Annoying Appointment Request! UGH!!

I'll admit to something here: It is not unusual for me to send out a "feeler" PM to a gal I see online and whom I am interested in meeting without first checking into her stated availability. My experience is most providers don't do a good job keeping their profiles up to date, and I have had some success seeing gals outside the parameters outlined in their profiles (ie, notice, screening requirements, etc).

I remember reaching out to Samantha once in this manner (it wasn't late at night, but it was short notice). She declined, but was very polite about it. I've always felt like the door was open for me to try again, with a bit more notice. Hopefully, I'll be able to make that happen one day. My read on this is it was just a confluence of factors that caused a negative reaction, not a normal course of dealing on the part of the OP.

It was midnight. I was relaxing at home watching TV, drinking wine, reading posts on Eccie...and suddenly, I received a 411 appt request for an outcall or incall from a guy with no 'okays' for 1am. I was like... "SERIOUSLY???"
I clearly posted my schedule, available times, incall availability, etc.
I couldn't help but getting really annoyed by this request. I wrote him back immediately that I found his 1am appt request rather offensive. I told him I prefer to see a nice polite gentleman who takes the time reading my profile. That there is no way I am going out to satisfy a man with no references at this time of night. I told him that this is NOT how you treat a lady and from this request, I don't think we'll be compatible at all. He just wrote back saying that my profile says: After 4pm, my schedule if flexible.
I couldn't believe it and got even more annoyed. How could this guy think that I am available 24/7 like a robot? REALLY?? Like I have no life and other things to do??
Thank you for listening....I am ranting I know. Originally Posted by samantha thom

Perhaps the Requestor saw your beautiful photos online and all normal reason and proper protocol went by the wayside? I could understand how this might happen.

Perhaps the Requestor saw your beautiful photos online and all normal reason and proper protocol went by the wayside? I could understand how this might happen. Originally Posted by SomethingOnTheSide

That's very very possible. Maybe he looked like this --> ,

and then feeling this -->,
then I did this to him --> OR OR ,

then he was like --> ,

but then I said: "Sorry!" ,

then the end result is -->

I'M HAVING TOO MUCH FUN WITH THESE EMOTICONS!! lol

That's very very possible. Maybe he looked like this --> ,

and then feeling this -->,
then I did this to him --> OR OR ,

then he was like --> ,

but then I said: "Sorry!" ,

then the end result is -->

I'M HAVING TOO MUCH FUN WITH THESE EMOTICONS!! lol Originally Posted by samantha thom

I looked like this ----->
then this ----->
Followed by this -------->

Having told you all this i feel like this ------>

Wow You didnt know Women saw Men that late!!!!!
I find that very odd??

OK, so what was this all about? I just woke up from having a 2am appoint. this morning and apparently missed something here?

I saw Rosey Palm, she's usually available anytime. Originally Posted by hd

Hm. how old are you, my friend? At my age even Rosey shuts down for business around 10.

No, Rosey's always open for bizz. It just whether or not I'm up for it!

Samantha, I couldn't agree with you more.....one of my biggest pet peeves is getting contacted by someone who clearly has not read my website. I spend quite a bit of time creating my ads and in creating my website to give the potential client all the basic information they may possibly need to know, as well as a little insight in to who I am,my personality, and to determine if we are compatible. I find that a client who is too lazy and inconsiderate to take the time to read my profile and website, will also be an inconsiderate and rude date.....not the type of gentleman I care to see, nor behavior I will tolerate. And I'm sorry, ANYONE who calls a provider at 1AM is not a gentleman. (unless she specifically advertises 24/7, and still I think not ok.....)

Where did you read on this thread that he had called her? Guess I missed it.

She said he PMed her... im reading around midnight asking for a 1AM appt. I guess assuming she is sitting by her computer, freshly showered and waiting for anyone to pm her for an appt within the hour?

It cracks me up.. My showcase on 411 CLEARLY states- menu/rates/hours/non-newbie friendly/no same day appts/no hh... what city I am in... Soooooooo why do i get PMs from guys who are in some other state.. in a city at least 8 hours away... asking me how much my rates are and if I would see him with no references within the next hour for a hh appt? Half the time I wont even reply back to such nonsense. If you cant take the time to research or AT LEAST read my showcase..than why would I take my time to screen you? You must have me confused for a hard up, in dire need for a dollar.. hooker. Bp may be more your cup o tea?

Thank you, Hayden and Lacy. You understand EXACTLY what I was talking about. A lot of men missed the point. It's not about if he calls, pm, fax, telegram, text, or send a morse code. Lacy....the last line in your previous post is RIGHT ON!!!! Thanks!

Are you saying don't send a PM or email if you're off the clock? It's not like your phone is ringing while you're trying to sleep, or someone's banging on the front door. Maybe the guy couldn't log in to ECCIE until after his wife or SO went to sleep. I just don't understand what is obtrusive about a PM or email.

And if he's new to the hobby he probably doesn't know how the screening process works, or how she handles newbies.

Jeez give the guy a break. Threads like this just get providers on 'Bitch = DNS' lists...

Are you saying don't send a PM or email if you're off the clock? It's not like your phone is ringing while you're trying to sleep, or someone's banging on the front door. Maybe the guy couldn't log in to ECCIE until after his wife or SO went to sleep. I just don't understand what is obtrusive about a PM or email.

And if he's new to the hobby he probably doesn't know how the screening process works, or how she handles newbies.

Jeez give the guy a break. Threads like this just get providers on 'Bitch = DNS' lists... Originally Posted by trynagetlaid

I don't mind being on some guys' DNS list. :-) Send the pm, mail, fax, anytime! I know it's a lot to read on this thread...I understand you may not read the whole thing. I'm not mad anymore, the guy is not mad anymore. It's all good!

His loss!!!! And, I can emphatically vouch for that!!! Hope to see you soon.

There are hundreds if not thousands of successful businessmen who hobby. Many of them own their own businesses, some they built from scratch.

They didn't get there by being rude to people who wanted to buy their goods and/or services. Originally Posted by trynagetlaid

I agree! I think I would've been much more polite... I mean it's not like your Kim Kardashian... but you seem to think you're on her level based on the attitude. Reality check...