I'm back, explanations, apologies, and a rant.

Well JS, I agree with you. Two weeks was very short. However, in light of the emails I got, I would say I was more than punished enough. I would have vastly preferred a much longer suspension, without the public announcement. A longer suspension would have more than adequately gotten the message across, while sparing me the level of venom that was hurled at me.

Not true. I have a credit card and I've never done it. Originally Posted by Staci Stacked

I didn't say you did, just that you could if you wanted to.

Oy with the pearl clutching. So a woman saw your precious men's lounge. You act like this has never happened before in the history of the Internet. Anyone else remember about a year ago when they had to completely shut down the powder room? Honestly, the men in this thread that are all "mah privacy!" just come off as naive and guilty.
A six month ban? Really? What exactly have YOU been saying in private that you are so scared to have a lady read?

As for the mods......they are clients first, never forget that. I've had a bad reputation among quite a few of the most active posters on this board for as long as I've been on it and yet somehow my business keeps growing. Just because you have shit tons of time to post on a SHMB doesn't make you special and usually means you are somewhat deficient socially. Fritz dealt with me fairly when I had to deal with him but I am not even remotely surprised by his behavior. And I know everyone got off on kissing FireSerpents ass but the man is a borderline pimp and a scumbag.

Stacy was the subject of ABUSE. If Your sister was dating a guy that treated her the way Stacy has been treated you would kick his ass. But this is just another example of how, when it really counts and you have the chance to be an honorable human being, most of you think we are subhuman (and some of the local ladies who reward this behavior....make your money now, cause when you are old and busted they won't think your schtick is worth more than a $30 gummer).

Oy with the pearl clutching. So a woman saw your precious men's lounge. You act like this has never happened before in the history of the Internet. Anyone else remember about a year ago when they had to completely shut down the powder room? Honestly, the men in this thread that are all "mah privacy!" just come off as naive and guilty.
A six month ban? Really? What exactly have YOU been saying in private that you are so scared to have a lady read?

As for the mods......they are clients first, never forget that. I've had a bad reputation among quite a few of the most active posters on this board for as long as I've been on it and yet somehow my business keeps growing. Just because you have shit tons of time to post on a SHMB doesn't make you special and usually means you are somewhat deficient socially. Fritz dealt with me fairly when I had to deal with him but I am not even remotely surprised by his behavior. And I know everyone got off on kissing FireSerpents ass but the man is a borderline pimp and a scumbag.



Stacy was the subject of ABUSE. If Your sister was dating a guy that treated her the way Stacy has been treated you would kick his ass. But this is just another example of how, when it really counts and you have the chance to be an honorable human being, most of you think we are subhuman (and some of the local ladies who reward this behavior....make your money now, cause when you are old and busted they won't think your schtick is worth more than a $30 gummer). Originally Posted by Lovely_Lilianna

I completely agree with you.

I'm not worried about anything I have said in private that a lady would find out about. I'm sure the ladies that have access to the ML can verify that.

Nice to have ya around again Lilianna, just please put the bottle down. Your ugly side is showing.

Oy with the pearl clutching. So a woman saw your precious men's lounge. You act like this has never happened before in the history of the Internet. Anyone else remember about a year ago when they had to completely shut down the powder room? Honestly, the men in this thread that are all "mah privacy!" just come off as naive and guilty.
A six month ban? Really? What exactly have YOU been saying in private that you are so scared to have a lady read?

As for the mods......they are clients first, never forget that. I've had a bad reputation among quite a few of the most active posters on this board for as long as I've been on it and yet somehow my business keeps growing. Just because you have shit tons of time to post on a SHMB doesn't make you special and usually means you are somewhat deficient socially. Fritz dealt with me fairly when I had to deal with him but I am not even remotely surprised by his behavior. And I know everyone got off on kissing FireSerpents ass but the man is a borderline pimp and a scumbag.

