Sugar Daddy

For providers here on Eccie, the best advice I could give would be to treat every single client as if he had the potential to become your one and only.

If you put your best foot forward, the word is bound to get out on how incredible you are. The much desired sugar daddy could very easily be someone you're already seeing. Any client just might be "the one" without you even knowing it.

Past dates I've had that were 2+ days in length, started off as 1 hour dates. The one hour requests soon turned into two hour requests, soon we added in social time and going to dinner and bowling and playing pool, shopping, fine dining, meeting in random cities. For me it was something that grew.

I agree. Just be yourself! This is supposed to be fun, not a job. All of us have many different experiences that we can teach each other. And when a gentleman wants to hang out with me and converse or do something rather than just bone, its those dates i enjoy and remember.

And i would never dis a boss who can afford to pay a receptionist over $30/hr. Guaranteed that I'm having more fun and bringing home more though.

Damn I saw this thread to late lol. I agree with most of it, met a SD off any SD site. Wierd how many are on there and are broke or unwilling to help at all. And I for one am not high maintenance, pay my bills and I'm happy But yes there is more money in the escort business!!!

Damn I saw this thread to late lol. I agree with most of it, met a SD off any SD site. Wierd how many are on there and are broke or unwilling to help at all. And I for one am not high maintenance, pay my bills and I'm happy But yes there is more money in the escort business!!! Originally Posted by bustyamy

And to most its all about the money
That is what separates you from a sugar baby.

Sugar Daddy= You're establishing a relationship with someone that enjoys the benefits of being with an older guy. This includes he is able to afford better dinners, gifts, trips. Knows opening the door for a woman is like breathing, its a must. She normally is attracted to older guys and loves the attention she receives.

UTR Hooker: One that doesn't advertise that she is a hooker and relies on answering ads of lonely men to pay less than going rate.
They sometimes refer themselves to sugar baby to make themselves feel good about being a hooker and the guy thinks he is getting a deal. She normally sees a few different men because he cannot meet her needs as he isnt a sugar daddy.

FWB= Banging someone for FREE. No emotional ties and just a sexual release for both.

Hooker on retainer = A woman that hooks up with an older guy for a set amount of money per month for so many meets. She normally only sees one guy to stop her from feeling like a hooker and the guy feels like he has a real sugar baby. He may buy her a phone or nice clothes here and there as well to make himself look like a sugar daddy. This can also be a retired or active hooker looking for a steady income and looking to get out of the "Stranger at the door" scene.

Sugar Daddy= You're establishing a relationship with someone that enjoys the benefits of being with an older guy. This includes he is able to afford better dinners, gifts, trips. Knows opening the door for a woman is like breathing, its a must. She normally is attracted to older guys and loves the attention she receives.

UTR Hooker: One that doesn't advertise that she is a hooker and relies on answering ads of lonely men to pay less than going rate.
They sometimes refer themselves to sugar baby to make themselves feel good about being a hooker and the guy thinks he is getting a deal. She normally sees a few different men because he cannot meet her needs as he isnt a sugar daddy.

FWB= Banging someone for FREE. No emotional ties and just a sexual release for both.

Hooker on retainer = A woman that hooks up with an older guy for a set amount of money per month for so many meets. She normally only sees one guy to stop her from feeling like a hooker and the guy feels like he has a real sugar baby. He may buy her a phone or nice clothes here and there as well to make himself look like a sugar daddy. This can also be a retired or active hooker looking for a steady income and looking to get out of the "Stranger at the door" scene. Originally Posted by Gotyour6

I think you pretty much summed it up.

I would love to be a Sugardaddy but my problem is that the women I would be interested in spending time with would not want to spend time with me except for the donations. I am at a stage in my life that I can financially support a Sugarbaby in style but what young thing would wants to spend time with an old man. When I was younger and desirable I didn’t have the funds to support a Sugarbaby nor did I need one. Now I am lonesome with my money. Originally Posted by theotherguy1

You are beginning to understand how things work in RL. The best you'll get is the GFE. In real life most young ladies aren't interested in being with someone who is older. They don't want you as a BF and it is hard for them to ignore that they are with you for their material needs only. The bottom line here is that SD\SB relationships have a different feel. They ignore that it is sex for money and it feels to them more like a BF\GF relationship. I can assure you that many SD\SB relationships would be dead if either the sex or the money dissappeared but they just don't realize it until something changes. Your best bet is to treat all the ladies you meet well. You'll be amazed at what your money can buy you and often she'll be thinking it has nothing to do with what you buy her. You'll be thinking she really cares! Just remember what I say. You won't ever have a GF. I feel just like you do. I'm getting a bit too old to have a much younger woman be really interested. However, I do get some great treatment!

I think a lot of men on the SD sites are somewhat ambivalent about the whole idea, so they never quite take the plunge. Furthermore, the ones I have exchanged correspondence with seem a bit too eager... so much that its off-putting.

I think a lot of men on the SD sites are somewhat ambivalent about the whole idea, so they never quite take the plunge. Furthermore, the ones I have exchanged correspondence with seem a bit too eager... so much that its off-putting. Originally Posted by PriscillaRose

I suspect that some of these guys are screening... looking at your website or postings on escort sites.

Like any aspect of this business, there is a connection between cost and perceived value received.

I suspect that some of these guys are screening... looking at your website or postings on escort sites. Originally Posted by Seeker

That would make sense had it been the case, but I have only had a website up for about 2 days, and I have no ads anywhere. But I understand your point and that would make sense. I think its actually because I'm older than dirt and they want a sweet young thang ;-)

That would make sense had it been the case, but I have only had a website up for about 2 days, and I have no ads anywhere. But I understand your point and that would make sense. I think its actually because I'm older than dirt and they want a sweet young thang ;-) Originally Posted by PriscillaRose

Older ladies can do it better! Experience counts. Too bad you are too far . I like my ladies close enough to hold and give cash to. Wait a minute? Being a SB isn't supposed to be about material things. Can sex be done Dutch treat?

My boyfriend and I are kinda going through a rough time I guess but I think it's mostly just because I'm a little unhappy right now. I'm not gonna lie. I reeeeeeeeaaaaalllly want to be married and have that commitment especially since now I'm 34 weeks pregnant and I'd really like my daughter to grow up under a "family". It's important to me for her. But he doesn't seem to be in any sort of rush and we've talked about it. Back in September he took me to a store to pick out a ring and I saw the ring I wanted. Then when taxes came back this year we had enough money for the ring and I told him that. He knew that I wanted to get married in June of this year but these past few months he's made some comments about getting married June of next year not this year. Then the whole ring thing he didn't really say much of anything until around the time when I was gonna actually go through with us getting it. He started making comments about how maybe I should spend that money on school or something else and that we'd get the ring next year or something, etc. I was really hurt by it all because he took me to look at that ring in the first place months ago so I thought that once we could afford it he'd get it. Now it's like all of these little excuses for why he's in no rush and then he says stuff like he wishes I would help clean and cook more often. I don't know what his real deal is. Maybe he's just scared to commit. He hasn't really had a good example of marriage or relationships growing up in his family and in his own life. Or maybe he just doesn't want to be with me forever really? I don't know.

JJ, your profile says you are a male....and you're pregnant? Hummmmm......
You should probably explain in a PM to me.

ops time ta start a new other handle.