Stripper Slides. No thanks...

I don't know what the deal is lately with guys asking if I provide Stripper Slide. I had one this evening request it, and when I declined politely he told me that he would not see me. Wow. Originally Posted by mercianna

Surely this is a new happening in this business. Customer asks for something. Provider doesn't offer it. Customer searches for another provider.

First of all, I think it is wrong to put me in that position in the first place. Second, how can someone hold that against a provider just because she values her health and reputation. Originally Posted by mercianna

Uh what? So you think he should've scheduled with you even after you said you don't do what he's looking for? What kind of bullshit is that? For someone who doesn't know what the hell SS even is, you're making some huge judgements here.

If I offered SS I might as well announce I offer BBFS. At least that's how I feel about it. It would be too easy for it to just "slip in" even if you weren't still exchanging bodily fluids. Originally Posted by mercianna

Please put away your Jump To Conclusions mat. For someone that's never done it, how the hell do you know how easy it would be for it to "slip in"? do you offer DATY? Kissing? BBBJ? guess what skippy, you're exchanging bodily fluids.

When I told him I would never go bb...His reply was that he wasn't asking me to & fine, then no date tonight. I am a little pissed that just because I have self respect...it was held against me. Am I wrong? Do other providers offer this service? Just wondering, nothing is going to change my mind or convince me to offer it. They have to be getting it somewhere or they wouldn't be asking for it. Originally Posted by mercianna

So now you're judging every other provider out there that does offer this service? Sure reads like you're saying anyone who does this has no self respect.

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I FUCKING LOVE MIDGETS AND VODKA!!!!!!!!

Any Midget with a bottle of CIROC can get the STARFISH lol
Originally Posted by berkleigh

I'm only 5'8", does that count as a midget ????

I've only had a SS a few times and I don't think that a covered one would be any different.

You're an idiot. What's the problem here? He asked if you provided a service, you said no, and then he said no. What's the issue? Not any different from asking if you'll do greek. Plus, you even admitted that he stated he wasn't looking for bb, but yet you make a big deal about it as if he was. As far as asking if other girls provide this then that's just stupid. Unless you just climbed out from under a rock yesterday then obivously you know girls provide this service. You're just bitchin' to bitch and doing a perfect example of a "look at me" act just to get attention.

I don't know what the deal is lately with guys asking if I provide Stripper Slide. I had one this evening request it, and when I declined politely he told me that he would not see me. Wow. First of all, I think it is wrong to put me in that position in the first place. Second, how can someone hold that against a provider just because she values her health and reputation. If I offered SS I might as well announce I offer BBFS. At least that's how I feel about it. It would be too easy for it to just "slip in" even if you weren't still exchanging bodily fluids. When I told him I would never go bb...His reply was that he wasn't asking me to & fine, then no date tonight. I am a little pissed that just because I have self respect...it was held against me. Am I wrong? Do other providers offer this service? Just wondering, nothing is going to change my mind or convince me to offer it. They have to be getting it somewhere or they wouldn't be asking for it. Originally Posted by mercianna

A NURU masage is one fabulous stripper slide, with hot ass oil all over and it is awesome. If the provider doing it has any sense there is never any accidental penetration, it is done while you are on your back, and when you turn over it is done in a 69 position. LeiLee can absolutely slip and slide like no other, She is the stripper slide Queen,

I was trying to understand my own feelings. I was sincerely asking for input and information. I didn't understand, was confused and my feelings were hurt. I felt a certain way and wanted to know if my feelings were irrational. I was at no time, in any way, shape or form judging anyone. Just because you say I am does not make it so.

Ricky James. I am far from being an idiot. Usually people that feel the need to insult others have low self esteem and are subconsciously standing in front of a mirror. Attempting to make another person look bad does not make oneself look any better. I never said I had a problem. Seeking to learn does not constitute a problem.

If you can't understand what the post was trying to say and instead decide to post your opinion of what you think I meant to say. Realize that's what you think and not fact. If you jump to conclusions without comprehension you might be wrong. If you have an opinion and use it to cloud your thinking and read things between the lines that do not exist...that's on you too. Assumptions rarely have merit and often cause needless problems & wounded feelings.

If some woman tells me how she feels about something, my immediate assumption is that she wants an answer, or that she wants me to solve her problem. In fact, all she wants to do is share, or show how she feels.
Fred Ward

You proceed from a false assumption: I have no ego to bruise.
Leonard Nimoy

And please... If this does not apply to you, then let it fly. If it does, deal with it as it is meant to be dealt with...constructively. Think outside the box.
(I am not talking about the ss's. I am talking about some peoples propensity of stating judgmental views based on their personal opinion rather than actual truth or fact and others who seem to delight in encouraging others to do so with snarky, sarcastic and strategically placed lol's)

...proclaim it from a mountaintop like it was gospel truth and they have been given divine inspiration... I don't take anything personally. I don't make assumptions... Nothing you can ever do can ever take back something you have said once you say it... I am going to choose my words carefully...

Sorry Mercianna but judging from this thread and others, there seems to be a whole lotta drama surrounding you. You say that the guy harassed you for 3 hours, well have you never heard of a blocked call list? Why did you not just block the guy or ignore him? Seriously, it seems that drama follows you around like a little lost puppy.

Okay, to summarize:

1. A provider's willingness to provide a SS is NOT indicative of a willingness to provide BBFS, and anybody who says otherwise is just plain wrong.

2. A guy is within his rights to inquire about a SS and thereafter decline an appointment if the provider does not engage in that particular activity.

3. It's not okay to harass a provider for 3 hours (or any amount of time) once she makes clear that a particular service is not on the menu.

Thank you eccienewbie.

Alright, then let's just all move along.

Incidentally, I've told you in private, now I'll say it public: your new unedited pics are excellent. Good on ya, and best of luck.

Thank you eccienewbie...nice to hear a voice of reason. I'm glad you like the pics!

The only issue I have with this issue (heh heh) is that it seems to be taboo to ask about services on the phone or pm or email prior to the appointment. Do we need to wait til we get to the in call to find out that a particular activity is not on the menu?

Yes, I know to check the reviews for that, but apparently those are not always completely thorough, judging from this thread.