Time to Vent!!!!

. . .havent attacked anyone. . .

. . .asshole selves. Originally Posted by subcilla

Hmmmm. . .

Nah. . .she could not have planned that irony, right?

I am not a newbie, ive seen Providers venting on here and it not go so well, but i am oppinionated, inteligant, and YET still a lday, so here it goes.

Lets start w last week, i get a call, agree to meet, show up on time and the little old guy cant get an erection. Steps away to the bathroom vanity. The first time i thought nothing of it. Little blue pill time.

The second time he breaks away from the session I happen to be laying where I can see what he's doing. I am a little unnerved to see him w a hyperdermic needle shooting something into his penis. WTF? ok, so i ask what was that. Not wanting to just take the donation and run.

Still trying to be skeptical, while really freaked out. He tells me trimax. It helps w erections, i agree after he explains and i see the rx bottle and that he has it on ice. Just thought id put it out there for ladies who may not have experienced this.

It would have been nice to have it explained prior, as i could taste it in my mouth, and im wondering if im just going to pass out now or what? Pretty scary, but Yes it is just for erection, i came home and looked it up.

READ THE FUCKING POST! IT ISNT MEANT TO BE NEGATIVE TO HIM! I DIDNT USE WORDS LIKE LIMP DICK, ED, OR ANY DEROGATORY TERMS. SIMPLY STATING THE FACTS, BUT OBVIOUSLY THIS IS JUST FOR THE SAME 15 PPL TO SIT AROUND AND MAKE DAYTIME SOAPS! I DONT NEED YOUR APPROVAL I DONT HAVE TO TOLERATE THE BS, AND IDGAF WHO YOU THINK YOU ARE.

Not playing the WK game here but Cilla has a point. If the situation was reversed, the provider trotted off to the bathroom poked her snatch with a needle, trotted back in a said "here you go big boy, take a bite" and all you tasted was chemical the rants would be all over this board with the beware beware beware.

Getting burned on a NCNS, is right up there with a tax audit. Por ol' boy just trying to get through his day. Sorry no way. It is a two way contract, everyone needs to abide by the terms. Originally Posted by Baseplate

She was a hell of a lot more forgiving than I would have been.

I agree, except if the situation were reversed I would have taken the money and left. No explanation given until I was down the road, he just took a iv drug (who knows what), why risk the confrontation as a female who cant defend yourself.

NCNS sucks, there is no reason that he couldn't have excused himself to the restroom and texted he was late/couldn't show.

For the record my NCNS just called and i will see him tom, he wasnt in the least bit upset, i did simply text him and say next time pls cancel. Then he said my plans have changed again, so yet again i show up and he still wasnt there, not my fault, get over it, im over it. Take what You want from this thread, and yes when im attacked and dog piled i will defend myself, and since its just from the same 15 ppl who all and ONLY do exactly this, its no loss at all.

IDGAF Originally Posted by subcilla

Well we know you don't GIVE them.

Instead you TOOK his money and came here and began to vomit rants left and right, attacking anyone that tried to reach out and explain why what you are doing here is not a good idea in any universe, and yes dear, belittle him.

If you take nothing else away from the thread, go back and see the common gent response. Newbie or not, this is a lesson you still have not mastered.

Fate or coincidence on that NCNS? Perhaps he read your thread and decided there would be a better way to spend his time and money. . .

She was a hell of a lot more forgiving than I would have been.

I agree, except if the situation were reversed I would have taken the money and left. No explanation given until I was down the road, he just took a iv drug (who knows what), why risk the confrontation as a female who cant defend yourself.

NCNS sucks, there is no reason that he couldn't have excused himself to the restroom and texted he was late/couldn't show. Originally Posted by Combustion

Yes i could have taken the $$ and ran, but im not that type of person, in my shoes many would have done just that. i instead finished my session and offered the information.

when the common gent sits and watches someone shoot up, or taste a chemical in their mouth, then their 2cents might be worth it, until then its easy to say what You might have done. Let me know when one of You is up to the challenge. You want to play w needles? You want to unknown chemicals in Your mouth, which btw was from the first series of injections, the one i didnt see, so i had at that time no idea wtf was going on, at any rate i owe no apologies and no explanations. i will from this moment out only use eccie for ads. The co eds can be left out, and i could care less, one day it will be a bunch of old men sitting around gossiping with out a woman in sight, every single provider has at one point or another been dog piled here or on aspd. And one by one stopped posting bc of attacks of being a threAD or for some reason or another. Mods pls close this thread as i will no longer be responding.

All I can say is for a handle like Subcilla you don't sound very submissive to me.

Okay let's put the shoe on the other foot.
Let's say a hobbyist walks in on a provider sticking a needle in herself what would you do as a hobbyist?

I know what I would do I'd get the fuck out of dodge.

Now if a provider doesn't call me to let me know she's running late I'd be pissed. Originally Posted by carkido45

You are absolutely right... I would probably get the fuck out of there. Hopefully, I would find a tactful way of asking what she was shooting up so that if, as with Cilla's client, there was a legitimate reason the show might go on. By the sounds of the original post, it seems Miss SubCilla did exactly that and kudos to her for taking a second to verify the situation before running for the door.

