Jealousy in the Hobby!

1. I doubt it's a Dallas phenomenon

2. Damn tnt....is there someone peeing in your Post Toasties on a daily basis? I've only read a couple of your posts, but there are definitely some angry tones in those I've read. What's up with that? Just the persona you want to put out there? Burned out? Natural impatience and hostility? Does it attract a certain type of clientele that you prefer? I'm always learning and Inquiring minds wanna know....'-) Originally Posted by M A X
You obviously haven't read what I post on a daily basis.

We are all entitled to our opinions and I respect yours.

And actually - business is great this week. How's yours?
MAX--

Check Tina Marie's posting history before you make a judgment on this one. She's been spreading her own little brand of idiocy across the boards.
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Like I said...I've just read a few, but they were all hostile in nature, or that's how I perceived them? And yes, of course we are all entitled to our opinion, I was just curious if anger and hostility was your "schtick" and if that works? I'm curious that way. We all wish to be perceived a certain way in order to attract certain clients, ya know?

My business is just where and how I want it to be, as always. Thanks for asking...:-)
max...before you make a judgement on ME based on "a couple of posts"...maybe you should take my lead and read a little more about me...as I did on TM. I've responded to her several times before this thread...she has kept on and kept on.

Thank you Cora for pointing that out.

I jumped the gun and didn't catch the "couple" part on MAX's post and I appreciate you suggesting her looking at TM's posting history.

I don't have a "schtick". I may have a "reality disorder". I don't do "fake" very well. There's not much "illusion". My reviews are all real, I am all real, not much bullshit about me. If that comes off as harsh or translates as schtick...well, so be it.

I was on the P since 2005 and wasn't very active on here for the last several years. Sorry if you're just now noticing me.
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MAX--

Check Tina Marie's posting history before you make a judgment on this one. She's been spreading her own little brand of idiocy across the boards. Originally Posted by Cora Drake
I appreciate that....not what I was getting at though. I was just curious about tnt's style and persona. I haven't been on here a lot lately, but I've read a few posts recently that made me wonder, so I asked.....I didn't mean any harm. I'm just curious that way.

Ya'll have at it.....I stated my opinion on her comment. I don't think it's a Dallas phenomenon for ladies not to answer references. We have a larger number of ladies competing for the business here, so it may seem more prevalent, when in all actuality, it's probably not.
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tnt....as you so kindly informed me.....my opinion is as valued as yours....was just stating what I saw and perceived. I don't really do tons of research on other providers....only if they are involved in my screening process. I am not judging anyone....I didn't come down on you. Maybe the Post Toasties thing was a bit harsh, but funny ya gotta admit.....sorry. Otherwise, I asked some simple questions based on what I've read in a few threads over a few days time. None, btw, which include your target here. Do what ya gotta do!! More power to ya and all that. :-)
girl, you're good in my book...we are joking about it in chat!
come join us!

I have a correction to my comment about TM's posts...

she has one and a half decent posts....she lost me half way through the second one though...so I only gave half a credit.
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can't...gotta get ready....ya'll have fun though! xoxo
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You are a hooker, supposedly. Get a little bit thicker skin.


I'll take my lashings...


sometimes it's worth it.


I only have so much tolerance for ignorance before my mouth must release itself upon the keyboard.


Now, from what I understand...and seeing as that I have a bit more seniority than you and I MIGHT understand some of the rules a bit more (Oh, that little comment was quite mild and indirect compared to what I have been known for in the past) typically attacks that are a bit more vicious in nature are the ones that will have points assessed, and can result in further action from the mods.

However, I often times am given pats on the back for calling people on their bullshit. I can't help it...it's a lifelong trait. I call people out on their bullshit and when I myself fuck up or look like an idiot, I step up to the plate and apologize (rather than pout like a crybaby and blame someone else for my own mistakes).

Calling you out on your bullshit is something I frequently find myself doing with you. Someone many of us still don't know WHAT you are. So puh-lease...don't get me started. Currently my point count is zero...my comment was MILD. I'll happily take my points, but much worse goes on on a regular basis around here. Stop saying such ridiculous shit and you won't put a big fucking target on your posts.
If providing has made you this jaded you should seriously consider finding a new occupation. Providing isn't for everyone!
For the billionth time, Tina Marie isn't a real provider.

When someone credible says they have seen her, I will retract my statement right after the pigs fly out of my ass.
Dannie, I was waiting for you babe.
TM - are you liking all of your own posts with your "other" persona?

I admit the level to which I am jaded.

I am positive that is what keeps me grounded as a provider, a mother and keeps my nose clean. Read that how you will.

We are all adults here.
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Is it jealousy, or just a lack of professionalism? My muse and I talk about the hobby in general when we take tea breaks during our photo shoots.

I was very impressed (but not surprised) when she said that she returns the calls of providers before those of clients out of professional courtesy and the knowledge that the referral system is first and foremost a safety system. This attitude speaks to the self confidence that only comes with some maturity and professionalism IMHO.

Providers need to make the reference system a first priority for themselves, their clients and the community, it's the classy thing to do.

Looking over the photos we did and remembering our times together I doubt the other clients mind waiting a few minutes longer.
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Would just like to add that I emailed Junestx I believe is how it's spelled for a ref, and her response time was less than 10 min. That's a fkin woman to have around!

Who the hell does not have a Blackberry or Iphone in this business? Seriously, that's just common sense. I can email you from the toilet bwahwhah!
Would just like to add that I emailed Junestx I believe is how it's spelled for a ref, and her response time was less than 10 min. That's a fkin woman to have around!

Who the hell does not have a Blackberry or Iphone in this business? Seriously, that's just common sense. I can email you from the toilet bwahwhah! Originally Posted by London Rayne
Ha ha!

My iphone is to old to fuck with hobby stuff on it...

However, I do hve ahotspot and my old hobby droid phone...so, that's what I'm typing from now, and just a few min ago sent an ok to a lady as soon as I got out of a meeting.

I then followed up with a note to the client so he had a heads up that I gave him a shining gold star as well. The rest is up to them.
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For the billionth time, Tina Marie isn't a real provider.

When someone credible says they have seen her, I will retract my statement right after the pigs fly out of my ass. Originally Posted by Dannie

Be sure to post the pics. Please.