Dating a providers

Ive actually dated a provider for a time. many many years ago in the mid 90s. She worked in a FS spa like environment. started innocently enough, I had been a regular for a while and after a session we hit the movies. I was going anyway and she tagged along. We enjoyedeach others company outside the studio so we dated for a while.

Inside the studio I started seeing other providers she'd recommend while she was in with other clients. She'd like her head in to watch sometimes or get really loud for me to hear her.

She ended up moving back home closer to family.

A few comments stated about having enough money to get off the market and such. Are we talking about love or sex and money? Somehow I feel like now I'm confused a bit.

A few comments stated about having enough money to get off the market and such. Are we talking about love or sex and money? Somehow I feel like now I'm confused a bit. Originally Posted by stockn2468

Since this is my job, if you want to take me off the market, you have to want me enough to look past my past,Love me enough to want to help me have a better life, be exclusively only for me(so if I can't do others, neither can you).....

It will be just like the movie Pretty Woman, lol.

But you have to be really X-tra special to even get past the 1st hello with me... I was in an 8 yr. RW relationship I left because he watered more lawns than just mine. lol(And no I wasn't in this business)

So to answer YOUR question, I am talking about LOVE, and If I have your LOVE unconditionally, then I will automatically have your money.....

Men spend $$ on things they LOVE.....Cars, Trucks, Motorcycles, and Women!!

Just my take.................
M.M.

[QUOTE=Melissa Madyson;1059466076]Since this is my job, if you want to take me off the market, you have to want me enough to look past my past,Love me enough to want to help me have a better life, be exclusively only for me(so if I can't do others, neither can you).....

It will be just like the movie Pretty Woman, lol.

But you have to be really X-tra special to even get past the 1st hello with me... I was in an 8 yr. RW relationship I left because he watered more lawns than just mine. lol(And no I wasn't in this business)

So to answer YOUR question, I am talking about LOVE, and If I have your LOVE unconditionally, then I will automatically have your money.....

Men spend $$ on things they LOVE.....Cars, Trucks, Motorcycles, and Women!!
I understand how you feel MM. I would never ask someone to quit something they love to do, but I can definitely respect the way you think as well.

I understand how you feel MM. I would never ask someone to quit something they love to do, but I can definitely respect the way you think as well. Originally Posted by stockn2468

yes I am glad you do..... I love my "Hobby" profession, However I would love my relationship more IF it was the real deal...

I won't pretend or sugar coat things. I just tell it like it is, unlike some ladies who post big old glorious things about a guy who supposedly has taken them off the market, then a week or so later she is back posting that she had to come back because he was mean and abusive to her, looked through her phone ect...didn't trust her because he met her as an escort.

I can assure you, when I am done with this life and line of work, I will have a new phone and #, I will not return to lurk, or care what is said about me afterwards.....

But until that time comes, I will just do ME, and do it the best I can....Live life to the fullest....

M.M.

After meeting her and talking to M.M. I believe she could walk away from this life!

She is sweet and pretty. I hope she finds her Prince Charming!

I wouldn't date anyone that wasn't cool with my life choices‼️

Honesty is key. Personally, I couldn't do it. Just knowing the past would eat at my soul. By far, I am no saint myself. Reading all the posts about money, "That a man should make enough to support her".

There are real world jobs out there, that may not pay what you were making before. I'm 47 and semi-retired and would hate to lose it all.

To each their own. Besides, its most gentlemens fantasy to date a dancer or a provider until reality sets in.

Disclaimer: These thoughts are based on ones opinion, who's opinion is based on what's he believes. By no means of his opinion is to hurt or damage another's belief, who has their own opinion.

I have never seen it work out. Seen some try but in the end people dont trust or say nasty things to each other be it her calling him a trick or him ultimately calling her a whore. Nope ... no desire to date a trick. xxoo annie

Ive never told any date what i really do for a living. I would probably be limited to dating clients, which im not interested in.

For me this is an occupation (which i enjoy). Im otherwise monogamous. I would quit or semi retire if boyfriend was paying my bills!

Also, for me to quit, our relationship would have to be stable, and he would have to put a 'rang' on it. Im not going to leave my career just to date.

I wouldn't be afraid to date a woman in this career for several reasons... I don't fall easily so it's unlikely to happen. It rarely happens as a result so when it does I'm too grateful for the emotion to care about trivial things. A career as a provider is trivial to me because a role in the hay, and love are not the same thing. It's literally just adult play... Psychology man... Im not rich, just comfy so if one wanted me it wouldn't be for my money. It'd be cuz I'm just cool and fun. Im not sugar daddy material.. I have my own money and I'm a lone wolf so I don't need her money and I wouldn't want to be involved as a manager. I'm a freaky dude so I wouldn't mind joining for certain types of sessions. As stated before I'm a lone wolf and a bit of an introvert so I'd welcome the me time while she's working or traveling. I've been in alternative relationships already so big deal on another one that is unconventional. If/when it doesn't work out then it would end up like all my other relationships. Move on and never see each other again, it's how I handle endings. End it 100%. People as a whole are too hung up on sex and relationships. If it happens enjoy it while it lasts cuz nobody lives forever and nothing lasts. In other words... tell me, involve me sometimes, but for the most part leave me alone about it and remind me to take out the trash without an attitude and if she can spend some time with me scratching my belly and making my leg twitch I don't care about much of anything. It would be the same thing as my last relationship.. does anybody think I want to hear about your day at work really? Same can be said for any other job or if she makes more money than me or if she has a higher profile job like brain surgeon. All I care about is my swing, my sword, and my sandwich. Lol if I had a huge ass nutshell then that would be my thoughts on the matter... in said nutshell. No I haven't thought about this. Not longer than it took to type it out... about four minutes.

In my opinion ya spent to long. Took ne 13 seconds to read and comprehend it.. j.s xxoo annie. This is depressing. I shall flee this thread accordingly and wish nic a happy b-day instead!