Why no Black Men?

I had a lady once refuse to see me when I showed up because she said I looked like I would hurt her. I'm 6'3 around 315. She was 5'5 ish 140. SO its kinda like being black right? :P Originally Posted by KenMonk

I'm 6'3 too and weigh about 310# so i have had a similar feeling that you had once before. I don't care if a provider sees black men, i wont visit her if I know she sees short men. i can not stand short men and I will add she better not see men named Todd or Andy, every Todd and Andy i have ever known was a prick. Got it ladies, the deal breaker is short guys and guys named Todd and Andy I need you to be up front about this if we ever talk.

I'm 6'3 too and weigh about 310# so i have had a similar feeling that you had once before. I don't care if a provider sees black men, i wont visit her if I know she sees short men. i can not stand short men and I will add she better not see men named Todd or Andy, every Todd and Andy i have ever known was a prick. Got it ladies, the deal breaker is short guys and guys named Todd and Andy I need you to be up front about this if we ever talk. Originally Posted by buzzworm86

Lol I love it....

I'm 6'3 too and weigh about 310# so i have had a similar feeling that you had once before. I don't care if a provider sees black men, i wont visit her if I know she sees short men. i can not stand short men and I will add she better not see men named Todd or Andy, every Todd and Andy i have ever known was a prick. Got it ladies, the deal breaker is short guys and guys named Todd and Andy I need you to be up front about this if we ever talk. Originally Posted by buzzworm86

lol You know I've never met a decent dude named Todd or Andy.... you may be onto something here.

lol You know I've never met a decent dude named Todd or Andy.... you may be onto something here. Originally Posted by KenMonk

Heck yes I everytime that damn Andy calls me its trouble and don't get me started on Todd haha

Also another reason why white ladies won't see black guys... They may lose upscale white regulars. I have heard this as a reason several times, happens a lot in Texas. There is a large goup of guys there that will not see ladies who see black gents. Originally Posted by KenMonk

Ladies are well advised to make their client feel like they are their only client.

or their favorite client,

or at least their first client of the day.

Please don't tell your white clients that you PREFER black clients,
(a white provider told me that once)
and don't tell your Upscale clients that you even accept black clients.

A different time, I was enjoying a pleasurable experience with a provider with a glorious, giant, round booty.

I complimented her on her special endowment.
She thanked me and informed me that is why most of her clients are black.

I felt a bit uneasy about that, don't quite understand why.

Because ewwwww.

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lol You know I've never met a decent dude named Todd or Andy.... you may be onto something here. Originally Posted by KenMonk

pricks all of them, I tell ya!

I appreciate a person's right to chose. But as an AA client, I do appreciate some notice on the ad. "No black men", etc. That saves me the trouble of contacting a provider that doesn't want to see me.

All black men are not the same, although people like to put people in a box and leave them there. Whoever doesn't want to see a black man I say Why Not??? Like I said, all Black men are not the same they must have had one or couple bad experiences with them and think ALL are the same which is the wrong way to go about it. I use to post "Cater to White Men only" but I stepped out of that box and now have a couple good black clients who are willing to pay, not ghetto, and are professional men! You could be missing out on something big if you do that. I see all men, and still got a tight pussy.. LOL cause I'll tell ya all black men don't have big dicks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!! Stop stereotyping people and get with the program. Shit if you not comfortable with WHOMEVER the race don't see him! PERIOD! Seem to me lots of white providers are intimidated by black men don't let these men scare you away. Me being black seem like I scare some away... why is that????? I'm not scary!

It's all a matter of preference. Who am I attracted to, who am I comfortable with, who do I "click" with. Chances are good that if you have red hair, really skinny, or really pale I wouldn't see you. Is that bad, I don't think so, it says nothing about the provider as a person but says a lot about me and my preferences. I would think a provider has the same right to choose. Sure the driving force behind some women on here is purely money but, for others, along with the money, Can't they quite possibly choose in part by looks (if they ask for a picture) which is exactly what everybody does in their "real life". Consequently, if a provider or a client chooses not to see a person because they are "AA", have red hair, or whatever. Then it's quite possible that it's not (although with some it is which they really need to get over humans are human) racially based but based on who they want to spend a little time with, past experiences, hair color,...... I there anything wrong with that?

We providers run a business therefore you should be open to accepting everyone. Just like a 711, or any other business, what you going to do turn away a customer because they are black? Wrong on some many levels! A CLIENT /CUSTOMER does have the right to choose what business he wants to spend his money though!

And a provider has the right to choose who she wishes to see for WHATEVER reason.


Every business has the right to refuse service to people. Just like 7-11.

Yes you have the right to do as you please. I'm just saying. I know, cause I use to be in that situation where I would only see white men. The business is limiting themselves to BUSINESS. A 7-11 will only refuse business to people for bad reasons FROM ANYONE NOT JUST BLACKS!

A business chooses to refuse service for numerous reasons. I would refuse service to a guy for numerous reasons, if I saw funky spots on his dick, a terrible B.O. problem that wasn't solved with a good shower, etc.


I asked this question and no one has yet to answer it......


Why does anyone else care who a lady chooses to see? Some ladies don't see heavily overweight men, younger guys, older guys, etc. and I don't see posts about those choices.