Let me clarify something, my listing Natalia's screening requirements came directly from her Eccie profile page. On the page is asks for, Full Name. Maybe if she where to change this to say, Hobby Name is would eliminate allot of confusion. After all, it wasn't until this thread that she mentioned she wanted the Hobby Name and Not Full name. If I've never read this thread I would not have known she wants Hobby Name.
As for as providers reaching out to other providers for references, us gentlemen have no clue what information it exchanged. So I only assumed you ladies share what intel you have with each other about us. I've never paid any attention to it or worried about it. I realized assuming makes an ass of me. LOL
In no way am I implying that you ladies should not do your screening to get your comfort levels up. I just figured once us guys are past the Newbie stage and have been with credible providers, the screening process would get easier. When I reached out to my first provider, she asked for all the same information that Natalia is asking for and my business card.
When other providers reached out to her for a reference, she told them that I was AWESOME!! Not sure what else was said?? But I was able to move on and see other ladies of my choice by providing references without all the other intel.
So I just figured I was past the Newbie stage now and moving to other providers would be easier screening process.