Middle aged men have 'hotness delusion syndrome'

Y'all enjoy the joke. I have a few people on ignore.
SR ONLY- A guy doesnt have to be Clooney to dance with me- I like em all. I used to teach ballroom dancing so if a guy is a strong lead Im in! btw my s.o. is 25 yrs older then me (and yes he is my fathers age lol) Originally Posted by CRISTY-CUPPS
Nice to read CC. I find I have a lot more giggles and fun with those closer to my age. It makes the whole experience more pleasurable
Y'all enjoy the joke. I have a few people on ignore. Originally Posted by Ansley
Sorry to disappoint, but that joke has nothing to do with you

You have a few people on ignore...was that public service announcement?
Hmm as far as avatars go I still like the one with Val giving everyone the finger . Originally Posted by rrabbit6926
We'll at least she gets the joke Originally Posted by rrabbit6926
Sorry to disappoint, but that joke has nothing to do with you

You have a few people on ignore...was that public service announcement? Originally Posted by Valerie
This isn't funny and I'm personally offended!!
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Snarky, Snarky Rein it in
The charm of the older gentleman is not to pretend that he is younger. Clubbing with the 20somethings is not dignified for a 40something. Older gentlemen have their own charms, which I believe many of the ladies have acknowledged. I know that I don't feel the need to compete head-to-head with the 20somethings.

I can afford to take a lady out to a fine restaurant, order the correct meal and wine, have sophisticated conversation, buy her nice gifts, and generally have the financial and emotional depth to make her feel like the most special and beautiful lady in the world. Maybe we can go see a concert. Maybe we can travel someplace exotic and interesting. Maybe we can stay in and cuddle next to the fire on a rainy afternoon. As I have matured, I don't have to be so aggressive. I have the gravitas and confidence to know that I can get what I want.

And Ansley and Valerie, those new avatars are ravishing, and I'm not even a breast man. I may have to reconsider. Originally Posted by Karl Hungus
I only go to events , clubbings, dance gatherings, spiritual consciousness explorations, where age, and age-bashing doesn`t matter. I had dates older than me and - yes - they went dancing. One of my closest best gf owns a club together with her husband and they have quite the age gap. So if you want to move or dance , for me its the music that matters.

I don`t see Burningman only being for 20 or 40 year olds.

As to hotness delusion syndrome - i assume no matter at what age - this can happen. As it says its a delusion :-)
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There are dance clubs in my town that host dancers of all ages. They don't seem to have a problem with mixed ages. For my part though, at my age I don't even believe what the younger folks are doing should be called dancing.
There are actually constitutional prohibitions against me dancing in six states.
Snarky, Snarky Rein it in Originally Posted by John Bull
JB, are you referring to my Snarkasm?? Just wondering??
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Case in point: Anthony Weiner
There are dance clubs in my town that host dancers of all ages. They don't seem to have a problem with mixed ages. For my part though, at my age I don't even believe what the younger folks are doing should be called dancing. Originally Posted by John Bull
There are actually constitutional prohibitions against me dancing in six states. Originally Posted by pjorourke
oh gosh, .. i hope Nevada is not one of them ... :-) (because of BM that is)
After an incident 2 years ago in Vegas, I'm not even allowed to tap my foot.
There are actually constitutional prohibitions against me dancing in six states. After an incident 2 years ago in Vegas, I'm not even allowed to tap my foot. Originally Posted by pjorourke
One has to wonder what is taking the other 44 (plus the territories) so long to enforce restrictions on you.
I'm always been attached to older men they are very experience and they know what they doing