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What is annoying is when guys ONLY dog out a girl they think is too high. Automatically because she refuses to screw just anyone for peanuts, she is a snob and thinks she is better than everyone else. Originally Posted by Kaylee

That's funny, because it's usually the case that the higher priced girl is the one always putting down the lower priced girls and what gets the guys annoyed is that she is a snob and thinks she is better than everyone.

Veronica, you might want to read back a bit

http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=137392&postcount=22



We all have an alias on this board, but we all "know" each other. Kaylee is using an alias to hide her other alias. May not be multiple handles but....



Veronica, I've only met you once and honestly I like you and would love to see you one day. But I noticed you've moved to Texas and I see your hourly rate is $200. I don't remember for sure what it was in NOLA, but I think it as at least $250-$275. So, did you lower your rates to meet the average market price in TX? I'm not trying to start shit or insult you in any way, but since this thread started about ladies who were lowering their rates and questioning if others would do the same it appears that you've done just that. Am I wrong here? Please explain.




Did you really just say this? You're never unfaithful in a relationship? So you don't see clients while you're in a relationship? "Job" or not, if you're fucking other guys while seeing another guy, you're being unfaithful. It doesn't matter if he knows what you're doing or not. And if some really good looking guy walks in your door and you're attracted to him you don't take his money and fuck him because it "does not appeal to" you? So you're saying that only sex with clients who you're not attracted to does appeal to you? And how can you "sell that illusion, but...never partake in it?" You partake in it with every client. It doesn't matter if you're the buyer or the seller, you're still part of the illusion.

Please explain this one, because it sure doesn't make sense to me. Only if multiple personalities are involved. Originally Posted by pornodave69

That's right I don't have a boyfriend and would NEVER have one while I am doing this. I don't believe in lying to someone nor do I want the kind of relationship. As long as this is in my life, I will not get serious with anyone. You misunderstand my post about it being an illusion. I will "pretend" to like a guy for money, but I don't have to be necessarily attracted to him. I am not in this to get a nut like men are. If I were to pay a man it would not be for sex, because it is not real if I am paying him. GFE is not real babe, no matter how good of an actress the girl is. Most women realize the things they want can't be bought. It is a lie, a fantasy, and an illusion for guys to think every girl they see actually wants to be there. That is what I mean. If I have to pay a guy knowing he would not talk to me otherwise, I am not getting what I truly desire. Sex is not the most important thing to me in a relationship...trust, honesty, and loyalty are which is why I have NEVER slept with a married man for free. You asked what we would pay for sex, and I just said I would never do it period because sex is not what I desire to make me happy. Guys don't care and already know the girl may or may not like them. They just want her to "act" like she does. Well I am a woman, and a guy simply "acting" like he likes me because I am paying him will not be full-filling to me. You can't buy love, compassion, and genuine feelings, and that is what most women outside of this seek. Not everyone is all about sex 24/7...yes even escorts don't think that is always the number one thing.

That's funny, because it's usually the case that the higher priced girl is the one always putting down the lower priced girls and what gets the guys annoyed is that she is a snob and thinks she is better than everyone. Originally Posted by pornodave69

I don't see where I put anyone down hon. You are reaching. I simply said for me it would not work to be at a lower rate than I am at now, because I have more bills to pay than many people. I am not here to lose money or work my butt off just to have to keep doing it. So what if I don't want to offer fs for less than I do. It is really NONE of anyone's business and the topic of rates is a broken record as usual. It won't change, and there will always be girls who won't EVER lower their rates, regardless of what guys say. Tis what it tis. And the reason guys get annoyed has NOTHING to do with the poor girl's feelings ha. It annoys most guys because they want to keep them low so they can afford them, and they want to act like everyone should be the same price. Well since I don't see anyone lowering rates in my city and the reviews keep a coming, I would say no dice. Some girls are smarter than that, and are not so easily intimidated by drivel.

@Dave Yes I caught that about the alias earlier in this thread. What I was trying (obviously in a far too subtle way) to say is that people in NOLA love ASSUME that any people who happen to agree with each other are the same person. It's getting old. I've been accused of being Annie & TallGirlLover & Chellablaine before (in backchannel, of course). I was simply trying to make a joke by saying "be careful they're going to think we're the same person next." But I digress...

My "rate" here in Dallas is irrelevant because I'm not meeting anyone out here as (an escort anyway). I could really write in $50/hr and I could write in $5,000/hr at this point and I would be getting the same business LMAO. And I'm okay with that because I'm not trying to work. Ask just about everyone who has contacted me in the last year (lol). I'm always unavailable. To be quite honest, I don't even know *what* possessed me to write down any rate at all.


And as for the "never unfaithful in a relationship" comment... I'm the same way too. I don't escort when I'm in a relationship. I don't believe in cheating on my S.O.s either. But hey, we all have our different moral codes. I don't look down on what anyone else chooses to do. *shrug*

I don't see where I put anyone down hon. You are reaching. I simply said for me it would not work to be at a lower rate than I am at now, because I have more bills to pay than many people. I am not here to lose money or work my butt of just to have to keep doing it. So what if I don't want to offer fs for less than I do. It is really NONE of anyone's business and the topic of rates is a broken record as usual. It won't change, and there will always be girls who won't EVER lower their rates, regardless of what guys say. Tis what it tis. Originally Posted by Kaylee

I'm not saying that you were putting anybody down. It's a reference to the "other" girl. Honestly, after 2 1/2 yrs on mostly ASPD and now here, I don't ever recall any guy "putting down" a woman for her rates being too high. They wish they were lower and may say they'd never see her at that rate, but I don't know off hand of anyone putting them down or berating them for that. The "other" girl and other personas similar to her were always the first to bash every woman on this board for charging less than they did. That's the reference.

