Maybe I ask to much like I stated before you should be willing to give me the same information that you ask of me that's 50 50 that's building trust respect but then again maybe I ask for to much!
Originally Posted by onedaddy
Yes sir, you are asking too much.
There are ladies out there that will not screen you. These are the ladies who go to jail more often than not. They will confiscate her phone and laptop, and find any correspondence from you to her to find out who you are. You are still FUBAR'd. If you meet a lady who wants to screen you beyond what you're comfortable with, you have the right to move on.
Screening can be invasive, but all we want to know is that you're not going to go postal on us, or lock us up. You want to know that a lady is not going to rob you, and send you home happy. What you should look for beyond looks is stability, mental or otherwise. Use this site to do your recon. The ladies that post here are quite obvious. You can tell by the issues and opinions they have what kind of woman she is. That in itself is all the screening you need beyond her reviews.
I'm sure I speak for all of us when I say that we appreciate your service and sacrifice.
So let me ask you this: What do you think you should provide in the way of screening that should make us comfortable with meeting you?