incall, she isn't going to dash. If it's a hotel room, I put the envelope down and she can check it if she pleases, but the envelope stays in sight on the table. If I have to use the restroom to freshen up at the beginning of an appointment, the envelope goes with me and she can check it again when I return. There should be no awkwardness in Providers or Clients protecting themselves from being ripped off, especially given how many of both are out there trying to do just that. Originally Posted by Lust4xxxLife

I love your answer baby

On a few occasions I was almost out the door and forgot to leave it when she (a regular I had been seeing) asked me for it. I genuinely forgot and was very embarrassed and apologetic. Originally Posted by hd

almost left without
realizing I had never given it to her, funny thing is she had forgotten
about it too. Originally Posted by bojulay

If I had a dollar for everytime I heard this, I wouldn't hook anymore LOL. This is why I prefer to get my donation first... I didn't forget to suck the soul outta your body, why forget my donation? You may have forgotten but she was only pretending to. Wanting to tip after is no excuse. If you wanna tip afterwards, reach back in your wallet and pull out an extra $20, $50, or $100. It's not hard... you just reach back, and reach in LOL. I'm gonna fuck you just the same either way.. well.

That is why a guy should take the initiative and do it himself.

Blows me away that people would make it a personal thing.
It is just looking out for a girl in a rather vulnerable situation,
and just plain old taking care of business in a professional
manner Originally Posted by bojulay

ok so here is the, dilemma...

i have watched specifically from ECCIE members (mostly in DFW)

"oh well i'll pay you what you deserve after sesion" -them deciding rate

"how about i give you half at beginning and tip you rest of "it's worth it""

and my favorite
"after haggling, oh well i can give you X amount over your asking rate after session"

and the most common
asks for an hour, only last 5min... then only pays for said 5mins because he has to go

i'm ok with losing buisness over this post.

honestly so many people are looking out for number 1 that they could honestly care less what some rando hooker may "need" the money she just risked freedom for.

I know i get it "blah blah blah been ripped off in past" but honestly it's because you choose wrong girl, none of us ladies a carbon-copies of each other, and too many people treat it like we are.


So NO, i will tell you my rate, unless it's in my possession before that then it's not gonna happen and you can leave with out making it into my place simple as that.

No one in the hobby is completely with out risk, but i'll be dammed if i take all the risk and you decide "meh i think she is only worth half of her rate... because i promise almost no one will DOUBLE the rate if it blows their mind lol... ijs

I go with whatever the lady wants...I tend to not give the donation before the a session, with someone I am seeing for the first time.

After some of the B.S. I have seen with some of the so called ladies on this site. I'm now a person that is going to pay when walking out the door.

If I scheduled an hour and you don't do MSOG or I almost at the half hour point that's what I will pay for. This is all about trust, and I hate to say it, but I'm losing trust.

I work to hard for my money that I choose to spend on you, and I want to get the best for my dollar.

Take it for what it worth. For me just know other ladies have messed it up!

It works both ways with me...Just depends on who I'm spending time with. I've seen a few enough that I can donate on the way out the door and there are some that I just drop it as I walk in...

Guess it depends on how well you know and how often you've seen THAT PARTICULAR TRICK...LOL

I like to drop it when I arrive. If I don't enjoy myself, then I won't repeat.

I love how people think that screening fixes everything. It reduces risk but isn't full proof. I've still had established ladies do the following:

- Cut the session short after first pop
- Attempt to upsell after previously confirming what was included on the advertised rate
- Misplace donation at beginning of session and forget that I ever gave it her. I made the decision to waste my time and stay until she found it.
- End an hour session after 7 minutes due to her own personal reasons. Took it upon herself to keep 25% of the donation before handing me the change.

Everyone keeps talking about risk but let's be real.. Power becomes a very important factor if an unfavorable situation arises. And the person in possession of the donation usually has control over those situations. I dealt with them all as civil as possible and cut my losses like I'm sure plenty of us, hobbyist and provider, have had to do on one occasion or another.

I didn't forget to suck the soul outta your body, why forget my donation? Originally Posted by Hottentot Venus

+1! Haha.

I've still had established ladies do the following:

- Cut the session short after first pop
- Attempt to upsell after previously confirming what was included on the advertised rate
- Misplace donation at beginning of session and forget that I ever gave it her. I made the decision to waste my time and stay until she found it.
- End an hour session after 7 minutes due to her own personal reasons. Took it upon herself to keep 25% of the donation before handing me the change. Originally Posted by Slayer

All more manageable by paying after your receive your service!!!

Nina, don't you think it is safer to get the money 1st, go and deposit it in at the bank and then come back and start the session so that he does not steal it back from you?

I like to drop it when I arrive. If I don't enjoy myself, then I won't repeat.

I love how people think that screening fixes everything. It reduces risk but isn't full proof. I've still had established ladies do the following:

- Cut the session short after first pop
- Attempt to upsell after previously confirming what was included on the advertised rate
- Misplace donation at beginning of session and forget that I ever gave it her. I made the decision to waste my time and stay until she found it.
- End an hour session after 7 minutes due to her own personal reasons. Took it upon herself to keep 25% of the donation before handing me the change.

Everyone keeps talking about risk but let's be real.. Power becomes a very important factor if an unfavorable situation arises. And the person in possession of the donation usually has control over those situations. I dealt with them all as civil as possible and cut my losses like I'm sure plenty of us, hobbyist and provider, have had to do on one occasion or another. Originally Posted by Slayer

Actually the provider has control of the situation, whether she has the donation or not. What is there to gain by arguing when an "unfavorable situation arise?" Leave and learn from the experience. In all my years in the hobby, I have never had an"unfavorable situation arise" during a session.

You mentioned cutting the session short after one pop, did that pop happen very early on in the session? Or did it happen later in the session? I can see a lady limiting shots on goal if it took you over half the session to pop once. Plus, some ladies do not do MSOG, which if the fucktard did his research he should know.

I learned very early in the game to put the white envelope with the donation somewhere in obvious view before we start. I have had a couple of instances where I drove off at the end with it in my pocket and had to go back, which makes you look bad whether you meant to or not. So I always put it out there first and say, "Here, this is for you." I don't like it when they count it out in front of me, though.

...What is there to gain by arguing when an "unfavorable situation arise?" Originally Posted by pyramider

Not trying to gain anything.. Loss of funds for anything less than what's advertised is the concern.

You mentioned cutting the session short after one pop, did that pop happen very early on in the session? Or did it happen later in the session? Originally Posted by pyramider

I've had early pops and a good provider will usually at stay and chat until time is up. The ones that are getting dressed before you can take the cover off, and still have a considerable amount of time left on the clock are the problem.