Sometimes the mental is so much more important than the physical. I find having an opportunity to spend time with a woman I find intriguing with absolutely no chance of bedding her is the most amazing foreplay ever. As long as the possibility exists for another time, however remote that possibility may be. So this idea has great merit, I think, on many levels.
I have, of course, been accused of being too focused on mental things - or was that of being mental.....
Be Well Soon, Lovely Lady.