A provider broke my heart and my wallet!

8701's Avatar
  • 8701
  • 06-15-2017, 08:27 AM
Try to reflect on the roll(role.."bank roll" lol) you played, and what to do(or not to do) different next time. Take some responsibility for not seeing the warning signs, don't be bitter. Wish for her the best if you truly care for her....."get over her by getting under another one". You'll be fine trust me,it happens to us all.
Bite the bullet. Leave her, no contact with her ever again. Ever. Even if she contacts you. Not another word. Explore the pain inside you and own it. With suffering comes learning. Decide you will never feel that way again. Learn to love yourself and admit your weakness, but grow strong from it. It didn't kill you. You haven't committed any violent response. DO NOT OWN / POSSESS ANY FEELINGS FOR HER. Let go of the possessiveness. That is the source of pain. Breathe, meditate, hang with truly loving people who love you unconditionally. You should explore the anger issues with a pro - it never hurts to do a re-boot. From this disaster you will become a better person.
gladius82's Avatar
Been through this shit before... in addition to all the other advice it is best that you cut this bitch off immediately and completely like a tumor.
You will still have feelings but you have to get in control and stay in control or you will eventually get fucked up physically, emotionally or financially or all three.
There is NOT a man alive that hasn't had the little head make the rest of him do some stupid shit.
CUT YOUR LOSSES or get fucked up worse than you are now.
IN THE HOBBY...NEVER GET SO ATTACHED TO ANY PROVIDER THAT YOU CAN'T DROP HER ASS WHEN IT IS TO YOUR BENEFIT.
That may seem harsh but like in the boxing ring....PROTECT YOURSELF AT ALL TIMES.

In addition leave that talk of revenge alone, drop that shit like a used tampon.....no need in risking arrest, criminal charges and or conviction over some stupid shit.
BLM69's Avatar
  • BLM69
  • 06-15-2017, 09:53 AM
LMAO. The old anal shock treatment, huh? Originally Posted by LordoftheRim
Yes sir 👍
ManSlut's Avatar
I like to share my experience and thoughts and this forum is all about sharing information. I wish i could share my experience with my bro and friend but I don't want them to know I do this kind of hobby.

Believe me these kind of girls burn money like nothing no matter how much they make that's the reason they got a bad credit that even the Devil won't take it. This girl texted me again she wanted to hang out with me around the town.She even sent me more nudes. I politely rejected her offer.

I feel much better after sharing this information with you guys and hanging out with two another girls that are friends of mine and they know and I know that we're fucking only for money and fun.

And this is not like she doesn't know I had feeling for her. I had really a long story with girl. i even know and met her parents and best friend. She wanted to date me officially several times and she even gave me free pussy a few times and I rejected her offer about dating her many times and I was straightforward with her all the time and I told society won't approve our relationship.

As I said before she was honest with me and told me that she was dating that guy only because his money.

I think I've already moved on and I know i'm a selfish motherfucker: I did not want her to go neither I want to date her officially: Originally Posted by darkmoonmaster
And the hits just keep on coming!!

Dude, you are fucking awesome!! Did you whack that boyfriend of her's yet?
KittyLamour's Avatar
Manho,

I am a very busy woman and do not have time to make you look any worse than you already do. You have never met me nor have you ever even spoken to me in person, yet you continue to spread misinformation and gossip about me and this industry. Hunni, I still have a roof over my head and my phone is still ringing. I've told you before, acting like a dick won't make yours any bigger so best take that dick out of your personality and put it back in your pants, sweetheart. It isn't working for you.

Now quit using me as your example when you don't have a leg of credibility to stand on. I'm sure these gentlemen know they can pick up a phone and call me rather than listening to you. Your little jabs to belittle me are actually quite flattering. No todos puedan con migo.
#noteverybodycan

Now you have a nice day I'm sure mine will be quite festive.

Ciao.

