Younger providers?

At 72 and recently widowed I am going to enjoy what ever life has to offer. I have dated a few young 20-28 girls and although I enjoyed the dates I find the mature ladies more enjoyable. I find the fake screams and moans to be a little to much. To you young wild ladies a grunt will do more than a fake scream any day. I think the more mature ladies are less prone to have a pimp and for sure they are not forced into what they do.
NO those are not my gold teeth Originally Posted by tucson

Now here's a guy after my own heart....I hate being with the fake noises....There was/is one I have seen over 40 but she still moans and groans and talkis it up...and I know I AIN'T THAT GREAT.

There is something wrong with all of us. Im talking about the men who seek out the youngest he can get, his daughter or granddaughters age. "Normal" men think it is creepy too and labels those guys as a pedophile. Many clients of mine talk about it and how its pretty disgusting to them to even imagine being with a girl their daughters age or barely legal.

Why does a woman sell sex? Because she can. I dont venture into that very often but when I do I think about what a dumbass I was all those years being used and hurt giving it away for free lmao. And if I do go that way with a client, you bet your ass he is young and hot. Its a cougar thing. But it is a double standard if you think about it, you older guys are called perverts while us older ladies just rawr and keep them coming--no pun intended. Originally Posted by kymberlane

I am 49 and have a 24yo SB she thinks i am a sex god no one her age has made her squirt have multiple orgasms or treat her like a real women lol and she does not ask for money !!!

I will be a day or two getting my head screwed back on as I spent the afternoon with Dallas Rain. Tried out the new swing and it was beyond all expectations. Of course the woman setting in the swing made it golden. We had a late lunch at Hooters and I felt I brought the top woman in with me. OHHHH Hell

I like the ones thirty and above. They are usually over the bullshit phase and know how to please a man. The 18-25 group is on the learning curve and I don't want to pay to teach them. There are exceptions but as a group the 30 plus ladies are better. Example: A young one may give good head but usually as soon as you get off they are up and dressing and an older one will offer to help you clean up and give you that few minutes of talk or relaxing to make the exit seamless. it's the small things.

I've been with young and the same age as me (54), sometimes it's nice to play with a one hander with that flat tight belly. But I have been called a mother f!!cker and it's true, i do prefer mothers. I generally will look for one in the late 20's and up, most of which are mothers. Most are correct in that you just connect better.

What? Are you kidding. Of course it is normal for older guys to seek out younger girls or the youngest he can get. It has happened through out history. It is only a VERY recent societal trend to label people as pedophiles for seeking certain relationships. In the middle ages, girls were married off when they could bare children. It was not uncommon for a girl to marry at age 14, 15, or 16. Most of the time it was to older men (usually by a decade). I'm not condoning the practice. I'm just pointing out the reality. I don't know who you've been talking to, but I think most men from their mid 40s to 50s would not consider it disgusting to be with a girl who is barely legal. In fact, I would think most men in that age range would do it in a minute if given the opportunity. I know I would. We have a whole forum dedicated to this activity-- the Sugarbaby Forum. Granted there are a wide spectrums in the sugar daddy/ sugar baby world, but the most traditional definition is a man (usually in his 40s, 50s, or 60s) trading financial assistance for sex/companionship with a girl between the ages of 18-25. It is quite normal for an older guy/ younger girl relationship-- probably even more so in the hobby. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Darling, most men will screw anything moving. There's no doubt about that. That's what makes this such a profitable industry. Some guys can't be trusted around their own kids, let alone some random young girl. There are married men who have extramarital affairs with other men. Do you know they shut down child pornography webrings a couple times a year? Social mores have nothing to do with what men are attracted to and why.

Those were different times, and now different cultures, where girls are viewed as negotiating tools, and a means of stability. Those ladies didn't have any say so on whether they had any dealings with a man. The times have changed and women actually have rights. At this point, the question is whether or not you respect that. There's no doubt that girls physically mature as early as 14, but DESPITE the LAW, will a man respect that she is not EMOTIONALLY ready for ANY physical relationship with a man? Even at 18? Granted, once you clear the legalities, there are very mature young ladies, and you can find some old fools. But in GENERAL, the only thing connecting you to an 18 year old with an age difference over 20 years is your money and her cookie. You don't like the same music, she knows no one you know, and she doesn't get your jokes. She only laughs because of the inflection of your voice.

There are men who have standards. No bullshit, FnF. I'm not saying they're perfect and do the right thing all the time, but some people actually reflect on their actions. If they don't like the feeling, they don't do it. Some gents actually put thought into picking their companions and Sugarbabies. Some Sugardaddies are not into playing games, and seek out women 30+ that they know can guarantee a good time, and that is secure enough in herself to understand the nature of the relationship.

