what are your feelings about cancelling appt???

thanks skylar! shows what i know so far... Originally Posted by jyoshi917

No prob, this is a good page to keep in mind when you come across unknown acronyms: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=8752 it is a sticky on the National page.

uh, what's a tofft? sorry if this question is inappropriate. Originally Posted by jyoshi917

There is a sticky somewhere with acronyms ... BBCR, etc.

well, HELLLOOOOO Lynn! how YOU doin'?

heh, sorry for the newbie speak, but this is kind of fun... i'm getting to know y'all in a way. I'll be sure to catch up on acronyms and forum and thread rules and what not soon..

lets get this one back on track please.

Sorry,

In 29 years have cancelled once,a cancellation fee was offered and rejected.
It was 3 days in advance.Have never been on the receiveing end of a ncns,if it were to happen I wouldn't contact the lady again.
Punctuality is a form of respect,being late is rude and a ncns is not only rude it is cowardess.

Punctuality is a form of respect,being late is rude and a ncns is not only rude it is cowardess. Originally Posted by Exhibitbob

Very well said.

Let me start by saying I would never cancel last minute. But a $150 cancellation fee is absurd. If the provider cancelled would the hobbyist be expected to get paid the $150? What if the guy had a outcall and had already $100 for the room. Should he be reimbursed if the provider cancels. I agree stuff happens. I had one cancel on me last week 30 minutes prior to the session. Luckily for me it was a incall, so I was out no money just gas. I followed up the following week and the session was made up very nicely though

Just my .02.

The fact that a Provider (actually the type that I would meet), has a cancellation fee tells me a lot about her:
1. How she prepares for the experience. It's not just a FUCK! She really dolls herself up, gets ready mentally, physically and prepares the environment. That is Top Notch.
2. She values her time. So, if she values time, there is mutual respect, because she too values my time. Again, this means the "moment" is going to be Great due to this value and respect, mutual respect, of time.
3. If I am meeting this Fem, I already have done my recon and am ready to go. It's a problem when a person does not do full recon and is caught off guard. It's business and she has every right to expect what she expects! So do I in this case!
4. It's a WIN-WIN

Let me start by saying I would never cancel last minute. But a $150 cancellation fee is absurd. If the provider cancelled would the hobbyist be expected to get paid the $150? What if the guy had a outcall and had already $100 for the room. Should he be reimbursed if the provider cancels. I agree stuff happens. I had one cancel on me last week 30 minutes prior to the session. Luckily for me it was a incall, so I was out no money just gas. I followed up the following week and the session was made up very nicely though

Just my .02. Originally Posted by MasterBaiter1996

Sorry I don't make guys get my rooms. I can afford to get my own. I also don't do outcalls unless you're staying at an upscale hotel. Outcalls to private residences scare me. As to your "$150 is absurd comment" - To each their own baby. Time is money.

Z

I agree time is money, but time is money for the hobbyist as well.

The fact that a Provider (actually the type that I would meet), has a cancellation fee tells me a lot about her:
1. How she prepares for the experience. It's not just a FUCK! She really dolls herself up, gets ready mentally, physically and prepares the environment. That is Top Notch. That's the problem: in the final analysis, it is just a fuck. Would you pay as much for a date w/o the fuck? I don't think so.
2. She values her time. So, if she values time, there is mutual respect, because she too values my time. Again, this means the "moment" is going to be Great due to this value and respect, mutual respect, of time. BS. She values her time so much she's likely to short you on time. One and gone is the foundation.
3. If I am meeting this Fem, I already have done my recon and am ready to go. It's a problem when a person does not do full recon and is caught off guard. It's business and she has every right to expect what she expects! So do I in this case! You're forgetting the YMMV disclaimer every provider makes.
4. It's a WIN-WIN. Only occasionally. Originally Posted by mijo(BFE)

Sorry I don't make guys get my rooms. I can afford to get my own. I also don't do outcalls unless you're staying at an upscale hotel. Outcalls to private residences scare me. As to your "$150 is absurd comment" - To each their own baby. Time is money.

Z Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Time is money, agreed. So when I'm NCNSd, why don't I at least get my out of pocket? BS, Z. I'd never meet any lady with a cancel fee because then I know from the git-go she will screw me anyway from Sunday, and not in a good way. The only lady that is half way trustworthy is one that actually expects to be paid for SERVICES, and does not expect to be paid when no services are provided.

And besides, since providers give companionship only for the fee, if no companionship occurs, then the client owes NOTHING. If a provider expects compensation for no companionship, that "companion" (using the word loosely here) is, IMHO, a thief.

charlestudor, I believe that you and Z would have a delicious romp session. You are sexy to her. She has posted as such...forget the history and enjoy the moment.

Now regarding your posts, there are truths to it no doubt. It all depends on the fems. The type I listed in my post, it's always a WIN-WIN for me. That is from experience. And, it's a great experience.

You and Z, need to go back to your corners and come out FUCKING!

Sadly I had three NCNS this time. All were verified Eccie members with reviews, too. I just don't get that disrespect of not even bothering to pick up the phone to cancel. i received one e mail AFTER THE FACT too. NCNS, and then a day later I get this e mail that says

" Oh sorry, dropped my cell phone in the water and couldn't make it. Can I see you today?"

Uh, no.