Escorts Using Government Assistance

I agree Babee, but telling these women there are going to be hard times, slow times, competition times, low balling cheap women will put them out of business..
The kids suffer and all their high and mighty pride is not thinking about a day that WILL COME and all the pretty young pu..sy won't be able to make money. More and more women are resorting to escort work . That nice car can go down and many unforseen things can happen.
Not saying you can't better youself but the kids will suffer if you don't have a large amount of money for their tonsils to be removed or they have to have physical therapy due to a broken limb. Medicaid is for a KID ... Food stamps is for the KID...
There will be a rainy day.

Do people run to the government for these things normally? I don't understand bebe's first question. Why wouldn't a mother feed and house her child? I would like to think the the majority of people pay for their own health insurance, feed their child and can afford to pay for the child's education with the money they make from work. One does not need government assistance for these things.

OldT has made it clear to me that there are a few (maybe even a lot of) escorts that are on government assistance. I will never understand that logic. No offense to anyone but I see that as pure laziness. OldT, Sure not everyone lives in NYC, LA ..etc but I live in frikkin North Carolina and there is enough money to go around. Heck I host a lot of ladies that come through here and they leave with a smile on their face and a nice amount of cash. That trip she is making to government assistance for whatever she could be going to a city two hours away and working her butt of and leaving with a nice amount of cash so she doesn't have to take from another.

I understand what you guys are trying to say but it's still wrong. I have no problem with someone that has a normal job and literally struggling getting assistance but this job has a lot of earning potential IF the girls knows what she's doing. There's no excuse for that. Sorry.

Most people could not afford their own health insurance if it was not for employer contributions.

there's only one answer: It doesn't matter.

Single women do not get government assistance unless they have children.

The question then is:

Should the child of an escort be housed, fed, have access to medical and education? If that's considered despicable, then I'm all for despicable mothers.

If I had to escort, get food stamps, Medicaid, public housing to feed and cloth my kids - bet your ass I would. And to hell with anyone who judged me. Originally Posted by babee

Well sort of incorrect, yes you can get government assistance under certain circumstances, unable to work, disability that qualifies you and being at the retirement age. But all these things require proof including disability (you have to have had at least been jobless due to your illness for up to one year) not too mention you go through a year or more of denied application. The process is slow for someone who qualifies and needs the assistance.

But I can't make anyone who "just doesn't get it" understand. As I said before having someone close to you who is in the system who is dependent on "government entitlements" does open your eyes. I do not judge these folks, I don't live their in their shoes nor do I know what they go through day to day trying to get by. I think to judge people by appearances is wrong in my opinion.

OldT has made it clear to me that there are a few (maybe even a lot of) escorts that are on government assistance. I will never understand that logic. No offense to anyone but I see that as pure laziness. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

There are so many women in the sex trade industry that have schizophrenia, sever bipolar depression, and a whole host of other psychological issues that may put them on "government entitlements" This doesn't make them lazy. If they were not disabled such as my niece, in the situation of being jobless and not able to get a job they can get government assistance (welfare and food stamps) and there is no shame in that. Just because a lady is in the sex trade doesn't mean she enjoys it or wants to be in it. You may like what you do and make a lot of money at it, but not all women want to be in this industry and the sex trade is the last resort for getting money to take care of basic bills.

GP, I get it but they don't need to be in this business IF they have those issues. That is not good for anybody. Very Very sad.

Well sort of incorrect, yes you can get government assistance under certain circumstances, unable to work, disability that qualifies you and being at the retirement age. Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures

Too true, I thought of that after posting.

Do people run to the government for these things normally? Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Medicare Reform was a central plank in the Democratic Platform of 2008, 2004, 2000, 1996, 1992, 1988, 1984, 1980, 1976, 1972, 1968, 1964, 1960....all the way back to JFK. (That's President John Fitzgerald Kennedy. Last president to be shot, maybe you've seen a movie about it?) Economy and Medicare reform have been the two main political issues out of Washington DC for the past three years. Both issues have divided Congress? Brought FED gov't to a screeching name calling backstabbing halt? Ring a bell? "ObamaCare"? Anything? You cannot have watched the news, read a paper, looked at MSN, Google or Yahoo News since 2009 without one or both being mentioned.

I do not judge these folks, I don't live their in their shoes nor do I know what they go through day to day trying to get by. I think to judge people by (sic) is wrong in my opinion. Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures

Or just incredibly ignorant.

This is a touchy subject for me...

If an escort is stuck with 3 children and she is not that attractive, who is to say she is getting that much business? Even at 100 bucks an hour, you can't preditct how many guys are going to call. If a mother is using the govt. for HER CHILDREN and not to support a drug habit, I see nothing wrong with it. If someone is truly doing all they can to support a family and just can't...they should be allowed assistance. No offense, but I would not wish a hooker life on anyone who did not truly want to be here, and that's what some miss. If that assistance saves her from having to be with even 5 disgusting men at such a low rate, I feel she should do it. Not everyone is made for this life.


OTOH if an escort with rave reviews making on the ups of $250 an hour is using it, that's an issue because she is just stupid and greedy. If you are here over a year and still not paying taxes, you're an idiot!

As for turning tricks out of ANY home...fkin stupid! Sadly, there are providers making 3 an hour, having bogus reviews put up of all the fake overnights and supposed traveling they do, and are still working out of the very home their minor children live in...teenagers at that! If you're making so much money, why can't you AFFORD to lease another apt. just for this bwahahaha! Classy? Intelligent? Gimme a fkin break! A smart provider would never use her damn house for this business, especially one with teenagers who can use the internet and see her damn face all over the place! Wake the fk up!

AWESOME post! Thank you for sharing that! And THANK YOU for not defrauding the system!