You guys should rename that SD forum the FHA, the Future Hookers of America, because that's what you're breeding. I guess that doesn't matter after you're done with them...

Sugardaddy, strip club, Backpage. It's all sex for money, no one way any better than the other.

Age is just a number. If we go out for dinner, I don't really care what pople around think, because all my attention is on my date...or on that waitress that just scratched her ass...I want to see if she will wash her hands before bringing our food. Eh.

If you can make me cum, or even better make me have an orgasm age is really the least of my worries lol. Beside, older men are the reason chilvary isn't dead.

An interesting thread. Lots of people defining what is "normal" or "abnormal", and not agreeing with each other.

Tiffany, I always enjoy what you write. I may agree or disagree with individual posts, but they are worth reading.

Personally my ideal age for a lady is mid 30s to mid 40s. Typically younger than that there is little common interest, though I have met some unusually interesting ladies in their upper 20s.

I do find that a lot of younger (20s) ladies DO enjoy dating older men, both here and in real life. Looks are a much bigger part of the equation for most men. How a lady is treated can outweigh a lot of surface blemishes. Resect and paying attention to a lady's body more than the words can go a long way.

I am going to get blasted for this but what the heck. I think its sick if a guy sees a girl who is young enough to be her father, or even worse, grandfather. Ive never talked to a younger provider who bragged about liking the older men, but they do it because they need the money. I know one lady who is late 20's and takes something to zone her out in order to deal with it. So from my interaction, Im going to say nope.

I myself have a NGA policy. Im a cougar and I like the younger guys--which by the way they(cubs) have no issues with an older woman. I advertise as a cougar and find it odd that much older men hit me up. Im like dude I would have to be 90 in order to be a cougar to you lol.

To each his own, but there is something wrong with a guy who wants one as young as his daughter or granddaughter...just sayn Originally Posted by kymberlane

You say "they" have no issue with an older woman..........you probably havent interviewed all of them. Yeah you might be a milf or a fantasy to the young bucks, but check out FB, there's usually not a lot of fratboy pics with topless "cougars".

Hell digging in grandpa's pocket for change may just be the trigger someone needs to get the little man in the boat to stand at attention..........just sayn

Youre and cougar and like the younger guys??? Do you hear yourself?? Well I'm a Lion and like the younger girls!!??
Sorry to tell you but it's inherent in all species to attempt to breed with the ones that stand the best chance of delivering healthy strong baby. That would not be a women that defines herself as a "cougar", but rather someone in the late teens to early twentys. Sorry, I dont make the rules just are "driven" by them!!

An interesting thread. Lots of people defining what is "normal" or "abnormal", and not agreeing with each other.

Tiffany, I always enjoy what you write. I may agree or disagree with individual posts, but they are worth reading.

Personally my ideal age for a lady is mid 30s to mid 40s. Typically younger than that there is little common interest, though I have met some unusually interesting ladies in their upper 20s.

I do find that a lot of younger (20s) ladies DO enjoy dating older men, both here and in real life. Looks are a much bigger part of the equation for most men. How a lady is treated can outweigh a lot of surface blemishes. Resect and paying attention to a lady's body more than the words can go a long way. Originally Posted by Old-T

Thank you Old-T.

And I agree 100%. I think a lot of what women feel alludes men because they either don't pay attention to or over-think body language and facial expressions.

And there are young ladies who completely enjoy older men. I never really got the chance when I wanted to. I was a pool shark at 17, and by 18 I was on a team playing in tourneys with men my dad's age. I always got the little girl pat on the head and the "you're going to make some man very happy one day" talks. Now that I look back, I looked like I was freakin' 12. I think that's why I have such respect for older men, since they have always been respectful to me, always willing to teach me what they knew, and still treated me like a lady.

This was me at 20. A complete tomboy, sans makeup, completely unsophisticated and unsexy.

Hurry up and take a look, because it'll be down soon.

I love older gentlemen! They know how to DATY!!!



I love it!!
From my experience, this is %10000 true. +1!! Originally Posted by Majestycctx

Older clients (70+) are a problem. Often erectile dysfunction is combined with heart meds that preclude viagra use. And I don't care how much you pay me, spending an hour trying to get you hard is not acceptable. However, if said client is honest with me and honest with himself (denial about no wood is BAD BAD BAD) then a great time can still be had. But I'm not going to get lockjaw/carpal tunnel because he refuses to admit that his shit doesn't work and hasn't for a long time. Originally Posted by Lovely_Lilianna

I dunno, I was the last provider a member from here saw before he past away recently. From what he said, he had a mild heart attack after our session and another 2 days later that killed him. Do I feel bad? Not one bit. I know I gave him one hell of a last ride! As far as ED, why would you complain about kissing, touching, sucking, fondling and such for your session? Unless you're in a rush to get him off, even if a man can't get it up he can most definitely still enjoy himself. You are being paid for your time, not if he finishes or not right? -- Well, as long as you're doing your part to try that is. Besides, I'm trained in advance life saving techs and have no qualms with calling 911 and explaining the situation if something serious was to happen. What are they going to do, charge me for saving a mans life?

