Don't mess this up for me dude lol! I am only kidding with all of you. If I were to really think about the absolute min. I could get by with, 6k would do it. I own a home, am paying a mortgage on another but 800 comes from rental property, own 2 vehicles, pay for private school, student loans, and 3 incalls, plus car and medical insurance, utilities, cell phone, cable, oh forget it...who am I kidding! I could cut back though lol.
Originally Posted by London Rayne
Done! Cancel all your trips, close your account on here. shut down your site. I will send you $6k tomorrow for the first month.
Don't mess this up for me dude lol! I am only kidding with all of you. If I were to really think about the absolute min. I could get by with, 6k would do it. I own a home, am paying a mortgage on another but 800 comes from rental property, own 2 vehicles, pay for private school, student loans, and 3 incalls, plus car and medical insurance, utilities, cell phone, cable, oh forget it...who am I kidding! I could cut back though lol.
Originally Posted by London Rayne
Oh, fine! Now it's $6K. Nothing worse than a SB who ups the price after striking a deal. This is why we stick with students and KFC girls. Looks like I lost to JF anyway...again!
Ya'll are too funny! Trust me...I am too much of a biaatch to be a SB for anyone right now ha ha. An hour at a time baby.
You aren't a bitch. You are opinionated. I love it. Me and you, bottle of wine, you blowing me under the table since you don't work and all you did today was watch tv and buy clothes and shit. Then after you blow me i go fuck the maid cause my dick is too big for you.. I can see it now.. i'm in love.. sounds blissful.
Oh, fine! Now it's $6K. Nothing worse than a SB who ups the price after striking a deal. This is why we stick with students and KFC girls. Looks like I lost to JF anyway...again!
Originally Posted by toehead
typical SB drama.. driving up the price before the meet and greet.
Fuck this shit, I'm going to the KFC near campus...
I am going to Jack in the Box...ijs. Nite guys.
When you come to town, you can eat at Jack Flash's box.
Hmm. I respect everyone's right to define "SD" or "SB" how they wish - but I personally don't care whether I fit a definition or profile of anything. I'm not rich - if I was, I wouldn't mind paying retail...
Note 1: "Reality is not reality, but perception is reality"
With this said, I have to say that LR's perception of what makes a SD/SB setup is different from others, but this is her opinion. And she, like the rest of us, is entitled to her opinion. (And like assholes, we all got 'em, and they all stink to someone else!)
However, with that said, I will have to state that I disagree with her on this. My definition of a SD is one who provides the lady with what she feels is a suitable arrangement. While we on the board here can argue as to what exactly makes up this, it is the ladies choice to decide what to ask for, as well as our choice to decide what to pay. There are those on both side of the fence who disagree with what others choose to demand and with those who agree to pay that demand, it is still no ones choice but their own to make.
Now, we can all quibble as to is she a hooker, provider, escort, etc. but the bottom line is, what does the SB seek, and what makes her satisfied in the arrangement? This, as well as how she reconciles the "mutual benefits" transaction is her decision, and hers alone, to make, and no one else.
Now, with that said, I have dabbled into the SA site, and have ran across a broad spectrum of ladies in both age and social-economic status. As the ladies have to weed out the creeps, so must the guys weed out the kooks. In my limited experience, most of the ladies were looking for some sort of assistance (financial, education, etc but mostly financial) without the "escort" label. (I know what it looks like, but we all sale to our self the emperors clothes to justify what ever it is we are trying to justify).
I have met a young lady who just asks for limited assistance weekly to provide that extra assistance in return for dinner/movie and a little loving. (Her words and description). I have offered more, but she has decline it each time. Now, would I consider this to be a true SD/SB relationship? YES! Why? Because there is mutual benefits provided to the satisfaction of both parties!
So, I will respectfully disagree with your opinion but fully respect your right to both have and express that opinion.
How could I possibly argue with such an eloquent post? Now, go fk yourself bwahahaha...JOKE!
I respectfully disagree with London as well, there is another dimension here beyond the transactional agreement which jack and others have been kind enough to stress the non-transactional nature of a real sb/sd arrangement.
Recently I had my first sb meeting bcd to "test" the waters and after 4 hours the cutie had 3 confirmed orgasms...this is something I have not experienced before ever in my lifetime...and although we are all in it for self gratification I do find it very fulfilling witnessing a lady multiple releases especially when carefully coordinated with mine...a feat very difficult to achieve in the single hour provider framework and of course totally unaffordable if multiple provider hours were to be considered.