Having said that, the last thing I would do would be to start talking specifics in a public forum about either situation. I might post a generalized question about how to handle a NCNS or late cancellation or medical issue, but I wouldn't talk to specifics. I would use a review and the Men's Lounge to at least attempt to keep anything specific to the provider BCD.

WOW!!! It amazes me how people love to rant.

when the common gent sits and watches someone shoot up, or taste a chemical in their mouth, then their 2cents might be worth it, until then its easy to say what You might have done. Let me know when one of You is up to the challenge. You want to play w needles? You want to unknown chemicals in Your mouth, which btw was from the first series of injections, the one i didnt see, so i had at that time no idea wtf was going on, at any rate i owe no apologies and no explanations. i will from this moment out only use eccie for ads. The co eds can be left out, and i could care less, one day it will be a bunch of old men sitting around gossiping with out a woman in sight, every single provider has at one point or another been dog piled here or on aspd. And one by one stopped posting bc of attacks of being a threAD or for some reason or another. Mods pls close this thread as i will no longer be responding. Originally Posted by subcilla

Okay. . .so why not just end the session, leave the money (or perhaps get reimbursed for your travel etc) and then high tail it out?

Nobody is faulting you for your concern about needles and chemicals, but rather your penchant for avarice and drama.

Instead you kept the money, did the session, then came on this board and started this volatile thread.

Look back and reread some of the gents here. Their advice may be worth more than you think. I may choke on this, but I should state that DH had some excellent wisdom that he tried to share with you.

Wow, did I just type that?

Okay. . .so why not just end the session, leave the money (or perhaps get reimbursed for your travel etc) and then high tail it out?

Nobody is faulting you for your concern about needles and chemicals, but rather your penchant for avarice and drama.

Instead you kept the money, did the session, then came on this board and started this volatile thread.

Look back and reread some of the gents here. Their advice may be worth more than you think. I may choke on this, but I should state that DH had some excellent wisdom that he tried to share with you.

Wow, did I just type that? Originally Posted by ANONONE

Do You even know the definition of the word You tried to use?


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Look up volatile in Wiktionary, the free dictionary.Volatile means changing or changeable. Its noun form is volatility, which refers to any of several measures of instability. It can refer to:
In chemistry:

• Volatility (chemistry), a measure of the tendency of a substance to vaporize. It has also been defined as a measure of how readily a substance vaporizes.
• Relative volatility, a measure of vapor pressures of the components in a liquid mixture
• Volatiles, a group of compounds with low boiling points that are associated with a planet's or moon's crust and/or atmosphere
• Volatile organic compounds, organic compounds that can evaporate at normal temperature and pressure, and are often regulated by governments
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In astronomy:

• Volatile a chunk of frozen gasses found mostly in the Kuiper belt.

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Okay. . .so why not just end the session, leave the money (or perhaps get reimbursed for your travel etc) and then high tail it out?

Nobody is faulting you for your concern about needles and chemicals, but rather your penchant for avarice and drama.

Instead you kept the money, did the session, then came on this board and started this volatile thread.

Look back and reread some of the gents here. Their advice may be worth more than you think. I may choke on this, but I should state that DH had some excellent wisdom that he tried to share with you.

Wow, did I just type that? Originally Posted by ANONONE

i started a informative thread for fellow providers and opinions . There was nothing negative stated anywhere in my orig post. Point out what i said that was belittling or even negative? Quote one thing?

I will stick to Webster's:

volatile |ˈvälətl|
adjective

Definition: liable to change rapidly and unpredictably, esp. for the worse : the political situation was becoming more volatile.
• (of a person) liable to display rapid changes of emotion.

—Synonyms
explosive, violent, caustic, eruptive, unstable, unsettled.

As to your negativity I am not sure where to start. Rather than do that perhaps we need to re-examine why it is never a good idea to do what you did with this thread in a coed section.

This might require some insight as to why men hobby. Let's ask Walter. Just click on his picture below and he will talk to you:

thats why if i do an incall and i know they are driving a distance then im prepared to wash their balls with a warm washcloth then we are happy Originally Posted by Max Rax

Ditto!! That is why I always offered incall with my massage/hot bath service.. I like the guys my kinda clean..
As for the pee pee injections, I had one guy who did this as well, but he informed me once he arrivied. I was all anal, because I gave bbbj and I did not like the idea of blood coming from the injection site. Just saying because, once he injects he could hit a artery or something.. I never thought of the medication throw back and me sucking on the wee wee after the fact.. Matter of fact I wound up giving him a HJ afterall because I was worried about the injection site..

Impotency is general for men who have had their prostate removed, have diabeties or are in poor general poor health due too obesity.. Just a fact; if a guy is having issues due to these, it is probably in a providers best interest to pass..... I have seen guys well into their late 60's good health who still get a good erection, so do not turn down all the old farts.. I find these gents sexy and young at heart and to be actually the most fun.. They know how too and really enjoy pleasing a lady !!!