Stacy was the subject of ABUSE. If Your sister was dating a guy that treated her the way Stacy has been treated you would kick his ass. But this is just another example of how, when it really counts and you have the chance to be an honorable human being, most of you think we are subhuman (and some of the local ladies who reward this behavior....make your money now, cause when you are old and busted they won't think your schtick is worth more than a $30 gummer). Originally Posted by Lovely_Lilianna

I am no WK of her....but when she is thinking straight, this lady knows how to cut thru the BS

Always fun to get LL's perceptive....well at least most of the time

Oy with the pearl clutching. So a woman saw your precious men's lounge. You act like this has never happened before in the history of the Internet. Anyone else remember about a year ago when they had to completely shut down the powder room? Honestly, the men in this thread that are all "mah privacy!" just come off as naive and guilty.
A six month ban? Really? What exactly have YOU been saying in private that you are so scared to have a lady read?

As for the mods......they are clients first, never forget that. I've had a bad reputation among quite a few of the most active posters on this board for as long as I've been on it and yet somehow my business keeps growing. Just because you have shit tons of time to post on a SHMB doesn't make you special and usually means you are somewhat deficient socially. Fritz dealt with me fairly when I had to deal with him but I am not even remotely surprised by his behavior. And I know everyone got off on kissing FireSerpents ass but the man is a borderline pimp and a scumbag.

Stacy was the subject of ABUSE. If Your sister was dating a guy that treated her the way Stacy has been treated you would kick his ass. But this is just another example of how, when it really counts and you have the chance to be an honorable human being, most of you think we are subhuman (and some of the local ladies who reward this behavior....make your money now, cause when you are old and busted they won't think your schtick is worth more than a $30 gummer). Originally Posted by Lovely_Lilianna

We never met and I know we have had some bad blood.....but God I still love you!

My position on the M/L's has always been...sure it would be great if it was secure. But there are no real secrets about it.

I just view it as a place where we don't get interrupted, lol

I didn't say you did, just that you could if you wanted to. Originally Posted by royamcr

I know you didn't say that, and I do want to, I just don't. LOL

Not sure if it's because I "try to follow the rules" or because a part of me really doesn't want to see what may be said about me...after all, incredibly mean things are said in the main forums alone, so I shudder to think what's said BCD. lol

haha, ya ignorance is bliss. :-) Just don't ignore a hurting tooth.

I've had a bad reputation. Originally Posted by Lovely_Lilianna

I like girls with bad reputations! Sorry we never met, maybe I need to make a trip out west.

I look at it as, it is not my board and I don't make the rules. They who own the board make the rules and an individual follows them or not. If not, they run a risk of being caught, awarded points, being suspended, banned or whatever. Again, I don't own the board so I don't make the "punishment."

All I can do is use whatever information I can gleen from the board and try to make a more informed decision of whom I see or not.

BTW, any guy who thinks the men's room is private is a moron.

If they have any common sense perhaps they choose to rethink their jackal-like behavior. Your attitude in this thread, along with bigryan, leads me to believe that you two are an active part of the problem and you should be ashamed.

OMG a woman called us out for being assholes! Bitch. Originally Posted by Lovely_Lilianna

Interesting. I don't know you or sins. I have never communicated with sins other than these two posts in this thread. So I am an active part of what?

I should be ashamed of what?

... And let me add this important fact that is slightly off topic. Ari has A beautiful set of naturals.

Yep, unfortunately you are right, the door is ajar and some will take advantage of it. I have nothing against Stacy, never met her, but this is why I was opposed to such a light ban for what she did. The ax should of fell much harder so the example could of been set and give any of the other female providers pause to think if it's worth it. Not talking about a lifetime ban, but more like 6 months for first time. Originally Posted by JS42

So, how much time should a guy get for leaking locker room info?

Oy with the pearl clutching. [. . .] (and some of the local ladies who reward this behavior....make your money now, cause when you are old and busted they won't think your schtick is worth more than a $30 gummer). Originally Posted by Lovely_Lilianna

Boy, I love you... will you marry me

I hope the West is treating you well! I'm glad to see you're back articulately making good arguments... you should have "argument" sessions :P With make-up included.

Well said. If you ever run for office, once upon a life I was a political consultant! lol

NOTE: I'm also no WK of LLs, but you know, hot women articulately making great arguments... she just needs a pencil skirt, heels and a business jacket and I'll clear off the desk... she does cut through the BS and tell it like it is.