Do's and Don'ts

I hate it when they don't gently kiss my cheek or hug me before we leave each other :-)

I hate it when they don't gently kiss my cheek or hug me before we leave each other :-) Originally Posted by anita

This is a business transaction. I don't kiss and hug the clerk at Dillards after I buy a shirt there. Why should I do this??? Trying to generate a relationship? It's not supposed to exist.

lol,..........

DO DO DO!! ...Give me your COCK!!! Completely and Totally while we are together! The rest is just icing on the cake Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

WELL??? Im waiting....................... ..lol

Don't talk to me like you think you're on a porn set. Communicate with me...tell me what feels good...ask me if I like what your doing.
Do NOT give me a bunch of ..."Oh you BIG STUD...give me that HARD COCK!!!"

That is a complete turn off.


Do.......kiss me.
Kiss my face, my neck, my chest, my whole body. Sensual foreplay goes a LONG way with me, and I will reciprocate.

Do........take your time.

Don't .....be in such a hurry. This will make me want to take control if you're the dominant type. I am not MSOG...so don't try to get me off in the first 15 minutes of an hour session. I will pop my nut when I get good and ready.

Do......stimulate me with touch. Some of you ladies have the sexiest manicures. Graze me with your nails. Run your fingers through my hair. Caress me...touch me.

Don't........go to work if you're not in the mood.
I point this out for one reason specifically for this thread.
If we are doing one of your "dont's"...then have enough tact to be polite and redirect us as opposed to being catty about it. Originally Posted by john353

Great response. The first comment is my biggest turn off.

My biggest don't is using teeth while giving a BJ.

Ladies, when you do that, it feels like razor blades going up and down that shaft, and is kinda distracting, lol. Seriously, stop doing that!

This is a business transaction. I don't kiss and hug the clerk at Dillards after I buy a shirt there. Why should I do this??? Trying to generate a relationship? It's not supposed to exist. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I am just an affectionate person by nature. A hug is totally harmless, and so is the kiss on the cheek. I am making friends, and, this is a business involving naked bodies after all. But I get your point of view :-).

This is a business transaction. I don't kiss and hug the clerk at Dillards after I buy a shirt there. Why should I do this??? Trying to generate a relationship? It's not supposed to exist. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

We don't DATY with the clerk at Dillards either.

OK, I thought about DATYing a couple of hot Dillards chicks. In those cases, I would definitely have kissed and hugged afterwards

We don't DATY with the clerk at Dillards either.

OK, I thought about DATYing a couple of hot Dillards chicks. In those cases, I would definitely have kissed and hugged afterwards Originally Posted by Graycoat

Lol, that would be nice of you :-)

Whatever you do...

BE Vocal, Responsive, and Passionate and you'll have a client forever in ME

I've got the don'ts covered. For most of the sexual dos, the provider's acting skills will have to come into play.

Some activities are so YMMV with different ladies, that I don't even bother.

Most notably... FIV and/or FIA.

Some ladies love this during DATY, but there are just as many that do NOT! If I have read in her reviews that she is receptive, then I will attempt it. If I see no indications of this in her past reviews...I don't go there. It bothers me when a lady feels that she has to move my hand out of the way or has to let me know that she doesn't like something. It's really kind of a buzzkill and a mood dampener.

Thats why I always try to do plenty of research so I can get an idea of what she likes and what she doesn't. Then I know ahead of time and it keeps awkward moments down to a bare minimum.

DO attempt to make me feel like you are enjoying yourself (grunts, sighs, noises, smiles) whether you are, or you are not.

DO let me know what you don't enjoy (greek, tongue in ear...lol), by pm before our session. A list of dont's before a session begins is a big turn off.

DO tell my what you like before a session. I will try my best to accomodate

DO tell me if you are having a bad day, or if you are not in the best of moods BEFORE our time together. 1st impressions are lasting impressions. We all have bad days.

DO make me feel like there is no where else in the world that you would rather be than with me. This is hobbyland where fantasies come true.

DO NOT list an activity that you do not truely enjoy (FIV, FIA, GREEK, etc). The majority of hobbyiest do not enjoy making providers do things that they don't truely enjoy. Most hobbyist get enjoyment by making providers enjoy BCD activities as well.

DO NOT scream like some porno actresses unless you are enjoying yourself that much or you are in the moment. Most hobbyist don't believe it and it ruins the moment.

DO exhibit self confidence in yourself. Hobbyist would not have contacted you if we didn't want to see you. Let yourself go and have fun. This is what the hobby is about.

Lastly, DO NOT knock anything until you try it. WALDT

prostrate thing but will give you the best back scratching body rub etc and all i ask in return is good banging and sucking. i am really easy to please and if you really want to make me happy bring shayla along as you know you 2 are 66.7 percent of my bucket list [just add sonya playmate].

lol--I have not met many guys who will scratch my back!
{I actually have a "special fork" I use to do it myself.....lol} Originally Posted by DallasRain