Well this thread is very interesting
I think everyone should see whom they want period!
I don't get offended or pissy when the hobbyist want spinners only, greek, under 30 over 40, long acronyms I have to go look up

I choose whom I care to spend my time with, if you don't speak English? I wont be caught alone with you period.
There are a lot of things that makes time spent, worth your time.
I had a gentleman I honestly couldn't see, I am on second floor no elevator. He was wheelchair bound. Now have seen a young gentleman with parkinson's.
At the end of the day everyone has the right to see who is right for them without judgement, no one here has any place judging one another. If you don't like move on, next.
Real Life is stressful enough! Why should your hobby be?