Appointments, Periods, and Cancellations.

I recently was referred to someone by a provider I know that could not see me on short notice (my fault). I had no idea who I was going to see, but I knew and trusted the Girl that lined it up. I wound up having a great time. I think it is a great way for us to meet new ladies and have a better chance of connecting. I am always very shy when I meet someone new so it kinda broke the ice for me. As for the girls that were a part of this thread , I have added you all to my list because of this. I would love to have a few more "blind dates"!

Well, Elysa, enjoy the mountain of new biz I'm sure this thread has brought you, and for enduring this guy, I think you deserve every bit of it. From a provider perspective, you did a fantastic job of trying to salvage the situation for him, truly admirable in that AND how you've handled this public outcry. I will be PMing you for some info. Kudos on showing us all how a true business lady behaves!

See, that's the strange thing. I was unhappy the session didn't happen, but I understand how periods happen. I wish I had gotten more notice, and wished the time had been spent giving the notice, than her guessing if I would like someone else. So I posted a thread that named no names, to illustrate my point.

I intended to trash nobody. ...

So, I was disappointed the session didn't happen, and I dared to try and let the ladies know that giving us the most notice possible can really help us out. Oh Yeah, I'm really an evil guy. Originally Posted by 69er

before i comment, i'll just say what we all know.
there are n sides to a story, the participants (>=2), the observers (>=2), and the actual facts (1).

so, 69er, what was your point of your post? if it had just been "hey ladies, if i have to cancel, i give notice as early as i possibly can. so, i'd appreciate it if you give me notice as early as you cant. thanks." then it might have come across loud and clear.

instead, you added comments about "her diatribe", that you think it's inexcusable, when you "should have been told", your "believing this is just the way many ladies do business", wonder if this is the way some "play this little game in an effort to increase their revenue stream", etc.
ALL OF THAT, imo, just diverted your main points off to the side track. consequently, lots of folks joined in and piled on in the discussion, further diluting your point.

it sounds like all that should have been hashed out between you two and not in public.

like wayward said " It's not a perfect world my friend, all we have is grace under pressure."
things happen all the time in every walk of life. that's a fact.
how we react to those things is totally under our control.
just ask for what you want, then expect the worst and hope for the best.

at least, that's how i see it.


besides, millions of women, children, and men are dying all around the world from war, genocide, starvation, diseases, family violence, natural disasters, etc.
not getting to consult w/ a woman is pretty low on my totem pole.

Well, Elysa, enjoy the mountain of new biz I'm sure this thread has brought you, and for enduring this guy, I think you deserve every bit of it. From a provider perspective, you did a fantastic job of trying to salvage the situation for him, truly admirable in that AND how you've handled this public outcry. I will be PMing you for some info. Kudos on showing us all how a true business lady behaves! Originally Posted by tracibrooks

Ditto congrats Elysa!!! Enjoy!!!

I have visited with Wynter before and would not call her PSE like the OP who has never visited with her is sure of. He just keeps grabbing straws to try to drag himself out of this mess he created for himself that makes him look very foolish. Wynter does offer some sides into another realm but has always been GFE to me. The OP is one of those guys who has to hide his eccie handle to get an appointment, which makes it harder on the rest of us guys.

Pmdelites, you talk too much. I cannot read your inane blather any more. Try to focus on one key concept, and then try to deliver the message.

I for one, totally appreciate the professionalism Elysa has shown in this instance and find myself thinking I need to book an appointment with her soon because her dance card is about to get fairly busy. Maybe even an Elysa/Wynter double though I'd probably never survive that session.

If this missed session is the worst thing that ever happens to the OP, then he is the luckiest fucktard in the hobby. I am sure that anyone who has been doing this for more than a short time has had much worse happen. The OP has done more damage to his reputation with this post than he can imagine.

When you find yourself at the bottom of a hole, stop digging.

Damn, this stupid thread is still alive? Now if one of the ladies would post some taint, then this thread can live on .... Or the OP needs to go back to downloading porn.

ECCIE, it's not Grand Opera but there is always drama. Elysia, Wynter, The Dannie...grace..