I do want to say something.. When I was in my 20's and only 120pds the guys were intimidated of me and wouldnt approach me. I put on weight when I hit 30 due to a ankle injury and the guys would swarm around me. I brought this to a guys attention and he said that most guys would feel more relaxed with a thicker woman and no so hung up on impressing HER. Now, we are talking about REAL LIFE...
A guy can BUY any size he wants with a provider and noth have to worry about impressing her but I missed out on alot of friendships with men for the fact they thought I would reject them when I was small.
Originally Posted by Anita Lay
Your 20's self as you describe it must have been really hot! You would then have been exactly the type that I would have been, in my mid-20's or younger, likewise intimidated. I would still like to find someone like that in the hobby even though I am much older now.
Although your are right that thicker is less intimidating to some guys, the first thing I look at in the photo ads is whether a women looks thick. If so, I go on to the next one.
My ATF was only about 5' tall and 92 pounds, but I can also be attracted to any size up to about 5'9" and with a trim, athletic appearance. If I see ads with the woman nude or wearing a bathing suit, shorts or jeans and a tank-top, or other form-fitting clothes, then (if spinner vs. thick is an issue) she is more appealing to me. I think that teddies, negligees, and frilly things usually make a woman look heavier in the photos. I also am not attracted by large, obviously man-made boobs--they can look great under clothes but don't turn me on when naked.