I grew up in a single parent home (dad is a recovering crack addict, so he was NEVER around, and when he was it was HELL) in a small town in the South where the economy has, IMHO, always been crappy. She had to take care of 5 kids (2 boys, 3 girls). My mom worked full time as a secretary at a college. Since my dad was officially gone from our lives, we qualified for public assistance. The idea really bothered her, but wth was she to do with 5 step ladder aged children when she couldn't feed them. She decided to take advantage of the help and even signed up to go back to college. She had 5 kids at home, so furthering her education was a long and tedious road. When she got her Bachelor's degree, she got a small promotion and a $1 raise. She reported her new income and was informed that it put us some odd amount of change over the maximum income for public assistance qualifications. She made NOTHING CLOSE to what she needed to take care of us, AND she was still in school. But, because her job gave her a little extra (to THEM, at least) change, we were dropped. She kept working her ass off, kept going to school, and finally got her Master's degree at 39. BETTER JOB, BETTER LIFE. THIS is a first hand example of a woman who worked hard, stayed focused (through all the strife), and took advantage of the system in the RIGHT way. She didn't lie, cheat, or steal from taxpayers.

In my case, I AM a single mother. Because child support hasn't started (don't we just LOVE our gov't ), I get absolutely ZERO support from the EX. Do I run down to the foodstamp office or the housing office with a sob story of how I'm a single mother with not one, but TWO small children who I get no support for? No. I don't. Why not? Because in my opinion, there is no way I should be in this line of work needing public assistance. Am I an honest person? Yes. Am I hard working? Yes. Do I have family to help with childcare? No. I don't have family help with childcare because I don't live near family. Even if I did live near family, I never ASSUME that they would help me with childcare. Yes, it would be GREAT if they did, but at the end of the day, my children are just that, MINE. I made the choice to have them, and I can't EVER assume that anyone but myself will make sure they are taken care of and provided for. BUT, I do have common sense, I know that there are reliable resources that have nothing to do with family as far as childcare is concerned. Do I live in a "busted rust belt city" where the best job is a Wal-Mart cashier and you have to "know someone" to even be considered for hire? YES, lol. My advertising and profile may not reflect so, but I do. BUT, because I have found the needed resources, I am afforded the luxury of being able to be where I need to be when I need to be there. Public transportation? Non-existent. But, if you can get a ride to the foodstamp/housing office to apply for assistance, I'm sure you can get a ride to other places as well. Are the reasons you listed all pretty valid excuses for a single mother/provider to seek assistance? Yes, they are. But, you have to recognize them just for what they are, EXCUSES. I have all the makings for the PERFECT setup to cheat the system. This interests me in no shape, form, or fashion. Maybe if I was in a different line of work I'd feel different. I am a provider who has set a a standard, works hard, and applies myself. I don't wait for people to do something for me. Seriously, I get up off my ass and get it done myself. I came into the hobby alone a very short time ago. Because I have applied myself (reaching out to various experienced, reputable providers and hobbyists and actually taking their advice and direction to heart), I have gotten pretty far and made some very good connections. Am I high volume? No. Would I like to make more money? Who doesn't? But, these are not excuses either because a smart and responsible person lives on a planned budget, even the rich. Do I splurge every now and then? Damn right, because I have the RIGHT to. I work hard, I live/spend sensibly within my means, and BOTH of my kids have money put away. But, a responsible provider can buy herself something special every now and then because all her other ducks are in order.

All of that to say that coming from BOTH sides of this track (experiencing a TRUE need for public assistance as a child and being a single mother provider with NO support) I agree wholeheartedly with:


If you work hard and put good energy into the atmosphere, kismet will turn that good karma back on you. If all you do is sit around making excuses for why you're living the way you are and waiting for a handout, then you'll forever remain stuck in the rut you dwell in. The situation I grew up in along with the demise of a relationship leaving me with two children to fend for on my own are the perfect circumstances to make someone a "statistic". But, your life is YOURS and can only be what YOU make of it. I guess my values and determination are too strong for me feel comfortable cruising through life on excuses. Originally Posted by Lovelyelle_01

I understand what you guys are trying to say but it's still wrong. I have no problem with someone that has a normal job and literally struggling getting assistance but this job has a lot of earning potential IF the girls knows what she's doing. There's no excuse for that. Sorry. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

THANK YOU! I'm glad SOME get it! And I TOTALLY agree with the "laziness" idea.

That's what I think too. Someone with schizophrenia SHOUD NOT be escorting...That's dangerous on so many levels it isn't even funny.

GP, I get it but they don't need to be in this business IF they have those issues. That is not good for anybody. Very Very sad. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

IBut the reality is if you have not lived and tried to work in a rural farm town, or a busted rust belt city, or on a rez, then you probably don't really understand. Originally Posted by Old-T

This is like saying "But I live in an area that's suffered drought for years, shouldn't the govt bring me water?"

Only if you are willing to move, and help yourself. If you can't feed, or house, your children because of your location, it's time to go.

THANK YOU! I'm glad SOME get it! And I TOTALLY agree with the "laziness" idea. Originally Posted by Naughty Destiny

That's what I think too. Someone with schizophrenia SHOUD NOT be escorting...That's dangerous on so many levels it isn't even funny. Originally Posted by Naughty Destiny

Exactly.

This is like saying "But I live in an area that's suffered drought for years, shouldn't the govt bring me water?"

Only if you are willing to move, and help yourself. If you can't feed, or house, your children because of your location, it's time to go. Originally Posted by pfunkdenver

Exactly.

Good points LONDON....

This is like saying "But I live in an area that's suffered drought for years, shouldn't the govt bring me water?"

Only if you are willing to move, and help yourself. If you can't feed, or house, your children because of your location, it's time to go. Originally Posted by pfunkdenver

Man, you are so clueless. But that's another topic.