I am going to get blasted for this but what the heck. I think its sick if a guy sees a girl who is young enough to be her father, or even worse, grandfather. Ive never talked to a younger provider who bragged about liking the older men, but they do it because they need the money. I know one lady who is late 20's and takes something to zone her out in order to deal with it. So from my interaction, Im going to say nope. How dare you assume that because I enjoy an older man I'm just a money hungry gold digger? As a matter of fact, most providers like older gents because they are more gentle. They have the experience and know how to actually please a woman instead of wham bam thank you ma'am.

I myself have a NGA policy. Im a cougar and I like the younger guys--which by the way they(cubs) have no issues with an older woman. I advertise as a cougar and find it odd that much older men hit me up. Im like dude I would have to be 90 in order to be a cougar to you lol. You have the audacity to talk down so severely about the opposite when you like banging little boys? You dear, need a reality check.

To each his own, but there is something wrong with a guy who wants one as young as his daughter or granddaughter...just sayn Originally Posted by kymberlane

Are you serious? You do realize you're in the business of making fantasies into reality correct? Calling my clients pedos for liking fresh meat is absurd. Just because you like getting tossed around by the young bucks doesn't mean the mature men who enjoy a young *woman's* attention have ANYTHING wrong with them. Lets be real here, we are all adults no? You're just being inflammatory without reason. Hopefully your ploy for attention doesn't blow up in your face. Best of luck.

In my observing, most young providers don't like seeing anyone, it's all about the money and run, or rules they must go by.

But the few that do, holy shit, hold on for the ride. Unfortunately this seems to be the general consensus about younger providers, but I assure you, not all are like that. If you do some research and choose a pretty young thing who's proven she can hang with the big girls, you're sure to be amazed. Originally Posted by nwarounder

I recently gave up on younger providers. Most of them just don't cut it. Very sad, one should never give up on anything that holds such potential for greatness. Originally Posted by exnavyemo

As for me, my tastes differ with the winds. Most of my callers are at least 10 years my senior, and yes, I prefer it that way. In my experience I've found that not only do older men know their way around a womans body more than a 20 something year old boy, they are usually all the more happy when a young woman reacts to their embrace. Best DATY I've ever received was in fact from a man who could have easily been my fathers age. I get the fresh off a tour youngsters every so often when a wave comes through here (Biloxi being a big military town) and I've only met a few who weren't overly rough or that I didn't have to guide or correct half a dozen times. Over enthusiastic and over zealous pre men just tend to make me more antsy than comfortable.
Having the intellect, finesse and patience to play with a man who's been around the block and seen his share of wonders just means you have to work a little harder to wow him. I'm ok with that.

I haven't had sex with anyone younger than say, 25 since 1973 when I was in coollege. I would love to do a legal-teen . . . but I'd be concerned about a few things.

Flaky-factor is one: I know that at the stroke of midnight a 17 year old minor becomes an adult. Many are fully mature above the shoulders well before that (please no flaming for this remark). My point is: many women 18-19-20 are still just kids though.

The other thing: Being active in the hobby world is a series of calculated risks. We all know and deal with these risks. However, these days the penalties for having sex with a minor can trump about anything else. Being considered a registered sex offender for life is one of them.

So hen, knowing that someone is actually older than 18 plus a day or two becomes very important. How sure are you? I had a fake ID when I was a teen (so I could drink). When I was in college there was a freshman (17 y/o) with a receding hirline and mustach who could pass for 30 in any liquer store in town . . .they didn't even card him—ever.

This could be the biggest problem with seeing a young provider today. How young is she really, and how do you know?

And yet, what is the CW song . . ."More money, faster horses, older whisky and younger women!" Ddi I get that right?

I love older men and its absolutely no problem to date them - as for me. I love older gents because there is a Knight - like chivalry that I cannot possibly get from a young buck my age. Young gentlemen also fuck like rabbits, instead of slow rolling - stroke it with the MOTION!

I'm 23.... I love the older gentleman.... they really know how to please a lady I don't mind that they are older... I don't discriminate age... I look at whether we "click" or not

Recently had a delightful session with a provider that was young enough to be my granddaughter. She revealed to me that I was actually the exact age of her father. She was great. At my age and post-prostate cancer I take a little more time to "rise to the occasion" but my provider was sensitive, attentive and I was ready to go in less than a minute. Ws that minute a waste of her time as some posters have implied or is this merely part of the equation?