So, if you don't escort while you're seeing someone, how do you pay the bills since you can't live on less right now?

I am confused...what do you mean how do I pay my bills if I am not seeing anyone? I have a real job besides this. When I said family, I meant elderly parents and a child of my own I have to support, not a boyfriend. No, not that stupid to work and turn tricks to support some dead beat. I don't believe in cheating period. Hell I won't even share a man with another woman paid or not. That is not the kind of situation or relationship I find acceptable for me.

What were we talking about again?? LOL

What were we talking about again?? LOL Originally Posted by VeronicaMoore

Same thing we talk about every other week. Rates and the British Girl. Both getting extremely tiring. Well I have an uptown approved, upper east side, anal retentive client who just landed at the airport, so you and Annie can try and make some sense of this. Do me a favor and read my older posts and let me know if "I" was the one out of line.

You didn't get what I meant. You said you don't escort when you're in a relationship. You also said you don't know how anyone can live on less than $3K/month and that you can make between $3K and $5K in 4 days with no more than 2 a day. If you've got time to see 2 guys a day, 4 days a week, then you're not working a full time job unless your hookin' nights and weekends. If you're not seeing clients while in a relationship, you just lost $12K to $20K a month, by your numbers.

You said "After taxes I only clear around 4500 from my pro job, so I need at least an extra 2-3 a month to live comfortably, not lavishly. I own 2 properties that I get rent from..."

SO, how do you get by without all that extra cash when you're seeing a guy and not being "unfaithful?"

Same thing we talk about every other week Originally Posted by Kaylee

Wouldn't that mean you're using multiple handles if you're already on here long enough to talk about this every other week?

You didn't get what I meant. You said you don't escort when you're in a relationship. You also said you don't know how anyone can live on less than $3K/month and that you can make between $3K and $5K in 4 days with no more than 2 a day. If you've got time to see 2 guys a day, 4 days a week, then you're not working a full time job unless your hookin' nights and weekends. If you're not seeing clients while in a relationship, you just lost $12K to $20K a month, by your numbers.

You said "After taxes I only clear around 4500 from my pro job, so I need at least an extra 2-3 a month to live comfortably, not lavishly. I own 2 properties that I get rent from..."

SO, how do you get by without all that extra cash when you're seeing a guy and not being "unfaithful?" Originally Posted by pornodave69

Honey I said when I "tour" I make that kind of money in 4 days a MONTH, not a week, and I don't and have never had a boyfriend since I have been an escort. Geez thought I was being clear. I work as an escort part-time, work a normal job almost full-time, and take care of my family. I would not need the extra money if I sent my parents off to a nursing home and my child's tuiton was not 8 grand a year. Not sure why "my" life is so important all of a sudden. I swore I would never allow my parents to live in a nursing home so I pay their rent because they don't work. My child lives with me and I have no help from her father which was my choice. I don't think he is suitable to be in her life, and therefore never pursuied child support. I will just write a book and send out copies, because I am not getting paid to play 20 questions.

Wouldn't that mean you're using multiple handles if you're already on here long enough to talk about this every other week? Originally Posted by pornodave69

OMG I said I was using an "alias" about ten thousand times. Sorry but you can enterain yourself I hope, because I have things to do now. There are chat groups with people on them now I'm sure.

Honey I said when I "tour" I make that kind of money in 4 days a MONTH, not a week, and I don't and have never had a boyfriend since I have been an escort. Geez thought I was being clear.... Originally Posted by Kaylee

I missed the touring part, and you NEVER said that you never had a boyfriend since being an escort, only "rather conservative in my own relationships, and they never include being un-faithful or doing threesomes. This part of my life is totally separate from the real world, and it will remain that way." That doesn't mean that you've never had a boyfriend since being an escort. Since we don't know who you are, we don't know your life story and who you have or have not dated since your escorting started. You may have escorted, took a break for a boyfriend and started up again after a break up. How should I know? But you never said you've never had one since being an escort. Not very clear, were you?

OMG I said I was using an "alias" about ten thousand times. Sorry but you can enterain yourself I hope, because I have things to do now. There are chat groups with people on them now I'm sure. Originally Posted by Kaylee

We're all using aliases. You saying that you're using one is no different than anybody else, except your not using your "work name" like the other ladies. If you already have a screen name and have registered this one, well then, that makes it a multiple handle which I assume is not allowed, just as on ASPD. Sorry you can't grasp the concept. And I don't do chat rooms.

So I guess if you do get a boyfriend, you won't be able to pay the bills then? Where will you get the extra $2-$3K a month?

Damn you need to just sign up on my facebook page. I will not just happen to "get" a boyfriend. It is called decision rather than emotion and lust. I have made a solid "decision" to remain single until I know my parents are safe, and unlike most people I know I would never sell my family out for some guy. As soon as I tell a guy what I do, he is out the door anyway, and if he thinks it's ok, he is NOT the kind of man I want to be with. Now go to facebook and do a search for melanie marie and chat with me there. Much easier and there are photos too. Goodnight.