My experience with an ATF is interesting; in the beginning we kissed a lot, passionate kissing. After many visits including overnights and traveling together she became increaseingly hesitant to kiss. When I asked about it she said, "I can do anything with a stranger, but as we become better friends, I feel uncomfortable kissing." I don't get it. Ladies, is this your experience? Can you explain this to me?
For me this is a YMMV, it really depends from client to client, from setting to setting. I have a problem with emotionally attached clients, who have needs for love or search for lovers. Here i set boundaries with no kissing, to make it clear to him i am not available all the way. I love experimental clients who are fun and with whom i have a chemistry, those i like to kiss too, because they don`t fall in love afterwards. For me its a matter of dosages. And intention.