The sbs I have had most of the time dont want money. They enjoy being with an older guy and like going out to dinner, travel, the finer things in life.
I had girls that wanted 400 a month, some that requested $15,000 just to meet.
My main ATF sb I have given little to as far as cash goes and see her all the time.
We have done everything from shooting at a range, going out to lunch, went to Canada and Japan, Went to her house and hung out, fucked in her car and my truck, flew her to Florida for a weekend.
She is very happy with this. She likes older guys. Now I am only 43 and in great shape so I can still turn a head or two. But in order for me to grasp and young girls attention I may need the help of an ATM machine.
The difference between a sb and a hooker is they enjoy being with me, they look forward to seeing me and they in general dont want to see me leave. I have been seeing the same girl for 3 months and keep asking her for a Christmas list. She said the only thing she needs is snow tires for her car. She doesnt know it but I got her a car.
I buy her cloths, she wears them for me.
I love how hookers want $10,000 a month because they watch too much MTV and see a guy give a girl a BMW on TV.
You are a hooker because you can disconnect. These girls are Sugar Babys because they can connect.
Cheap pussy? No, not at all. It takes time to find someone. If I wanted someone to just fuck a hooker would get a phone call.
I dont do the whole I will pay you so much for so many hook ups. That is a hooker on retainer. I have one of those, he is called my lawyer and he fucks me when ever I call him.
Questions? Concerns? I dont care. I enjoy this and have been hooker free for a while now.
I get one from time to time but only for a lunch quicky.
Last weekend my girl and I went to a strip joint, had a couple drinks, she danced with a couple girls, took her shopping at an adult store where she bought a nice tight dress and we went back and fucked. We slept together, Her in my arms, woke up and bought breakfast and I took her to her job.
Can't get that from a hooker.
- ivan
- 12-06-2011, 07:34 AM
And the you woke up :-)
The sbs I have had most of the time dont want money. They enjoy being with an older guy and like going out to dinner, travel, the finer things in life.
I had girls that wanted 400 a month, some that requested $15,000 just to meet.
My main ATF sb I have given little to as far as cash goes and see her all the time.
We have done everything from shooting at a range, going out to lunch, went to Canada and Japan, Went to her house and hung out, fucked in her car and my truck, flew her to Florida for a weekend.
She is very happy with this. She likes older guys. Now I am only 43 and in great shape so I can still turn a head or two. But in order for me to grasp and young girls attention I may need the help of an ATM machine.
The difference between a sb and a hooker is they enjoy being with me, they look forward to seeing me and they in general dont want to see me leave. I have been seeing the same girl for 3 months and keep asking her for a Christmas list. She said the only thing she needs is snow tires for her car. She doesnt know it but I got her a car.
I buy her cloths, she wears them for me.
I love how hookers want $10,000 a month because they watch too much MTV and see a guy give a girl a BMW on TV.
You are a hooker because you can disconnect. These girls are Sugar Babys because they can connect.
Cheap pussy? No, not at all. It takes time to find someone. If I wanted someone to just fuck a hooker would get a phone call.
I dont do the whole I will pay you so much for so many hook ups. That is a hooker on retainer. I have one of those, he is called my lawyer and he fucks me when ever I call him.
Questions? Concerns? I dont care. I enjoy this and have been hooker free for a while now.
I get one from time to time but only for a lunch quicky.
Last weekend my girl and I went to a strip joint, had a couple drinks, she danced with a couple girls, took her shopping at an adult store where she bought a nice tight dress and we went back and fucked. We slept together, Her in my arms, woke up and bought breakfast and I took her to her job.
Can't get that from a hooker.
Originally Posted by Gotyour6
V Most are too cheap to even fork over a mere 200 an hour, much less 10k a month which is what it would take for most providers to quit and only be exclusive to them.
It's full of broke guys looking for cheap azz, and pretending to be SDs.
Originally Posted by London Rayne
Jumping into this fight late but.....WTF?????
There is a HUGE and I mean HUGE attitude difference between a Sugar Baby and Sugar Baby that was once a stripper/provider....so HUGE that any smart Sugar Daddy would never consider having a stripper/provider as a Sugar Baby....I speak from experience.
No offense is meant to providers or strippers....but they tend (not all but most) have been in the game to long and have more of a hustle mentality. This is just my opinion...but I am always right.