You could have stood up for her without posting some very personal details about her that are nobody's business. Originally Posted by mojoworkinYep... agree with this. But, as was explained regarding the other personal info disclosure, since she’s not an ECCIE member, all private info is fair game. Too bad that this info is coming from a presumed “friend”, though.
Why is it that a certain provider here can take things off topic then when she feels it necessary and she has made her comments then she automatically says lets get back to the topic when she says we should?That has not gone unnoticed. The ole "let me make my irrelevant comment ... and now back to the original topic" ruse can definitely attract warnings and points if it persists.
Fucking annoying! Originally Posted by BigDeal
Perhaps she got some intel on the client that she did not have prior to making the date. Who knows? She changed her mind. Period.I wonder if this really happened.
Why is it that a certain provider here can take things off topic then when she feels it necessary and she has made her comments then she automatically says lets get back to the topic when she says we should?I am not taking things off topic. I am replying when others take things off topic. As others have done. Please give me ONE example in this thread where I have taken the thread off topic.
Has to control!
Fucking annoying! Originally Posted by BigDeal
I was trying to figure out a polite way of pointing out in the posts she said to get back on topic that most of her post was off topic so it was a bit hypocritical.Agree
Let the mods mod Originally Posted by bigryan2222
That has not gone unnoticed. The ole "let me make my irrelevant comment ... and now back to the original topic" ruse can definitely attract warnings and points if it persists. Originally Posted by RocketSurgeon+1,000,000
That has not gone unnoticed. The ole "let me make my irrelevant comment ... and now back to the original topic" ruse can definitely attract warnings and points if it persists. Originally Posted by RocketSurgeonSir, I am merely replying to other comments that have already gone off topic. I am not the person who is taking the posts off topic.
While I appreciate you telling us the backstory on your marriage etc. And it appears Sasha has asked you to weigh in....so a little wk'ish, so lets call it what it is. But no worries. And I'm glad you had a good time with her.
May I ask what else she has told you? IF you would be so kind to share?
And thank you because it appears you have validated this thread by her telling you she did do a ncns possibly more..so thank you.
At this time I would say she is not a good provider. Why? Because of her being new.
She has very little reputation built as much as she may think, she is a little engine that might someday.
Look I made contact and was a gentleman, I provided her with references, which she apparently took time to verify (proud of her for that).
Then we made the appt.
She didn't follow through.
Then when I explained to her I wasn't happy about this she got the attitude.
I gave her 48 hrs to apologize and offer another session, or I would make this community aware of this event. I gave her the chance and she said fuck you Bigdeal.
But where she went wrong is to indicate she doesn't like eccie and even wont now see guys with no reviews. So I got the apology and bullshit on the other.
So now her name gets tarnished a bit maybe maybe not I don't care.
Im not trying to ruin her, but teach her a small lesson to not bite the hands that are willing to pay her 300 an hr. Go find that rate anywhere in the rw?
She will be fine if she gets her shit together. I hope she becomes an amazing provider ...but I disagree she isn't one now, she has a lot to learn...and that you and I can agree on.
I could give 2 fucks about her car, relationships, whatever. She obviously had a car that tooled her to and from Wichita.
Once again thanks for weighing in! Originally Posted by BigDeal
Holy Crap--would a Mod please end this thread!! It needs to die--all of the salient points and counterpoints have likely played out. Originally Posted by RobozSo far, no infractions have been issued, it's been amusing (among other things), and recent posts are still on point. I'm willing to let it ride for a few more spins.
Sir, I am merely replying to other comments that have already gone off topic. I am not the person who is taking the posts off topic.You are not trying to get people back on track. You are countering what they say with you opinion and then trying to cut them off any response by saying get on topic.
For instance, Scorpio could not remember the name of Ourhome2.net, and I provided it. Is that going to get me assessed points for that because I replied with the valid name of the website, then said, "Now back on topic"? Why would I get points for that?
Will everyone who commented on "off topic" posts, but did not say, "Let's get back on topic" be assessed points?
Is it the fact that I am saying, "Let's get back on topic" that is going to get me points?
What part of what I am doing is any different than what anyone else on this thread is doing, except I am trying to get it back on track? And I am being polite and not cussing people out or calling people names. Originally Posted by seductrix4u
Call me whatever you will, it doesn't matter. I'm just trying to help a young lady whom I think needs it. If that makes me a white knight, so be it. I've seen it done in other sections - Dallas, Houston, etc. when I was there - so I thought that it was appropriate in this case, BD. As far as her personal life is concerned, I know the rules. I've been here awhile...a lurker mostly, but still. That said, I thought it would bring some context to the instant matter. And perhaps some understanding and the benefit of the doubt.Thank you and I appreciate your opinion!
I'm a firm believer that there are two sides to every story...and therein lies the truth. I'm not going to say who's right or who's wrong here. All I can say is, and to answer your question, that she and I had a text conversation this morning that I initiated. That said, I asked her what was up. She said that it slipped her mind.
Beyond that, I don't know other than what you said you did. Then you said never mind and delete the post, then the piling on began.
I understand that this place isn't nothing more than a marketplace. But perhaps a bit of understanding and humanity once in awhile wouldn't hurt either. Perhaps your delivery of your ultimatum was a bit threatening to her and she said fuck you. I don't know. What I do know is that this is a 5 page thread that probably could have been handled with a bit more tact on the front end before this ever got to the board. But that's just my guess.
Like I said, I'm just trying to help the lady out. Originally Posted by BigOffshoreDaddy
As my learned moderator colleague has said, this has been amusing.Sir, may I ask who will be assessed the points? The person who hijacks the thread, or the person who replies to the hijacked thread? Because I am not the one doing the hijacking. I am replying to posts that have already been started.
It seems to both of us that when one makes a statement in a post that is off topic, then tries to cover that up with a sentence that attempts to take the overall post back on topic is providing irrefutable evidence a hijack just took place.
It also seems this is a good time and place to warn all that this time worn tactic will no longer be allowed. Now, if I can find an emoji of my points wand warming up and preparing for the next episode...
edit: to be forewarned is to be forearmed... Originally Posted by scorpio31