The charm of the older gentleman is not to pretend that he is younger. Clubbing with the 20somethings is not dignified for a 40something. Older gentlemen have their own charms, which I believe many of the ladies have acknowledged. I know that I don't feel the need to compete head-to-head with the 20somethings.
I can afford to take a lady out to a fine restaurant, order the correct meal and wine, have sophisticated conversation, buy her nice gifts, and generally have the financial and emotional depth to make her feel like the most special and beautiful lady in the world. Maybe we can go see a concert. Maybe we can travel someplace exotic and interesting. Maybe we can stay in and cuddle next to the fire on a rainy afternoon. As I have matured, I don't have to be so aggressive. I have the gravitas and confidence to know that I can get what I want.
And Ansley and Valerie, those new avatars are ravishing, and I'm not even a breast man. I may have to reconsider.
Originally Posted by Karl Hungus
I only go to events , clubbings, dance gatherings, spiritual consciousness explorations, where age, and age-bashing doesn`t matter. I had dates older than me and - yes - they went dancing. One of my closest best gf owns a club together with her husband and they have quite the age gap. So if you want to move or dance , for me its the music that matters.
I don`t see Burningman only being for 20 or 40 year olds.
As to hotness delusion syndrome - i assume no matter at what age - this can happen. As it says its a delusion :-)