Darkmoonmaster,

I'm sure you can tell who is giving you legitimate advice and who is just trying to stir the pot. I sincerely hope you find some solace and peace of mind because this will all be water under the bridge before you know it.
Vanilla Gorilla's Avatar
"Attachment of any kind is the root of all misery and unhappiness in all people" - Buddha.

So whether you're addicted to money, work, drugs, food, TV, attention, social media, kids, women, whores or sex. Attachment of any kind will eventually make you miserable.

Once you learn to LET GO and give ZERO FUCKS about ANYTHING and realize that EVERYTHING has a beginning, a middle, and an end.

That is when you truly become happy and free for the rest of your life.
darkmoonmaster's Avatar
Thanks guys for the great advice.

Manslut I'm not a violent person but i'm sure her boyfriend is going to burn a shit of money on her at least 5x more than I did and soon or later he will regret it.

The funny thing is that that guy is not wealthy as she thinks he is. He could be the one using her because he seems OK she fucking guys as her side job, and he lives with her because he doesnt rent or own her own house and he might be getting free pussy.



Karma is a real fucking bitch!
Chung Tran's Avatar
Let go of the possessiveness. Originally Posted by crashkopf
that is the word I was looking for.. some guys have a real problem with possessiveness.. they do a few nice things for a lady, and start feeling entitled to her love, company, loyalty.

they feel like she is their property after a while.

like crashkopf said, it is the source of your pain.. you're the only person who can change the way you feel.. get rid of that mentality that you are owed something.. that she is yours.
Sleepy363's Avatar
Wow dude, you have issues.

Stop trying to date providers

The fact that you posted that you want to get revenge on her is a huge self-alert. You are a danger to the ladies here.
darkmoonmaster's Avatar
Thinking and doing things are two huge different things. Imagine if people
would go to prison only for thinking about killing Trump.

Dont be troll Sleepy363.
FunInDFW's Avatar
*just keep digging, just keep digging, digging digging digging digging*
Plan B - Dump this bitch and go propose to Kitty Lamour, you two are a match made from heaven! Originally Posted by ManSlut
Hey Little Orphan Manny, I told you time and time again that the world needs more of Kitty Lamour. It obviously is now etched in your head as till this day she is still on your mind all the time.
Mr.Blackwell's Avatar
Yeah your're right i did not caught anything, I always practice safe hobby.

I've still got this bitch as a friend in Facebook.

I'll be honest that the thing that hurts me the most is that she still wanted be friends and she seems not do give a shit.

Our last session she lied to me and milked me $$$$$: she said she will be meet outside the club and she needed help from me so she could pay rent. I helped her and met her outside the club but i met her at her friends with two other guys there. And one of these guys was the guy she was dating. I had an argument with her that night and I called her several names including the whore word, and I even treated her for using me. i chilled out and I apologized to her and she still wanted be friends she said.

I feel used and I kinda still want to do some revenge on her. But i'm thinking back and forward about doing it or not doing it. I'm a nice guy but this bitch took advantage of me.

God i really need a break from this hobby. Originally Posted by darkmoonmaster
Been there, done that. That feeling of unbelievable pain and rage from someone taking advantage of your kindheartedness takes a while to get over. I made the same mistake you did, overlooking red flags and placing words over actions. With chicks like that, nothing is ever their fault. They'll always twist things around trying to make you look unreasonable for not putting up with their lies and bullshit. I promise you that even with all the money you gave her and things you did her, she thinks that she was the one doing you the favor or that it was equal. Letting it go is a lot easier said than done, but you'll get there with time. Eventually you'll wonder why you were so mad to begin with. As far as revenge goes, naming and shaming, or legal options are fair game. Threatening violence is going overboard, even though feeling that way is understandable.

Like someone else said, you have a job that let you spend that kind of money. She only has a few more years she can keep being a prostitute and be young enough for guys to give a fuck before she's used up out of options. If she “parties” hard, that day will come even faster. Living well is the best revenge.
Misty S's Avatar
Don't listen to all of these naysayers. She's just playing hard to get. If the first $8k didn't win her love, maybe the next $8k will. Originally Posted by dfwcouple43sum
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